If a guy is dating somebody and refuses to meet her parents or talk with them on the phone is he using her for sex? About a lady in my circle?

If he didn't have something to hide - he would not be afraid to talk to her parents over the phone or meet them

It happened to a girl I used to be friends with - or used to know and not be friends with
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  • Yes. Or he doesn't think the relationship is serious or has true direction. Either way, it's best to get out of it.

  • How long have they have been dating each other?

  • High potential of that issue

  • Nah. He may just be taking the "talk with parents " as a sign of commitment or he just doesn't have the confidence. I don't think he be hiding anything.

    • Yeah, he is nit ready for it yet, maybe.

  • If he does not want to do any of that, he does not want a serious relationship and he is obviously sleeping with other people

  • he just wants sex

  • A lot of us Guys have anxiety so we might not like meeting new people that much but if the Guy usually talks to lots of people generally then he is odviously afraid of being rejected by the parents and probably been rejected by a Girls parents before.

  • He is disregarding her parents. Soon we will disregard her too.

  • Depends how serious guy n girl are on their relationship. If big M word is on the horizon. Guy will hesitate to come up to parents knowing tomorrow mom will start pushing when u guys hitching it's been 2 years. Lol

  • Yeah that is a possibility, or he is really nervous to meet them. There can be a lot of things going through his head

  • It's a possibility but might not be true. Though I don't see why he wouldn't want to meet her parents if she wanted him to meet them and he actually wants to pursue a relationship with her

  • Sex sex n sex

  • Well it depends, like how long they have been together and all, he's not gonna show up to his parents be like meet my new girlfriend I met her yesterday and stuff like that and well one should trust their gut feelings it really helps yk.

  • There maybe some reasons he may be lacking , like couldn't meet the expectations of her family.. or might be feeling awkward about something.. might be that could be a reason for him to meet her parents.. or the other answer could be this.. before concluding let the girl analyse him.. and then conclude

  • More than likely yea he's not serious about her

  • Good question !
    the odds are high he is using her

  • I wouldn't meet your parents for a couple reason. One i would think they may not accept me because they could not like me for her daughter because of ethnicity pr race. I may not wanna meet them because i may not know how to approach tge situation. The ither reason is i dont like her but i love getting sucked off and banging her when im bored