Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health 
I haven't been in relationships most of my life, only the last year, so you can imagine I have a lot of experience with a lot of different men and usually casual or even a one time thing. So no I don't make it romantic, turn on soft music and use massage oil. I usually did it in a bathroom stall with loud bar music background and spit on some drunk guy's dick ;) I usually gave blowjobs, but sometimes just a quick tuggie if I didn't feel like sucking it.
First off, the visual aspect is important. use what you have. I am not too skinny, but I have really large firm breasts, so I get them out. Also eye contact and looking at him with a horny face helps, whether you like jerking the guy or not.
Then you can make the situation more sexy. If you do it to your husband and he likes the romantic stuff, go for that, but I can warn you: most guys don't like the soft romantic thing too much. I mostly jacked a guy off in a bathroom, behind a dumpster, in a backroom and honestly that helped me a lot. Guys liked thinking that I lowered myself, acted like a slut, just cause I wanted to jerk their dick so much. I did talk dirty like that, let them call me a slut and played into that role, which gave them an ego boost and thus made them cum quicker. Again, it was just an act, but it works.
Then we get to the technique. Not too fast from the start. build it up and find the right grip. It takes some practice to find the grip so don't be to fast to tell the drunk asshole who hits on you to fuck off. He's a perfect practice target. Use spit! Don't spit in your hands, but on his dick, trust me guys like that way better. When it's wet, you are free to focus on the motion. Keep your wrist loose, the pulse steady, move your fingers a little and give it some twist.
Then we get to the climax. Guys have to cum and of course they prefer to do it on you. I can tell you that my face is the favorite target to most guys, but when you are wearing make up and have to party on afterward, my boobs are the best place. Easy to wipe off.
If you don't want it on you, it's best to get up, get close to his face and maybe moan or talk dirty to him so he focuses on that instead of being aware he's shooting into nowhere. That's not sexy to them. Or it's not ok for him to make a mess, hold your other hand like cup in front of it.
There you go. I hope i helped a lot of girls out and my experience wasn't useless ;)
What Girls & Guys Said
10 34For girls giving a handjob for the first time it is critical that you don't stop after you see the first stream of cum just continue handjob normally. When I cum I always cum twice
Thanks, now I'll be able to give my boyfriend a mind-blowing handjob
Hand jobs are pointless, the guy can do it to himself better
Halfhearted steps, nevertheless good to read.
Every blowjob is mind blowing in my opinion
Sexy take
do handjob and punch balls hard 😂
Damn, would love to have you give me one sometime! My girl currently sucks as tugging on it.
Get your nails done, either do them yourself or get a nice gel or powder manicure.
It is SO F'n sexy to see cute hands give a HJ.
Talk a bit..."do you want to cum all over my cute hands..."
Hold the balls, gently, and gently scratch underneath once in a while or grace in the area between the balls and the thigh...
He will NEVER leave you
I can write a book.
The key is to keep the same tempo. Dont slow down and take ur hand off his dick. I dont like it when girls give me head and just stop or change tempo. It's hard to get off
As a guy with a big penis, I can attest, this works!
This is very interesting. Makes a lot of sense to me. I love handjobs... (sometimes more than sex... it's relaxing for a guy to just lie-back and receive one, rather than having to do all the 'work')
thanks for the softcore porn
@desch262
As a girl, I like fingering. Doing it myself is pointless and feels stupid.
The thing is, like you women, we are all different and like different things. What one guys likes, another may not. So the best "advice" is to ask the specific guy you're giving it to what he likes. Example in your above example, I have NO interest in cumming on your face. That would actually be a turn off for me.
So is spitting (huge turn off). If you spit at all, I'm done lol. You can stop there.
Good advice. My first boyfriend used to cum in 30 seconds. It was why we never had sex
Use your mouth.
I can give myself a handjob, and better than anyone else.
My ex girlfriend thought she gave mind-blowing handjobs... they weren't "mind-blowing". She ended ripping my foreskin.
Or you can be even more adventurous and give a blow job and swallow. I’m sure he’ll be very pleased.☺️
Well handjobs are disease free.
I mean I wouldn’t give a random anything but sure
Never giving a bj but I eat woman out I use my own technique.
Same