How you feel without sex?

[jennyvicks000]

How do you you feel as a guy or a lady without sex for months?

[SomeRandomGuy89]

I've had both forced and by choice spans in my life where I went a long time without sex. And the answer is that it really just depends on whether the reason is by choice or whether I felt it was forced.

Once in my late teens which went on for about a year. I felt horrible about it.

It was a bi-product of a failed relationship that destroyed my sense of self. Going without sex only managed to further propagate my inner-dialog which was telling me I undesirable and wasn't worth a dam.

Then later in life I went without sex from the age of 27-31 but did so by choice.

I decided that I wanted to stop putting energy into women and relationships and invest in myself. These were my most productive years and I felt awesome for it. I had more energy, more focus, more drive; more everything.

[Lliam]

Unfulfilled. Unloved, unwanted, unworthy. Rather desperate and pathetic.
It's like being denied any other pleasure in life like tasty food, beautiful music, lovely sights, fun experiences.

But I'm not referring to just any kind of sex. I'm talking about being mutually infatuated or in love with a woman who loves sex - hugging, kissing, licking, touching, being touched, giving BJs, receiving pleasure, and fucking joyfully and creatively. It's one of the greatest pleasures in life.

Hooking up or masturbating are temporary fixes, like eating a TV dinner when I'm hungry. But it's not that gratifying.

[ushagomez]

That would not be good. It would drive me crazy as I love sex.

[whtclutgrl]

Not sure I’ve ever gone more than a week without it 😆

[jennyvicks000]

Cool

[Guardian45]

Lucky

[razelove]

Umm, the only time I've been without sex for months was before I had sex, then during military training... so violent I guess? Like in that environment you don't even get the leisure to feel horny until training is done. then a woman you'd have called a 1 beforehand suddenly looks like a 10 until you get post-nut clarity and run far far away to get an STD test and someone more attractive.

[ImHere22]

It’s not so much sex in general; it’s that there’s something that’s off-limits and that I, honestly, crave.

I’m a bi man in a monogamous marriage. She’s great, and we have sex, so that’s not a problem. But I really miss the cock. Like sometimes I can’t stop fantasizing about giving some guy head. But I haven’t been with a man since my wife and I started dating. I am glad that I got to slut it up for a couple years before, and definitely got a taste of what I like.

[big_ben_007]

When i go a week without sex, no problem. But its been 4 months since my last time and i feel like i have an appetite that can't be satisfied. A good day can feel like a bad day. I get mood swings. And i feel unstable.

I have an addictive personality and I've always spent a lot of time enjoying a single activity. When i was a kid i loved reading and i would read books every day of the week. When i was 7 i played computer games every day. When i was 18 i played mobile games every day.

I enjoy sex a lot because i have a high sex drive but i can't have it every day. It would be nice tho

[summiter]

I have never gone for months without sex since I was around 18. But if it did happen it would involve tons of masturbation every day

[OfMiceandMen]

It doesn't tend to bother me too much. My last relationship, the girl had been treated poorly by guys and she was sick of them staying long enough to get some action and then leaving.

I liked her so much, I said, why don't we put sex off for 6 months? She agreed. It made it super special when we finally did get around to it 6 months later.

I knew building a friendship and trust was important with her, and I was willing to go the extra mile.

[MementoMori777]

Haven't had much of a problem for the past 21 almost 22 years

[Msputiton]

Happy

[Dargil]

Lonely and isolated.

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

I would feel unloved, and it's part of life.

[exitseven]

Sex deprived.

[Orion76]

It’s difficult and could be frustrating at times then you get used to it as the new normal.

[SawerBrown]

I get pretty tired of making love to my hand... lol

[TheSpaceGnome]

I'm still a virgin, I feel fine tbh.

[Andres77]

i've never gone more than a few months without sex... so i have no idea

[SolitarySolace]

I’m voluntarily celibate. I don’t like doing anything below the waist. It makes me uncomfortable and immediately turns me off.

[BobbieBoy666]

Me so Horny. And Nude. 💞

It's been years.

[Jamie05rhs]

Eh, it's kind of a drag.

[Marina7812]

Like in relationships two people's like to live together the same pussy and dick need to be 😘, I feel lonely with sex

[Dat-Alpha-Lion]

With or without?

[Marina7812]

@Dat-Alpha-Lion I always want dick inside me😊

[Bklynbadboy12]

@Marina7812 You sound like the perfect girl

[LiamJHayden]

Honestly I don't really care. I probably work out a littler longer each day.

[LickSmack]

I'm fine. Gone 25 years without it.