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How to Find Out if You're Sexually Compatible Without Having Sex 😉

Make out, Duh!

How to Find Out if You're Sexually Compatible Without Having Sex 😉

See if they use their tongue to your liking. If he's a good kisser, maybe he's good at working your other set of lips too! If she's a good kisser, maybe she will be good at licking your lollipop. If they like giving hickeys on the neck and elsewhere... hehe well good for you... but If they like to bite lips really rough when kissing, then be cautious of your privates hehe 🙌 If they can't kiss good, then they probably will be sloppy at going down on you too. Unless you're into that kind of thing, I suggest you teach them how to kiss first.

#GetYoGrindOn

How to Find Out if You're Sexually Compatible Without Having Sex 😉

I really wanted to post a more explicit gif but im about tired of getting in trouble lol so take this piece of PG13 crap :) If y'all can grind then y'all most likely have good enough rhythm to thrust, ride, THE WHOLE DANG SHE-BANG!! Or maybe just dry hump. If they still suck at sex in the future, hey, at least they were lapdance material. If you suck at dancing, learn to crawl before you can walk...

Strip & Bate!!

How to Find Out if You're Sexually Compatible Without Having Sex 😉

Alone, In front of each other, with each other, etc. Its not sex. It's just touching. You can be a virgin or celibate and still jerk him off/finger her... I think lol. If that's too much, then just grip the booty and smack it two or three times. Anyways, the point I'm making, you get to SEE EACH OTHER. He can see if he likes your tightly packed cooch or if he prefers that sandwich that looks like ham is coming out. And she can tell you if you LOOK big or small enough for her. But hey, just because it doesn't look that appealing doesn't mean it won't feel appealing.

#TalkDirtyToMeh

How to Find Out if You're Sexually Compatible Without Having Sex 😉

Not everyone lives up to their words but it's a start. It's like a preview. Tell me what you’re gonna do to me one day, so I at least know what to expect. I just hope the receiver lives up to the expectations. It's good to have a dirty sense of humor, but if their words don't turn you on because they're too vanilla or too freaky, then hey, leave 'em while you still can. 👍

Lay it all on the table!!

How to Find Out if You're Sexually Compatible Without Having Sex 😉

Not his/her body. That will come much later... hopefully. Anyways, If you're the type who doesn't want someone who's slept with 5+ people, or you prefer someone with so much experience that even you can't keep up with the 100 people they slept with, then let them know early on. Don't do this on the first date, but do so whenever you both decide to reveal your sexual preferences. This especially goes for those who have weird fetishes like cuckolding and sniffing/licking/sucking toes. Not everyone wants to feel pimped out or like they're at the podiatrist spa 24/7.

REMEMBER PEOPLE, COMMUNICATION IS KEY!!

#FeelFreeToList #aDizzyDesiiTake

P.S. I suggest you try the things above when 18 and older 😉 and out of your parents house. Unless married, when doing certain sexual things, remember to practice safe sex.

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  • Smell eachother. If pheromones click for both of you, it will drive you both crazy. You don’t even have to touch eachother to get hot for one another. Pheromones are the difference between being best friends with the opposite sex and having your SO be your best friend.

    People here saying you won’t know if you’re compatible until you have sex, not true. I knew I was compatible with my husband way before, but I wasn’t ready to break my celibacy streak of 4 years. I wanted to go slow. We both got caught up in the heat o the moment and have no idea where and how our clothes came off. Completely sober. Never happened before, always deliberate movements.

    • Lol yea I've been celibate for 8 years and he's been a virgin for 21 years. We’re still holding out thanks to the things above haha

    • Being celibate is definitely difficult when the chemistry is there. It’s easier to stay a virgin than it is to stay celibate.

  • These are some really great ideas. That's pretty much how I go about vetting my boyfriends when we're in the early stages of dating.

    • Lol ikr

Most Helpful Guys

  • I known when i was sexually compatible with my ex when we both was on the same page.

    To test this, get said girl around a group of your friends. Talk dirty and hint at said girl you wouldn't mind [ appropriate sex joke]
    Or simply try to get her to sext.

    Her response is her 1/2 answer.

    Next, even if she look like she wasn't interested turn up the heat by hugging her, kissing her on the cheek once then go for another peck this time on her lips. Just a peck, not full on making out.

    If she reject then dont force it.

    • Well said

  • I remember saying something cheesy to you last year and you said that I gotta be 18 first (it was a few months before my bday 😂)
    But now I can exploreeee

    • Hahaha 👍👍👍

    • 😝😝

    • Haha which tip above will you try first 🙈😂

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  • That's lust. That has nothing to do with wanting to know if your compatiable. That has everything to do with people who just want to screw you. That is not how you find out if your sexually compatible without having sex. It's about TALKING and asking questions, not subtituting doing the deed. This wrong advice is how girls get's sexually abused in relationships, why MeToo is a thing mostly, and is confused about love, men and relationships. Girls and Guys, somebody suggests this or starts this with you in the relationship: DUMP THEM AND RUN! Not walk. RUN! His or Her intentions is just SEX. NOT YOU.

