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Sexual Health Girls, I just started dating this girl - should I tell her I masturbate to her pictures?
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I just started dating this girl who I've been crushing on for a long time. I just turned 19 and she will be 18 in February. We've been dating about a month and It's going great. We have not had sex yet but we have done stuff like oral and fingers. I think we'll be having sex soon. I masturbate to pictures of her in a bikini. I am tempted to tell her what I do when I look at her pictures but I don't want to weird her out on me. If you were in a similar situation, how would you react? Thanks for your thoughts.
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Thank you to everyone for your replies. Pretty clear consensus - it would be a bad idea - I am definitely not going to do it :)
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What Girls Said
(21)I would rather not know.
Thank you for sharing
Probably a bad idea
Thank you - and thanks to all the feedback I've realized it is a bad idea :)
What the hell?
NO
lol - ok - got it- and thanks
NO!!! Too soon
Thank you
Have I answered this question b4? Glitch?
Nah.. tell her after the point in time that you've had sex to make sure it ain't weird.
Still it could go either way but i wouldn't risk it
Thanks - I appreciate it
If you respect her, you'd stop do that and wouldn't have to tell her until you're both so comfortable enough with each other to laugh about it much later.
I do respect her. Completely. I guess I do not think it is disrespecting her but I see your point. Thank you.
There’s really no need.
Or in other words - what outcome are you looking for? There may be a better way.
Was thinking to show how much I like her and think she is hot but from everyone's responses and thinking more about this I'm going to wait. Thank you.
Saying “I really like you” is a better bet. 😊
Good point. And I've done that :)
NO! That will cost you dear! She would most likely run away!
Hi. Thanks. You and the others replying validated what my gut was thinking. I really like her so I do not want to weird her out. Thanks again. I appreciate it.
No probs! Take it slow!
Thanks - I am trying - she just gets me going so much - in a good way that is :)