I'm a virgin. I've got no boobs, shall I keep a shirt or bra on when having sex with my new boyfriend?

[Anonymous]

So I've never had sex before and I'm a really skinny girl. I'm I have a very small A cup and I'm scared if my new boyfriend sees me naked he might be put off. Im only 5'3 and all my friends say I've got a 10 year old boy body. I'm 22 so I know my boobs won't get any bigger. Shall keep a shirt on or a bra on at least when having sex. Boys will you have sex with a girl thats literally got no boobs and a skinny boys body

[Realistic07]

How thin you are matters not to the man who is interested in truthfully being with you, nor dose having small breast. I'm sure he would no matter what appreciate your nude figure regardless of what you may think of it. As for me I have dated and slept with a rainbow of women some larger, some thin, others with larger asset, and some with smaller assets. For me it dosent matter the only thing that matters is the woman I'm with at that very moment and how I want to enjoy her and allow her to enjoy me. Trust me If he likes you he's already expecting and more or less knows what you look like naked it's a though that pops up in everyone's head and every one gets close to figuring it out and I'm sure he has a gist of what you look like and even with all the things you complane about yourself he still wants you which also means that he wants to see you nude when the time comes. that's my two cents about it I'm sure he will enjoy you and you him so toss asside your worry and simply be happy with him. I wish you luck and joy in whom ever you have found and or will find. Good luck dear.

[JuicyBrain]

Here is how I would see it. I really don't mind how small your breasts are. They can be played with anyway. I would be a little disappointed if you were to keep your bra. Not because I can't see your breasts (though, I WOULD like to see them), but because to me, it tells me that you are not comfortable enough with me yet and do not trust me enough to think that I wouldn't laugh at you or something. I wouldn't be mad at you, but I would be hurt a little. I would know and understand that you don't feel secure about your boobs, but I would hope you would trust me enough to think I'd respect you.

[SarahsSummer]

Get as naked as your comfort allows but I highly doubt your boyfriend will be turned off. Everybody has insecurities about their first time. I'm sure guys do too. Unless you've been packing water balloons in your shirt, he has an idea of your body and loves it.
I suggest having it dimly lit, get naked under the covers and let your skin touch on his. It's one of the best parts of sex, intimacy.

[jenna85]

Girl, do what makes you happy when you're having sex. It's about making yourself comfortable, especially if it's your first time. If you are with someone who you feel comfortable losing your virginity too he won't care if you have small boobs / big boobs or if your shirt is on or not. Just do what makes you happy and comfortable!

[Justagirl106]

Well considering that you guys have spent time together, he already has a pretty good idea about how big your boobs are. If it bothered him, he wouldn't be dating you, and he definitely wouldn't have sex with you. So if he wants to have sex, and you want to have sex, then go for it.

[ImClara]

This might work since it worked for me, Try doing push ups. They help you build boobs. Also if you know he's gonna put you off just because of your body image, he's not the right guy. You know when you have the right guy when he likes you for who you are.

[tinyclit]

Actually you're a lucky girl. You're going to find that many men like your body style. An annoying, falling all over you, number even. Don't be surprised if you end up needing to beat them back with a stick there will be so many.

[SwissMade]

I would hope you have a boyfriend that you feel comfortable around, where you can have sex with him and not worry about a lingering fear of him being judgmental about something about you. We are all created differntly and that should be something we embrace and should be able to have people in our lives that accept us even if we have feelings of inadequacy.

[MadeInAmerica]

I wouldn't date no one skinny with no boobs. But that is just me. Obviously guys do and your proof because you have had bfs before. Women are so funny. He knows you have small boobs already. He doesn't need to see you naked to know that. He is fine with it and your body you should be too. Get fully naked.

[cheapshotbob]

unless thats your intent i would keep the bras etc. on. no need to send the wrong message by wearing less. guys your age are some times not smart enough to read obvious signals.

[NJ_Casanova]

That doesn't matter since they match your body. If you were 5ft and 160lbs with an A cup.. then it might look strange... even then.. if he's having sex with you they are good enough already. The guy can see your size with your cloths on so if he's interested he like you.

Only a BOOB fetish guy that only cares about the size would care. He wouldn't even be interested in the first place.

FYI, those aren't your friends, if they said that to you... Your beautiful just the way you are;-*

[SüßeJäger]

Of course not. Most guys don't care about boob size. They may fantasize about big boobs at times but when it comes to a girl they care about, it doesn't matter at all, for most guys. If he's concerned about your boob size, he's not worth being with.

[GingerGuy]

No. He knows you have small breasts already, it's not going to be something new and he's accepted (and likes) that about you or he wouldn't be with you. He doesn't care about the size of your breasts. Guys are visual, we want to see the person we're having sex with, all of them, it's a turn off when women want to keep some clothes on or turn off the lights because they are insecure, WE WANT TO SEE YOU. If a guy doesn't want to see you, then he doesn't care for you and is only using you for the sex.

[TadCurious]

It's your choice of course. But I would hope you'd become more accepting of your body just like I'm willing to bet your new boyfriend is. A girl doesn't have to have large breasts to be attractive.

[Anpu23]

I have and would again. Don't worry about it.

[FakeName123]

You could very well just say into his face "I dont trust you and that you find me attractive."

[genericname85]

no, we like seeing you naked, even if you´re flat :)

[helloitsmethere]

I heard guys like boobs no matter how big or small I guess.

[Nice_Guy_Last]

Some guys, myself included, find your body type extremely attractive. Do what's comfortable for you, but I'd say you ought to take your shirt off if you want to. Nothing quite like the feeling of your lover's skin on yours.

[slimstiffy]

I would. As long as you have a bit of an ass. Boobs dont matter to me. Am an ass man

[red324]

Good excuse for round number two!

[takumii]

You shouldn't worry much , your body is just fine. Most boys will be happy to have sex with you.

[OrangeBoy]

For me, small breasts are no problem...
he will notice that way sooner the sex part, so if he's into you, it's indiferent to him.

[Homebakedcookies]

If you're serious about the relationship, then he's going to see your boobs sooner or later anyway. So I'd be as honest as possible if I were you. There's no way he hasn't noticed your physique already. And he's obviously attracted to you regardless. Unless of course you're just trying to get rid of your virginity to fit in? In that case you can keep all your clothes on.

[davesmit]

Either he is going to accept you for who you are or he is not.. don't try living a lie to please him. You have small boobs.. I bet they are not as small as you think.
Besides small boobs are sexy

[Thrushpuppy]

I honestly like small breasted women. I like all sizes but prefer them on the small side. I am guessing small boobs are just fine with him as he is attracted to you. Let them go free.