    • You got this all wrong. This is for mainly for people who are virgins or returned to celibacy. It was meant for after having been together for like a year or 6 months + but whatever

  • A weird thing happened to me and one of my ex... we used to get extremely heated without even touching each other. I guess it is related to @Halligan opinion. I love it when it happens. it gives one of the best feelings a human can experience. Thank you for this post @DizzyDesii :-)

    • Same with my boyfriend and i :) glad u enjoyed

    • Oh yes I did ma'am... and hopefully will get the chance to experience it again :-)

    • Pheromones are great. My husband and I can set eachother off from across the room. Great for fun, bad when he has homework to do. I have to turn the fan away from him. 😂

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  • I don't know part of me agrees and disagrees. I've been with someone who is really good with their hands, but not the best kisser. And I've been with a guy that's a good kisser and can't eat me like the way I want. But I do agree that communication is the key in everything.

    • Lol okay

  • My god I love the pictures you scrape lol, also even when married honesty and being safe are good ideas. I caught more STDs from cheating than I ever did putting my dick in strange holes.

    • Lmao

  • You won't know until you fuck.

    It's like hanging out with chickens and licking them to see if you might like KFC.

  • These are indicators but they don't always translate into actual sexual compatibility.
    1. Your lips and your other set of lips don't have the same nerve endings and what works up there isn't necessarily going to translate down.
    2. I've met plenty of men who were good dancers but bad in bed. Hip swivelling feels great on the dance for but is uncomfortable penetration wise. It require two different sets of muscles.
    3. Masturbation is not a sex equivalent. What feels good for men doesn't always feel great for women. The sooner we dispel that myth the better.
    4. No one and I repeat no one starts off good at talking dirty. That is something that comes with experience and many people never get good at it. It doesn't mean their bad in bed.
    5. Communication is always great, but I feel like this is like a lot of things in your post. Idealized. There are somethings you don't know until you know. I've like the idea of things in bed until I tried them and realized that although I liked the idea in theory in practice I hated it.
    If people want to wait until marriage to have sex that is fine, but do so realistically. Beware that because you don't have experience to fall back on that there are going to be hurdles that you will have to cross that other couples don't. One such hurdle is learning each other sexually. Relationships and sex take work.

  • I'm of the opinion you don't know for sure until you actually do have sex, although you definitely should discuss any insecurities, fetishes/kinks/desires beforehand. One reason why I say that is stamina can't be inferred from conversations, kissing, or grinding.

    • It can inferred from the dryhumpong i memtioned above

  • Always practice safe eating. Always use condiments!

    • 😂😂😂

  • So my checklist won't work?

  • Simply by talking about their like and dislikes in sexuality.

    • True i mentioned that too

  • Nice my Take 😀

    • Thanks haha

  • Ohhhhh my... 😂 😂 "looks like ham coming out"... girl I spit my Mountain Dew out.

    • Omg i just reread it. I was very you g and immature when i wrote this 🤣 I mean now im mature enough to refer to the hams as “outies” 🤣

    • I actually prefer roast beef.

    • How to Find Out if You're Sexually Compatible Without Having Sex 😉

  • Lol I haven’t had a date before but this would help me somehow in the future 😂

    • Haha good :)

  • It's considerably easier to see if you are sexually incompatible without sex. For instance, discuss each others' fetishes and see if they mesh.

    However, even if things like fetishes mesh, the actual sex act may suck for one of the partners and it may be possible that nothing can be done about it.

    I'd say there are three progressive stages of researching and determining sexual compatibility:
    1. Talk - likes and dislikes
    2. See each other naked to see if there are any definitive "No Go"s such as him not being into fake tits or her not liking his tiny uncircumcised dick.
    3. Actual sex.

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    This stuff could work. I've never made out with anyone before and I've never had sex before so this is interesting.

    • Yes my boyfriend is a virgin too and this works for us :)

  • I'm sceptical that this is something you can get to the bottom of without, you know, actually having sex?

  • You can't figure it all out without actually trying things out. Sometimes you think you'll like one thing or be able to do another thing but you don't or can't.

  • I'm actually impressed by this take lol.

    • Thamks lol

  • Interesting and I am sure you put a lot of thought into this but it really isn't practical. Just just won't know unless you test drive it. There are too many very complex variables yet understood. e. g. the female orgasm is so complex and all are so different so that in itself could be a terrible error. You could find out that it just don't fit right. That happens with a bad outcome. You might find out that the partner that seemed so healthy sexuality wise is a complete dud blank of a sexual partner and you trapped with a live dead person. Too risky girl!

    • Yea but my boyfriend and i are waiting til marriage and well this is how we get by. Even if the sex turns out to suck, we’ll just keep practicing

    • You won't hold out if you are doing that to each other. No one has that kind of long term self control.

    • When you're LDR and only see eachother for a day/week like 2-3 months a year, its not hard

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  • Good tips

    • Thanks

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