How loud do you like a woman to be during sex?

Some men I heard from said they may feel disrespected if the girl isn’t loud during sex but a YouTuber I was looking at proposed it wasn’t elegant to be loud during sex. I was wondering, men how loud do you prefer a woman to be during sex? (Women feel free to answer too)

PS: I prefer a man to be panting during sex
How loud do you like a woman to be during sex?
I’d prefer her to be quiet
Vote A
I’d prefer her to moaning/mumbling but not yelling like a banshee
Vote B
I’d prefer her to be moaning/yelling like it’s the best time of her life
Vote C
I don’t have a preference/other (explain)
Vote D
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  • Not yelling like a banshee. I do like moans, gasps, grunts, exclamations, and some words, though. It's hot when she says things like "Your cock feels so good." "Fuck me harder." "Oh my God, yes!" "Just like that!" "Don't stop!" "I'm going to cum!"
    It can also be erotic if she is a bit noisier when she cums, but it's not necessary as long as I can tell she's cumming. I like to know that she is genuinely enjoying herself. :-)

  • Like you don't have to yell but I love to know you are enjoying it. It makes me feel very good and it can turn the situation on the hot scale up to an 11.

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  • I prefer her to be herself and not artificial / false.

    quiet is actually sexy with that little whimper etc.

  • It all depends on setting and privacy levels. If all alone in a cabin by the lake? She can make all kinds of noise, and I'll roll with it. If it's especially secluded, she can even scream during orgasm like she's being cut up with a chainsaw, and I'll be okay with it.

    Any other place where we're much more likely to be discovered? I'd want a church mouse. A little panting is fine. Some moaning. The point is, no one is going to interrupt us. Because being interrupted is my big hangup.

  • I wouldn't want her to be TOO loud, I might have trouble hearing the TV!

  • duct tape solves that crap

  • I like it noisy. I can be noisy as well.

  • Generally it's not by choice honey. It is what it is. :)

    • You never actually answer my questions but I’ll give you a like anyway 😭😂

    • Did you ever think maybe it's because of your QUESTION? Like somehow we're gonna dictate how loud she moans? I mean, come on! LOL If you're doing it at her parents you have to stuff a sock in her mouth. :)

    • There’s a big difference between ordering someone to do something and answering a question about a preference. No shade though, I’d love to see how you take on YouTube surveys

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  • B or C, depends on my mood/situation. Think I traumatized my roomies a bit with this chick a was seeing last summer. What a screamer 😂

  • In the house with the kids, quiet.
    We try to have a dedicated weekend alone and especially if we get a cabin I want her to be as loud as she wants.

    Grunting like a rutting beast in heat... describes her pretty well.

  • I prefer her to be authentic.

  • I don't care, though it's nice not to let everyone in the neighborhood know we're doin' it.

  • I vote B

  • I. like a loud woman

  • I want her to enjoy herself. If she pants moans whether loud or softly doesn't matter to me. I hear too often how someone is suppose to act while having sex. It is not natural. You have to be loud or you are too loud people will hear. Whatever happened to just enjoying yourself and letting yourself go. That is how i like having sex and i want my woman to be the same way. In that moment it is just her and I. No one else matters.

  • Whatever she feels comfortable with

  • Voted C

  • I don't need loud, but I really dislike silent.

  • her choice
    make it large

  • If she screams, she's enjoying it

  • i hate mute machine, so be vocal.

  • It just want her to be natural

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