If a guy says sex isn't important to me, is he lying?

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If a guy says sex isn't important to me, is he lying?

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lecher Xper 6
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As a full blown untreated sex addict I have to say I cannot begin to understand people that don't think sex is important, but some people do. He may very well be telling the truth. The majority of men are not like dogs in heat. I am though :)
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- Someyoungguy94
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  No one asked.
- VIVANT
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  @Someyoungguy94 It’s relevant to the question.. it’s a perspective 🤷‍♀️
- Wowgirl30q
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  @VIVANT I didn't mind
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- VIVANT
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  Didn’t see why you would 😊
- Wowgirl30q
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  @VIVANT someone thought it was unnecessary I thought it was fine😀
- VIVANT
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  Yeah I saw they had a problem... me I’m ok with it and I thought you being you, you would be ok with it 🤷‍♀️😊
- Wowgirl30q
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  @VIVANT good call
- VIVANT
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  You communicate / convey yourself very well and clearly. It’s not hard to make the call😌 But I’m glad it wasn’t wrong 😁
- Wowgirl30q
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  @VIVANT not at all😀 . Equal opportunity here in every wowgirl Question. We welcome all shapes sizes and colors of men 😂
- VIVANT
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  lol of course 😊😊💕
- Wowgirl30q
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  @VIVANT 😂😂😂
Logorithim Master
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For the vast majority of men, yes, it would be a lie.
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- Logorithim
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  Thanks for the MHO

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PrincessGrail Master
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Probably. He’s probably tryna make you feel better saying sex isn’t the ONLY thing he cares about with you.
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- PrincessGrail
  +1 y
  Thanks dude
- Wowgirl30q
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  Course
StingRayxoxo Guru
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I think there are some people in the world that really dont care about sex.
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- Wowgirl30q
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  Really? Who
- StingRayxoxo
  +1 y
  I watched this documentary about couples doing a challenge to have sex once a day. One of the couples (both Male and female) were not very sexual people at all. My sister's ex was not really into sex very often either. He told her from the beginning that he was like that.

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EclipseoftheHeart Explorer
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What does his nose look like after he says that?
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VIVANT Guru
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It can be unimportant as in relative to what REALLY matters

He can be trying to communicate he values other things more

He may really just not care too Much about it

Can be a White lie to made to make you feel he is not seeing you as a giant vagina
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I_smell_Ducky Guru
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He's either lying or an idiot... Or asexual but that's pretty rare.
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- chris_987
  +1 y
  Your lack of faith in men is disturbing
- I_smell_Ducky
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  @chris_987 faith, and gender are irrelevant. Those are the only three options that exist because sex is important.
- chris_987
  +1 y
  I don't know I get the feeling that you’re one of those girls that comfortable labelling men as idiots
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- I_smell_Ducky
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  @chris_987 your feelings about me are also irrelevant. Stop inventing problems and read what I actually fucking said.
- chris_987
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  Your an angry person that much is clear
- I_smell_Ducky
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  @chris_987 gee, I wonder if that has anything to do with the fact that some illiterate dipshit keeps accusing me of things that have way more to do with his own inadequacies than anything I have actually said... Nah, couldn't be that.
- chris_987
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  Lol see your so comfortable just labeling people all day long which tell me that your very insecure and afraid to see if you hold up to this great standards that you have for everyone else. One day you life is gonna come crashing down on you and it won’t plebe pretty
- I_smell_Ducky
  +1 y
  @chris_987 awww. Look at you trying to act like you actually know what you're talking about. It would be adorable if it wasn't so pathetic. See, trying to get under someone's skin like that only works if what you say is accurate. Keep trying, you'll get the hang of it eventually.
- chris_987
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  The hang of what? You really think you know it all? I bet you knew it all when you where 12 too
- I_smell_Ducky
  +1 y
  @chris_987 no, I knew different things when I was 12, things that helped me become more independent. But my childhood is none of your god damn business. And once again is completely irrelevant to the fact that you are incapable of accepting the fact that you are wrong about pretty much everything you've ever said to me.
- chris_987
  +1 y
  Lol but you just admitted I was right! If you knew different things when your 12 then who’s to say that you won’t know different things 10 years from now. That pretty much all I was saying
- I_smell_Ducky
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  @chris_987 I never said what you were correct about, and it's not something you can take any credit for. Even a broken clock is right twice a day. And of course I will know different things in 10 years. That doesn't mean that what I know now, or what I knew when I was 12 were incorrect information. That's the difference with knowledge and belief, a concept you don't seem capable of comprehending.
- chris_987
  +1 y
  So you honestly believe that... actually forget it you’re right I don’t care this much about it. Have a nice day
- I_smell_Ducky
  +1 y
  @chris_987 nooo, come back! I need more! I'M STILL HUNGRY!!! 😈
- chris_987
  +1 y
  No. You won your right. All women are right and never wrong. I might as well move on to something else in life that matters. Like playing the piano 🎹
- I_smell_Ducky
  +1 y
  @chris_987 you're*
- I_smell_Ducky
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  @chris_987 also, I never once said anything about women being right. In fact I said from the very beginning gender didn't have a god damn thing to do with it. If you still can't understand that I really did have you pegged right from the start when I told you to "stop inventing problems and read what I actually fucking said."
- chris_987
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  Your right I’m wrong so go celebrate I’m out
- I_smell_Ducky
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  @chris_987 of course I'm right, that's because I'm a god damn genius. Not because I have a vagina.
- chris_987
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  No it’s definitely the vagina and Don’t you forget it, if you don’t believe me create a male profile and see how many people ignore you
- I_smell_Ducky
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  @chris_987 hmm. You don't think it has more to do with the fact that most of what you say has to do with acting like a victim and blaming women for your own inadequacies?
- chris_987
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  Please list my inadequacy and I will proceed to tell you why your right
- I_smell_Ducky
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  @chris_987 that wasn't hard...
  
