How do you know if a guy loves you if he has erectile dysfunction and can't get it up anymore?

Since on another question the opinions said he will get an erection. That puts a damper on the whole thing so, feeling my breasts, or me doing much of anything else leads to nowhere man's land. Kissing and holding each other and saying I love you is about it cause if he gets turned on we can't finish like normal people.
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  • Erection does not equal love. Spending time doing things with you and for you and enjoying your time together says a lot more about love than an erection.

  • At your age, you of all people should know sex is not everything..

    Love is shown in the little things, how he shows he cares...

    • @worldscolide I was just going by the opinions on the other post where the guys said because he will get turned on down there. Sex!

    • Oh God. No that makes sense then.

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  • You may be able to know whether a guy loves you despite erectile dysfunction if he always respects and values you as a person, and if takes into account your boundaries and makes you feel like you are important and a positive part of his life.

    • @FatNeville Oh yes, he did all of that just fine.

  • Love doesn't have anything to lust.

    He might be embarrassed but tell him to go to the proctologyst. There are simple things that may help him. Like a penis pump and cock ring.

    And a flaccid cock will orgasm from a blow job unless his issues more than erectile dysfunction.

  • He's still trying it with you despite having ED. That alone is a sign he loves you Ma'am. Take care of him. ❤️

  • You're confusing love with sex. A guy can love you, care about you, and not be willing, or able, to have sex with you.

    The opposite is also true. He can want to have sex with you, all the time, lots of sex, and not love nor care about you.

  • There's always Cunnilingus and Fingering. You can move the ground if you are good at it.

  • He's around your age?

  • he will tell you. duh. also there's no reason nowadays to even act like this is a problem
    there's many different types of medication he can take so you guys can do what you need to do

  • He tells you!

  • Has he explored all of his options? Rx, creams, pumps, penile implant? I understand a visible physical reaction speaks for itself but I hope you believe his communication and actions to demonstrate his affection for you too.

  • Love 💕 isn’t about sex

  • As long he keeps on trying and maybe go to the doctor and get some help to help home not have erectile dysfunction. As long he is trying snd using effort to have sex with you means he must really love you to get your sexual needs met.

  • dont old women have a hard time staying wet im guessing it’s that concept

  • They say actions speak louder than words, usually by how they care for, certain gestures, little surprises, like a gift or a flower on just a normal day

  • As people say. There is a pill for that. Don’t know if it works or not!
    Stuff like that happens in older guys. Might be health or medicine issues.

  • How about the fact that he tells you he loves you?

    • in_Trance He would I love you all the time. Not once did we ever end our phone calls without him say I love you to me.❤️

  • How he treats you

  • who wants love from ED?