Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health 
Welcome back, students! Please, everyone have a seat. So earlier today, we introduced the topic of giving oral sex to your man. In the second portion of this class, I will introduce the basics of giving oral sex to a woman. Before I go into depths on this topic, I am going to ask, "What are the two key components one needs to give good oral sex?"
Yes, you are correct passion and devotion, as previously mentioned in our last discussion.
If you do not have both of those key components, you most likely will deliver bland oral sex.
What happens when something is bland?
You tend to not want to go back for more.
You are left discontented.
The Warm Up
Before proceeding with oral, it is important that you make sure it is:
A) Something you want to do.
If you have no interest in giving oral sex to your girl, then it will show in your performance. You will most likely be tensed and inhibited. When you really want to do something, it shows, this will further excite your partner. Remember, the feeling of being desired is a big turn on for your lover. This adds to the enjoyment.
B) Something you can relax while doing.
I know it may be nerve-racking giving oral sex if it is your first time; even if it isn't, perhaps it's your first time with this girl and you want to make sure everything goes perfect. People tend to be their own worse critics. I advise you to not think about everything that can go wrong, instead think of everything that can go right. Just take a deep breath, and relax.
Techniques For Beginners
Let your lady lay down on her back. Gently spread her legs a part. The wider the better because now you have a perfect entrance. Every pussy is different so take a moment to really look at and observe it. The want and the urge is there, your goal is to build on the intensity.
Before you even have the thought of oral sex in your mind,
I advise that you do not have long fingernails or stubble beards.
Some men like to finger during the course of giving oral sex, if you choose to do so please make sure your finger nails are low. Long fingernails can be extremely painful.
Also, stubble beards may scratch your lover (this can cause irritation to develop). If you have no facial hair or you have a beard that is longer than a few inches, then you are in the clear!
A) Tease. Start by appreciating her thighs, gently kiss them. Suck on the labia majora (outer lips), gently putting it inside of your mouth.
B) Lick it. Lick around the hole. Stick your tongue out, slowly and gently lick inside of her hole.
Remember you are building on temptation, you want to have her fairly wet in the beginning.
C) Speed. You're going to start things off slow and sensual, gradually picking up the pace. When you do, you may want to tongue fuck her fast and hard.
D) Don't neglect her clit. This is one of the most sensitive areas on a woman. As you continue to play around and tease her, this is where you will give some of your well divided attention to.
As you proceed with the act of oral, you will also find that this area will grow increasingly sensitive. Please, be very gentle. Sucking with too much force, when this area is highly sensitive can be very uncomfortable and painful.
E) Use your fingers.
You will find that it is hard for your lady to keep still, this is because of the intensity. Use your hands to guide her back into the position she started in. Spread her legs open. Occasionally, stop and finger her, you can even use them, to gently rub her clit.
F) Focus on her reaction.
Listen to her moans, they tell you what climax she's reaching. While giving oral, listen carefully to her sounds, this will work as communication to tell you what it is she really likes. If you notice her moaning pitches a certain way, continue to do that action. Don't stop!
Remember, sex is a learning experience each and every partner is different. You'll eventually find out what your girl likes and exactly how she wants it done. You may even find yourself going back and forth between the techniques I mentioned, mixing them up. Don't forget, her body is speaking to you, that means you have to be a good listener! The more you give oral, the more second nature things will come to you. You may even start things off in a completely different way, but one thing that remains the same is the areas of focus.
Questions or comments anyone?
Class is dismissed!
See you next week!
What Girls & Guys Said
12 32I need oral like now
And we need more women like you 👍
Suck ice before you go down on her, she'll cum in no time.
I literally like to lick every millimeter of it, like an obsession lol Its great though to feel them shake and shudder on your mouth as their eyes light up. It's awesome to see them like that.
Is this supposed to be not disgusting? Sorry but do people find it normal I mean girls pee too
Women pee from the urethra not the vagina.
Oh right lol 😂 sorry didn't notice , so it's clean there? I am sorry but I can't imagine this thing 😂lol , I heard that the more you do oral sex you higher your chances of getting throat cancer is that right?
It's clean only if the girl is hygienic (meaning she wipes properly). Pee goes from the urethra to the bladder. The pee of course passes over or by the vagina , which is why it looks like that is where a woman is peeing from. If the person has HPV that you are giving it to , then it's very possible. But keep in mind HPV can be transmitted in more than one way, alcohol, cigarettes, kissing etc. Just make sure you and your partner get tested, and you'll be fine.
I still feel it's weird 😅
(Not just alcohol but drinks in general---alcohol may cause it to flare up). Just wondering, are you a virgin? When I was, a lot of things seemed weird or gross to me.
Yeah I am 😛
When you lose your virginity and get comfortable with your sexuality, very few things will seem weird to you.
Sure? 😜
I am positive!
Alrighty thanks by the way 😊
No problem :)
Thank you for this take lol
Reading this Take, I feel like I do too much teasing beforehand.
Maybe its a stupid question but can you can infections from this and does she need to clean her p... first?
I don't think anyone would want to do someone that has poor hygiene. If the girl smells bad down there , that will give you your first clue. Also , stds can spread during oral , so it's best to make sure she has nothing by asking to see her recent medical documentations if you are concerned.
Ah thanks for help, great take by the way.
I hate my auto correctly...
Thanks
does kissing the p... consider an oral?
Well I can't do the warm up because I find it disgusting but I will try the rest
I only lick the clit
Very interesting ideas, cool MyTake ;)
I know it isn't real but where'd the myth if you eat 🍴 enough 😸 you'll grow a beard come from?
Great take! i feel horny now though lol
Why is my highschool not like this?
Lol
Guys, best way to learn how to please a woman, is to watch lesbian porn. Women generally know, what women want
However it's still just as faked as regular porn...1
If you watch porn video do the ones that are homemade because those are mostly real.
I want oral soo bad :/ nice take by the way
Thank this take is extremely helpful, but would you say that oral feels better than penetration. And if so than do you still crave penetration even though oral and fingering feels better?
Personally, I find them both to be equally pleasurable, they are just different feelings. Oral is a really good way to get a girl warmed up before sex, give her a few orgasms before penetration, it will make it easier to slide in and go for a while as well as more pleasurable. Many women don't find penetration pleasurable because they are not fully aroused when it begins and that makes it uncomfortable and can never become fully aroused. Personally, when receiving oral, after an orgasm or two, I deeply crave penetration. Giving a girl oral is an easy way to make her beg for you. Penetration is primal, and when one is aroused they will want it and enjoy it much much more.
@aimeestuart That makes sense, can you orgasm from vaginal penetration after oral though or can you only orgasm from your clit?
I can't believe humming wasn't mentioned. tsk tsk
The way to drive a woman wild is after youve stripped down, lie on top of her in the missionary position. Hold her head in your hands but nothing else and just kiss her lips, and face. They find it weird when your hands dont roam around and its the ultimate tease. Following it up with oral would be great.
You may want to move the part where it says every girl is different to the top cause I know a lot of guys think that every girl is the same and thats what leads to girls saying guys are bad at sex and it just snowballs.