  So apparently masturbation for guys is wrong but it’s ok for women? ↗
  
  Why would a girl who’s virgin want a big dick? ↗
  
  What does the slogan “the future is female mean exactly”? ↗
  
  Do you blame the opposite sex for some of your problems? ↗
  
  I could keep going but having that many tabs opened on my phone gets kinda annoying.
- chris_987
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  Okay so the questions I ask about women prove that I’m inadequate? Ok let’s break down what you did, I criticize women by saying that it’s foolish to want a big dick even though your a virgin and that saying the future is female is equivalent to championing “white power” and some how you interpret this as me being inadequate? Doesn’t just that prove that your not allowed to say negative things about women and that you guys having a vagina means that your always right? I don't know it seem like you proved my point unless you can demonstrate why I shouldn’t say those things about women and how they reveal how sub human I am?
- I_smell_Ducky
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  @chris_987 hold up... Are you actually trying to defend your ass backwards view of how the world actually works? God damn I haven't had a meal this good in months. Unfortunately for you I have this aversion to repeating myself unless it's actually funny and I've already explained your problem to you twice. At this point I'd need sledgehammer to pound it into your skull. But I doubt the 8 pounder I have would be enough.
- chris_987
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  Backwards view of the world? I thought you didn’t believe in absolute truths so why am I wrong and your right? I thought as an atheist you believe that morals don’t exist so I find it funny that you believe that my views are wrong.
- I_smell_Ducky
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  @chris_987 there you go once again. Making up shit about me. What's the point in it? Does it help you feel better about yourself?
- chris_987
  +1 y
  It actually does, so tell me what is right and what is wrong? Because up until now you have really gave me a specific reason why my views of the world a backwards. All you’ve done is call me stupid, so I’m not even sure you know why you think I’m wrong.
- I_smell_Ducky
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  @chris_987 I'm sorry, can you try that again with more comprehensible grammar?
- chris_987
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  What part didn’t you understand?
- I_smell_Ducky
  +1 y
  @chris_987 read it again. Out loud. Maybe ask an adult to help you.
- chris_987
  +1 y
  I thought I was pretty clear that you just named called and didn’t really have a legit criticism as to why my view are backwards
- I_smell_Ducky
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  @chris_987 keep trying. Get back to me when you figure it out.
midnightmoon05 Guru
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He cares more about who you are as a couple and respect the relationship, not just about sex.
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stilllanuagthtboy Xper 4
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, yes I think he is lie I wouldn't say it's dying I would say something to show you respect just a womana needs to feel it's right b magnetic show you respect
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mistixs Influencer
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About 15% of men have Hypoactive Sexual Desire Disorder which refers to extremely low libido, so there's a chance he's being honest
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RussianNestingDoll Xper 7
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It means he can’t get it up or he’s lying.
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Berethor Master
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In vast majority of cases he lying, and trying to fool girls into believing him that he is more romantic than other guys and crap like that, men tend to be sexual. :)

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abc3643 Master
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Not necessarily. Depends on many factors.
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Jean-Marie_Céline Master
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It depends.
If he's not lying, it can be a problem for the relationship.
There's also to say that, at least for me, there are moments where sex isn't the most important thing, or important at all.

It has happened that my girlfriend asked for sex when I was hurrying in finishing a project or a dossier for a deadline.
Obviously sex is the last thing I have in mind in those moments, so I gently but firmly tell her it's not the right moment and I'll make up with her later.
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- Jean-Marie_Céline
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  I wrote a myTake about this
  A guy that for once says "no" to sex IS a man ↗
Jjpayne Editor
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It depends on the guy. For me it is important but not right now, cuddling and getting to know a girl first for me :)
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reptocarl Master
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Most likely
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BlackDawn Xper 7
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Yeap
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GoodGuyBreakingBad Master
+1 y
Some guys might be waiting to after he gets married to have sex
is the reason why he says sex isn't important to him.
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ZeussLightningBolt Editor
+1 y
Not necessarily. He could just be a religious fanatic.
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Giggletr0n Guru
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Maybe, I can say that and be 100% with that statement but some people will use that as a reason to seem less desperate
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Texaskid1 Guru
+1 y
Yes.

All men always have the punani in mind.
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TacosRAwesome Master
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Not always.
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thechesseman Xper 7
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Depends on context. You don't know if I like riding a bike or not tell you ride one with me.
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Philyouup Guru
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I know about all that asexual Jazz. But if your involved with a woman to the point where you can discuss sex, I’m thinking he’s just holding his hand close to his chest.
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