No, that isn't selfish at all.
A good partner will try to or should try to make sure that their partner is well satisfied.
Sometimes it is a quickie, other times a couple of hours, or anything in between.
It really depends on what you and or your partner is into.
That way she will want to have sex more often which is a win win in my book.
I think the most my wife has had in one session is 6 possibly 7.
It's hard to tell sometimes.
In all fairness she was tied to the bed and her favorite vibrator lasts a really long time on a charge.
She was pretty much like unset jello at that point, and the edging sessions probably also had something to do with that.
During regular intercourse it is usually once, but it can take a while, so adding toys into the mix can help things along.
She will hold it against her while we are in her favorite position, with her ankles on my shoulders while I am kneeling, that way I can play wither her feet, a favorite of mine, and she isn't the first female that I have ever cum across (no pun intended) that like their feet tickled while having sex, but she likes it and asks for it, so I tickle her feet while we are having sex and when she cums.
She says it makers her orgasms even stronger.
I like doing that to her, watching her squirm around is a pretty good turn on for me as well, and sometimes I have to hold her foot with one hand and tickle with the other because she squirms around so much, and I will see her trying to tickle her other foot at the same time.
Hopefully you can convince him to figure out how to give you a couple before he has his happy ending.
It sounds like you are quite quick! I don't think it is selfish to ask your partner to do specific sexual things and he should be free to do the same. It might be best to wait till the weekend orgasm a few times. During the working week we might rely more on tried, trusted and quick.
A disappointment to me is that every girl has stopped me re-orgasming her after the 4th or 5th. The technique I use is on the first initiating orgasm, I wait for the vaginal spasms to finish. I count to three then flick her clit and most girls immediately re-orgasm. Repeat as many times as the girl can take. I count to three because that worked right out of the box and if it ain't broke etc.
This causes sequential multiple orgasms and is quite straightforward to induce - a good place to start. One girl did have a 15 minute orgasm with me. I was thinking I should have picked up a magazine at the time. That might be more what you want. But that 15 minute orgasm had more to do with the girl than me I think. It was a hook up so didn't get to explore further.
Now you didn't say you wanted multiple orgasm but a few orgasms. I'm just suggesting the 1-2-3 flick clit technique might be a straight forward way for you and your partner that is worth trying.
I have to mention a downside. I'm particularly triggered by feeling vaginal spasms on my cock. I might be all under control but the vaginal spasms trigger me into ejaculating. From a male view they are disappointing ejacs because I haven't built up a head of steam. It's like a damp squib. But with the clit flick routine to need to feel the vaginal spasms on your finger or on your cock. I can just avoid being triggered if I clench up my pelvic floor.
I feel bad for you, as my 1st orgasm is pretty mellow, feels good sure but not that great compared to the next level ones.
As a 2nd or 3rd + each gets more intense than before that. Which also means they are bigger and feel way better.
It does seem like many guys though only go for the first and then want to go themselves and that is the end of it.
I have no doubt that almost every guy here on GAG will claim they give her a half dozen every single time, but my personal experience is that only 15 to 20% even do more than one.
I insist on 30 to 60 minutes of foreplay and then a good amount of actual sex or no point in even doing it.
Lol. I was actually about to message you this post😂
Are you joking? I love giving my female lovers multiple orgasms. I find it a treat for myself to give them something they usually don’t experience. It’s it’s not like 2 and it’s over. More like multiple over the course of hours of sex. Trust me if it’s a choice between a five minute orgasm or multiple over a couple hours, she’ll choose the latter every time.
Holy shit. Can I have you?
PM me and we’ll see if arrangement can be made.
Wow, I can just picture that hook up Whew !!!
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!I love to ejaculate inside but I love to give a girl multiple orgasms. I want her to feel so amazing that after she will fall asleep cuddling me as one happy, tired, and satisfied woman. There is nothing more beautiful than witnessing female orgasm.
I don't find it normal, but then I'm in a different lifestyle than most
I usually go for a few before PIV sex even starts.
15 minutes? Wtf you are getting ripped off.
I always need to have multiple orgasms to feel satisfied. My husband knows this and will keep going until I stop him
Lucky!!
I can't say what's normal or not. But I'll give her several orgasms before we begin penetration. Hopefully one during that. And then if she wants another after I'm done, I'll go down on her again.
The answer on that question depends on the individual woman. My wife nearly always only wanted one big orgasm, and that's what we aimed at and did: she always first, and then me. On a very few occasions she had an urge for a second orgasm, and then I fingered her or she did it herself, in which case I loved to watch, and sometimes I had also to cum again in her...
my wife got more orgasmic. now it's common for her to have a few during foreplay and at least one usually a couple during sex. it's awesome :)
Well, yes, pretty normal. If you both want a really fun and health positive way to improve, you take couples Yoga, or you could both learn to edge eachother.
I do that when there is time to. Because it can take a long time sometimes
I get it if there isn't much time, but it is every time. So I guess you don't do that every time.
Both needs to enjoy it of course, not like we are done when i am done or she is. I prefer a situation where "we" have nothing that will disturbe us. We got all the time we need. We can just relax and enjoy each other. Then i take my time, we can take our time. It's no secret that men finish faster often. I like getting her off, i really enjoy that. So first it's all about her, get her to come over and over again. Then we finish together. And the i start again to please her and make her come over and over til she lose control of her body sort of speak. And if i keep at it there is a good chance i get hard again and the second time always last longer then the first. When we are completely done she will have this gigging smile
*giggling smile
some women it's easier to make them cum a few times in a given moment, especially if they can vaginally and some splashing inside. some just don't as easily, or need clit or other stimulation. i just like to get the most possible given the moment.
That tends to happen anyway with me.
You in the same boat as me huh? Kinda sucks
I'm still a virgin in that regard. (Assuming you know what an orgasm is). Will give my first at least 3 in a row, probably 5 - but she'll need to be a virgin prior to that since I won't do bigamy/marrying of someone already married.
i would say 8-15 minutes falls within the average for people that have been together for a long time.
tho if you'd like more stimulation, i think it's totally fine to ask for it or talk about it. like i'm sure he'd like to do that for you if he knew that's what you want. like expecting him to cum several times would be too much. but i think asking him to make you cum a few times before he cums is totally fine.
I’d want to see how many times I can get my wife to orgasm every session. I’d want us to test her limits. When I think of my sex life I hope will come, I think about how I can make my partner happy more than how she can make me happy. Also I’m sure I can do at least 8-15 minutes on foreplay alone.
Put it this way. I don't think of mine till she tells me she's had enough. Sometimes that is one. Sometimes that is five or more.
No I try to give my girl as many orgasms as she can until she totally sastified including eating her out and have sex in different positions. I try to last as long till she's fully sexually and mentally sastified and it can last 30mins or sometimes longer. It is sadly normal for it to last 15 mins maybe if you take control and tell yo not cum yet you might get what you need.
I am to please so it depends on the girl. Sometimes girls want is to last for hours and get multiple orgasms. Other girls just want to cum once and cuddle afterwards.
He might not have enough control to do it.
I have found some woman to get so overly sensitive. That after 3 or 4 they ask me to stop 🛑!
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