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I feel like every guy I meet only wants sex from me?

i really need help :( I'm 17 and I feel like every guy I meet only wants sex from me :( I have a lot of guy friends so it's not like guys just don't like my personality. I'm very skinny I weigh 45kg an dam 167cm tall but I have big boobs and nice bum.. I also have a pretty face ( I'm not trying to me up myself sorry I just want to give you all details :) and I think that's what's giving guys the wrong impression... I don't know what to think anymore when a guy kisses me does he want a relationship or sex! PLEASE HELP it's making me really sad. even nice guys are like that not only hot popular guys.. I feel like every guy see's me as an object when I'm really not :( eg. the last guy I loved used me for 6 months just for the benefits.. I told him so many times how i feel about him and he didn't say he just wanted sex or anything he would just hold me closer and kiss me.. I didn't figure out that all he wanted till I asked him out and he pretty much told me he was just using me... then he got a girlfriend and the same day they broke up he texted me wanting sex ( I turned him down. eg.2. I was talking with a guy he was really sweet I thought it was going somewhere till the next day.. he got a girlfriend and hasn't talked to me since.. so obviously that all he wanted from me otherwise we could still talk and become friends..
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  • That's my life in a nut shell except the guy that used me done it for over a year and even had the audacity to lie to me about it for that time and even after he'd told me he used me he tried twice more saying he loved me and missed me and everything and after I didn't buy it he admitted he was lying. Guys are mostly jerks. I say mostly but I'm honestly losing hope with them all. Even the nicest ones.. the ones you think would never dream of doing stuff like that do. Atm I've started seeing someone else and I don't know if I'm being overcautious or not but I'm going to make him wait for an extremely long time. If he gets bored and moves on so be it he can go f*** himself. Hopefully though it'll help weed out the d***s who are only after sex. You should maybe try this too. And I know what you mean about feeling like an object. Its like all anyone ever sees when they look at me is my boobs. Even if I have them covered it doesn't seem to make a difference and I get guys asking all the time if theyre real. I really don't know what can be done about that though except maybe just trying not to let it bother you. But it really depresses me that that's all I am and that's all guys care about.. Good luck to you

    • EXACTLY! yeah I've already told myself not to have sex again until I know he loves me so like months after we've been together and I know his not just into it for sex :)

    • I will answer your question with a simple analogy Imagine you have a big tree of apples and you want to eat the apple. So what you do is you wait for the apple to fall down on the ground and u pick it to eat. But you do not like it and also afraid to climb the tree to get the apple you want. So all the apple you will get are those who have been falling down Now replace the apple with guys and you got the equation.

  • If it's like that with every guy you could probably work on your attitude a bit and changing your circle of friends. The guys you know are obviously young and immature, so you could try meeting some older guys (kind of edgy here since you're at the line between underage and adult) but if a guy really likes you, he'd give it a chance. Take things show. If he's not willing to wait until after you know each other, he's in it for sex, not you. Good guys are hard to find, but knowing where to look makes it easier.

    • Older guys like in their early 20s just want sex too :)

    • You can find men in any age group that are only out for sex. What I was saying is there's a lot more mature guys out there wanting relationships than there is teenagers.

  • Most every 17 year old guy is looking to get some p*ssy with some willing to spend time working to get it and others who realize it is so readily available that they just move from one to the next until they are into someone's pants.

Most Helpful Guys

  • Theres a chance that someone has spread the word saying your easy, so you need to stop kissing guys until your sure their into you, stop dating guys, until he makes a large effort to let you know he is interested, and never have sex until you know him for at least a month, this way you will get the respect you deserve, and not these puks who think your not worthy, you have talent, it won't go un-noticed, good luck,x

  • You're not doing anything wrong. Every guy does want sex from you.

    That's teenage boys for you.

    The only reason a teenage boy wants a relationship, is because it will lead to sex. Sex is basically what he wants. By any means he can get it.

    Their desire for sex is no more right or wrong than your desire for a relationship.

    Teenage boys and girls want very different things. Welcome to life.

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  • You're too young to be worrying about stuff like this.

    Take a few years off from dating and concentrate on important things like your school work and getting into a good college.

  • All guys want sex at your age.

    Some guys also want sex and a relationship.

    Its never a relationship OR sex, its just sex, or sex+ more.

    If you want a relationship WITH sex, then be honest about that. It will scare off guys who don't want that, and attract the ones who do.

  • So you say you have a lot I guy friends yet everyone wants just sex? That doesn't make sense.

    It really sounds like all the jerks just want sex and the nice ones are all friendzoned.

    • no I mean I have a lot of guy friends that have girlfriends or are just like brothers to me... but I'm not saying they don't want to have sex with me they do but I would never ruin our freindship like that... besides dont' you have girls as friends that you haven't friendzoned but your just friends an dif you got the chance you would sleep with her?

    • Of course I do. But if I view then all as sisters I don't get to complain that I don't know any girls who don't want to just have sex with me.

    • You should make up your mind what you want. You can't assume only because some guy got into a relationship with someone else means he only wanted sex from you. Did you want him as afriwnd or as a partner? Maybe he moved on because that was never clear?

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  • Your still in high school thsts the problem.

  • In this age every boy wants sex... especially from a hot gal.

    you see. when a hot gal passes by every1 turns back to look at her? why do you think they do that? for a relationship? nah itz for SEX...

    A teenage boy will only get into a good relationship with you if he falls in love with you.

    • but that's what I mean, the first thing a guy wants is sex and when I say no they stop talking to me.. they don't even get to know me or anything

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