How do I make my boyfriend cum?

So every time I make out with my boyfriend things get a little steamy and I always end up touching his dick thorough his boxers but I have never actually made him cum and I feel kinda bad about that. He gets really hard and excited and produces a lot of precum but i really want to finish him off so i would really appreciate some tips to make the session more enjoyable for him. (We only touch each other through our underwear and i dont want to go any further so keep that in mind?)
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  • What’s the difference between through clothes and skin to skin? Unless he’s into pain from skin abrasions on his penis and blue balls you’re gonna have to risk skin somehow or just leave it alone entirely. But it’s too late now since you’ve come so far and so close. You need to discuss this with him to know for sure. Some guys can be pleasured without touching the penis at all. Experiment and discuss this openly with him.

  • He gets "close" but the fabric inevitably becomes abrasive. Until you are willing to take him in hand flesh to flesh, you will go nowhere and he will lose interest. In time, if you don't make him cum, you will make him go. An unfinished hand job is worse than none.

Most Helpful Girls

  • It's very messy if you don't actually want to touch it.. Go for it, as others have said it doesn't bite (plus if you give him a blowjob you DON'T have to swallow it, use a condom or spit it out)!

  • suck his dick or dont do anything at all. you can't do much with underwear on.

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  • Then you don't really want to make him cum. He needs skin to skin contact. What are you afraid of? It doesn't bite!

  • Grab his dick over the underwear and give it a nice fast stroke and rub. You will end up with his messy undies and your messy hands.

  • Ask him.

  • It just doesn't work like that. It is very hard and rare to cum from that alone. Guys need more action than that. You need to go a bit further with sticking your hand inside his underwear and actually stroke him skin on skin.

  • He'll probably snap and rape you.

  • I have had many ogasms like that just run him with your had and tell him you want to feel the wet cum he can deliver.

    That's hot, if you ask me.

  • It's going to be difficult to get him to cum threw boxers. I guess you'll have to just jerk him off threw them

  • Watch some vids online lol most likely best bet will be dry humping through cloths or trying to give a hand job but both are pretty shit as if he finishes he will fuck his cloths up

  • You need to give him a proper handjob. To do that you need to get past your block about touching his penis without it being covered by his underwear.

  • Its easy

  • He needs direct stimulation of his penis. Just give him a regular handjob.

  • If you don't want to put his dick in your mouth then forget it.

  • Focus on the head

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  • unless you are at it for a long time then you will have to go a step forward if you want to make him cum

  • Get on top and rub genitals to genitals, that should get him to pop.

  • Suck.

  • When you touch him what do you do

  • If you're not willing to do it properly he's wasting his time with you

  • Need to give him a blow job

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