I want the girl I'm seeing to be really sexually satisfied, but I have no experience, any tips?

[Anonymous]

So she thinks I'm very experienced, I tried telling her I'm not she thought I'm lying (in a fun way like I'm being ridiculous), but it's like I just started looking attractive a year ago I had no facial hair a lot of acne and wore glasses, now it's the opposite and the workouts paid off, so I started flirting left and right for fun. I'm 18 and have never even kissed a girl

Could someone help me with tips when it comes to kissing, giving a girl oral, the sex itself? I'd be really grateful especially for practical tips like not stuff like you'll be okay or communicate or stuff like that, actual help is what I need

[RearEntryGuy]

Key Principle: first enter her heart through her brain, then her vagina through her clitoris.

Explaination:
1) kissing, hugging, serenading are all techniques to tear down her defenses from your invasion.

Expand on them. Don't just kiss for the sake of kissing. Do so to make her feel your sincerity and desire to make her yours.

Hence, make each kiss at least 10s long. Make some noises to show her that she makes you feel so good. (Yes, girls like to know they're important to her man.)

The rest you think based on the key principle above.

2) intimate touching, rubbing, blow job, masturbating are to make her wet and horny and scream "POKE ME NOW!!!"

Yes, after she "surrenders" at (1), take control of her and make her your slave, so to speak.

When you stimulate her, listen to her moans, her expressions and her face. If she's too quiet, you make some noise, then tell her "Relax, let go, and cum."

Keep encouraging her to make noise. She has to "surrender" to you at her free will. Make it so.

When she starts to be wet, use your mouth to suck her dry. I usually get naughty and kiss her, share her pussy juice with her, then I'll tell her "I love all of you" and then I'll let her see how I swallow with enthusiasm.

3) sure you know how to get her into position for sex. Use multiple positions.

The key is to make her cum BEFORE you penetrate her.

Repeat (2) until you feel her body stiffens, or better still her vagina/anus throbs when you finger her.

Then repeat kissing and stimulate other parts of her body with another position.

There will come a time when she begs you to penetrate her.

This is where you PIV her and then conclude the session.

If you pay attention to her clitoris while penetrating her, she will have a very powerful orgasm and will become your nympho.

Good luck with these theories.

[Asker]

You're a legend man, this really makes things much easier for me thank you very much

[slatyb]

Every woman is different. Pay attention to her and she will think you are the best.

[Asker]

From your answer and others answer I'm really saying things simple and clear, "pay attention to her" really sounds like the moral of this question (Can I say question or does it have to be story?)

[Asker]

I butchered that response - Others answers, seeing instead of saying, simply and clearly..

[AmandaYVR]

Don't oversell yourself (not that you are, you've been truthful.) Be honest and humble and appreciative and enthusiastic. And then any awkardnesses can be shared by both you and just something to laugh about. Don't let anything demoralize or deter you. Sex is fun and as long as you both treat each other well, whatever happens will be fine.

From a technical standpoint, this book is excellent, so I hear. Look at those ratings.
I've read the male version of this, by this PhD couples sex therapist. He writes in a very readable style.
Use this as your technical bible.
https://www.amazon.com/Come-You-Are-Surprising-Transform/dp/B08CPVQT5M/ref=sr_1_3?keywords=passionista+by+ian+kerner%2C+ph.d&qid=1641159726&sprefix=passionista%2Caps%2C113&sr=8-3

[Asker]

For some reason I never thought there'd be books about sex from a technical perspective, so I'll definitely check it out, and thanks a lot for both (even if unintentionally) making things more comfortable for me and for the book

[AmandaYVR]

You're welcome and no problem. Yeah, the MHO system design is tweaked fairly often so right now the asker is allowed to choose two, and they can be any combination of genders. But sometimes, the automated system will later kick in, and add two more. Very strange. Sometimes this happens, and sometimes it doesn't and remains at two. I think it's a glitch, as it's been doing it for many months but is inconsistent. Anyway, good luck and have fun.

[kyleelyn199723]

Well for one, kissing just comes naturally. Kissing is a go with the flow kind of thing. You can’t practice it. You can only practice on a real human being. 2. Sex and flow also comes naturally as women like different things and usually good sex is determined based on if a man knows that being a giver and not just a receiver is a part of good sex, on top of the fact that you pay attention to her likes and dislikes as you continue having sex. This can also only be practiced by having sex with a real person

[Asker]

Thanks for the answer. I'm not gonna lie I'm still worried about leaving it to the moment itself but when you put it like that i guess you're right. One more question if I may ask, are there any specific turn offs I should avoid when it comes to either kissing or oral or sex?(like if I don't know what to specifically do at least know what not to do)

[kyleelyn199723]

@asker Turn off for kissing is probably just using teeth, using too much tongue , and forcing yourself on someone way too much. Just basically not going with the flow of it. Turn offs for sex for me personally is someone that only cares about their nut, someone that doesn’t respect boundaries, someone that blurts out weird things during sex , someone that doesn’t try to learn what I like and only does things that he learned off of superficial fake porn, a guy that doesn’t kiss or isn’t confident during sex

[Asker]

These were all more helpful than you could imagine (well I'm that clueless), Thanksss again

[JennaxxD]

in my experience ask her what she likes and the do that

[Nazgol]

Do oral. By finding the clit. & lickin+suck lol

[Nazgol]

& rub

[Asker]

Lol when you put it like that i sound like I'm worried about a very simple thing, the thing is I already know that but is that like enough? Like there are no certain techniques or certain rythmes I should know? Or things I definitely shouldn't do?

[Nazgol]

Best to look online for tutorials