How to buy and hide a vibrator or dildo?

Ok so I'm 18 and in my last year of high school, and stay at home. My dad and mom are very controlling and I'm not allowed out of the house much. I do have a job after school though so that's my main time out of the house. Well I've been having a very big sex drive lately and with my boyfriend gone I've been wanting to try a sex toy. The problem is I have no clear where to buy one or where to hide it if I was to get one. And sadly buying online isn't an option. So any help would be appreciated
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  • Best place to go is a sex shop, so you may have to go to that mall.
    When I lived with my parents, I used to hide my vibrator in a filing cabinet. I kept it in a box at the back, which I labelled "Old Tax Documents". I did actually have file folders in the front with paycheque and tax information, and my IDs, so they never found it.
    Important note: if you go for a vibrator- try to get a quiet one. Ask at the store, the people are usually very non-judgmental. I suggest testing how loud it is when no one else is home. Turn it on and leave it in your room, then leave and close the door. Can you hear it in the hall? It's good to know these things.
    Worst comes to worst, all you have to do is not turn it on and you can still use it like a dildo.
    Good luck.

    • We don't have any sex shops close to wear I live though that's the bad part

    • When I got my first one, I had to go 45 minutes away to get it. It was worth it, though. It's good to be able to take care of your own needs, and figure out what you enjoy on your own terms.

  • I've had two. My parents were ok with me having one, because they felt it was better than me going out and having sex (which I still did but they don't know.)

    I still hid it from them because that's not something you'd want your parents to see. Kept it in my pillowcase/under my mattress, in my underwear drawer, under my dresser.

  • Do what I do: use the bathtub faucet. I'll fill my bathtub up and masturbate at the same time, and then take my bath. It's gentle, won't desensitize you, you can have really good orgasms, and it is effectively free since you have to bathe.

Most Helpful Guys

  • Look on google to find your info about what you need.. Size material... Then google nearest places to purchase sex toys.. Go on the website of that store make sure it has what you need.. After you buy it sneak it in something you take in and out of your car.. Find a place to stash it after you get your bed wet after dark... If your parents search your room, clean it of course and keep it in your little sneak bag in your car..

  • Since you're 18 I assume you have your own debit there are vibrators out there that looks like a necklaces and what you could do is order on Amazon but don't ship it to your house you have options like to pick it up at an Amazon warehouse so when you go to college or school you can stop by pick up that package and there you go and it looks like a necklace so even if your parents see it they won't know what it is

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  • If you are a little adventurous you could try a banana or cucumber as your sex toy. Its single use and very discrete. Just tell your parents you really love eating bananas.

    • I already do that

    • Do you enjoy it? For me a banana is often as good as a normal dildo.

    • Depends. Some r better than others depending on how big and thick they are

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  • I would bot recomend having sex before marriage. The more partners you have the higher risk of divorce there is

    • Well I have a boyfriend and yes we have sex, so I clearly don't care about premarital sex

    • Be aware

    • I don't care. He's my own my sexual partner and it's staying that way

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  • To hide it you can use a box and put some cardboard on top of the vibrator to make it look like there is nothing under and put things like diary, or personal items. (Plz note I am young and do not on a vibrator so try and see if it works)

  • Even some drugstore chains like CVS carry vibrators now! Check in your local stores and they are usually in the area where the condoms are. It surprised me when I saw them.

  • There are smaller ones in normal stores by the condoms. I've also seen some where they are necklace that vibrate.

  • Adult store. Those are easy to find.
    So Google "adult store" and let Google know your location.

    • The closet 2 me I'd need a car for. I would have to go over an interstate and it's probably like 30 minutes from me

    • Well, then you have to have your boyfriend drive you there.

      I bought a vibrator for my cousin. It was my "special Christmas present" for her. She was a bit scared to go alone, so I went with her and shopped. It was fun.

      The closest adult store to me is called "Bookends". This is what it looks like:
      http://bookendsct.com/about-us/4423169

  • Get a friend to buy one for you, then smuggle it into the house when your parents are out.

  • There are some that look like keychains.

  • Y'all don't have adult toy stores at the mall?

  • Why buying online isn't an option?

  • Adam and Eve. com , but that be kinda risky. There a store called Spencer's in the mall, they sell a lot of sexual goodies

  • Do you have a Spencer's Gifts near you or at a local mall?
    If so, often they have a small selection of sex toys.

  • Hey I have the same problem. I try to get online friends with whom I can dirty talk.
    You can hide it in the drawer I guess?

  • Buy, go directly. Hide under your bed covers.

  • Go buy a Hitachi wand it's for "massaging" muscles

  • What area are you from?

  • keep it in your pussy and ass alternative

  • Buy one online and hide in an old stuffed animal, where I buy and hide my...

  • You don't. That's weird and gross

  • Buy it in the Internet or a sex shop there are no other possibilities

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