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If you liked someone but they randomly sent you a nude, would you still pursue them if what you saw was disappointing?

RANDOM SCENARIO— The two of you are not dating yet. But they decide to be all cocky and randomly send a nude. You’re not impressed by what you see. But you just thank them for the nude anyways (or angrily tell them to never to do that again without asking). Do you continue to pursue them, knowing their naked body (chest, tummy, ass, genitals, etc) turns you off?
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MY THOUGHTS— Not only do nudes do nothing for me, but if i find myself not attracted to it, then the whole image of the guy is ruined. I need to be attracted to the whole appeal of the diick (the color, shape, and if its veiny, scarred, circ/uncirc, short/long, slim/thick/fat, etc.) Im not a size queen but I’m also not into “trying before buying”. If you see someone nude before You’ve committed to them and Find yourself no longer attracted, you have every right to not want to continue pursing. But I’d never tell someone thats why i’m stopping what we started. Thats kinda mean. And if I’m already dating the person (before having seen them nude) and i already love them, then I’d stick around in hopes it grows on me. If it doesn't, then i would leave. Sounds shallow, but thats how i see it. You gotta have a pretty diick in order for me to want to suck it.
I’d still pursue because looks dont matter
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I’d still pursue because looks dont matter as much
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I’d still pursue because maybe they’d grow on me
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I’d still pursue because i find myself unattractive as well
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I would not still pursue because they stooped low by sending a nude of themselves, especially when i didn't ask for it
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I would not still pursue because what i saw, i found unattractive unfortunately
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I would not still pursue them if i found them unattractive even if i claimed to love them or have already had sex with them
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For those who dont understand, let me change the scenario... Lets Say you asked for a nude but y'all aren't officially dating yet. He/she sends it but you find end up finding their body/parts unattractive. Would you still pursue them in the long run or eventually find an excuse to end it
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Yep most of you are on the right track. The main question is really focused on looks and sexual compatibility. Would you still want to have sex with or give oral sex to something you find revolting? The underlying issues are that of, is the person lacking class for randomly sending a nude... and how many other people do they easily expose themselves too.
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  • Nope

    • I agree

  • I might still pursue, but honestly I'd be freaked out to get a nude and I wouldn't ask for one.

    • Right

  • Most women are not visual, so I'm not sure why so many guys send a random dick pic without anyone asking.

    Men are highly visual, so chances are most women would get upset at being sent that and most guys wouldn't care.

    • But would you still pursue her if you're no longer attracted

    • I would, as I believe more in personality than looks.

  • I would not still pursue because they stooped low by sending a nude of themselves, especially when i didn't ask for it
    I want a good man I don't want a man who send nude to everyone like that.

    • I agree

  • Probably not. Not if I was sorely disappointed

    • Right

    • Haha

  • I’d still pursue because maybe they’d grow on me. I don't like unwanted nude pics but I wouldn't stop talking to him. If he ambitious and has a great personality why would I give up on him? But if I knew he wasn't good for me then I probably would. Anyways, I would just tell him not to send one without me asking for it.

    • Not because of him sending it unsolicited but mainly if you dont like what u see in the pic? Like if his body doesn't appeal

    • Oh okay. I would still pursue him. I would be mean if I stopped pursuing because I didn't like his body.

    • I wouldn't tell him thats why and i wouldn't leave that same day, but i’d leave

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  • E... Just disappointed. "Oh you're one of them" is my first thought

    • 😂😂

  • If I'm not attracted to her, then I cannot pursue her, but I honestly wouldn't pursue her regardless if she is sending nudes.

    • Exactly

    • Even if she has the most amazing body ever and she's sending me nudes during a courting period, that kills it for me.

    • I dont like nudes at all. If i wanna see it, i’ll come to you

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  • Looks are just part of the package. If there was other things that I was interested in then it wouldn't kill the relationship. But yes looks do matter, but not all that matters.

    • But we’re talking sexual compatibility

    • Meh again just part of it all.

  • I’d stop pursuing because it’s set off alarm bells for me.

    • Because they send nudes right

    • Yup because they sent them before y’all were even dating or knew y’all were interested in each other.

    • Well no it was mutual interest. Just not dating yet although on the verge

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  • If its not good down there consider me out

    • 😂😂😂

    • 😋😋

  • That's a tough one but the smart move is to bounce before things get confusing

    • Lmao confusing how

  • I would not pursue them. They had the audacity to send a nude I didn’t ask for and it wasn’t even worth sending.

    • I shouldn't laugh but the way you said it 😂

  • I couldn't date/marry someone unless I found them physically and mentally attractive.
    I was going to pick G, because I've loved people that I didn't find physically attractive, but those never end up becoming physical and instead stay platonic.

    I would need to find them physically attractive first before something like kissing, cuddling, or sex would happen.

    • I agree

  • I'd be put off cause I'm against unsolicited nudes, or nudes in general.

    • Right

  • None of the above. I would stop pursuing because i won't date someone who is so lax with their security that they would send nudes out. It is not because i am afraid i will share them.. It is because i work in the Tech industry, and i am very aware of how easy it is to hack an icloud account or a google photos account. If it was the first time i would ask her to never do it again, and continue. But if she did it more than once, i would break it off.

    This goes for men and women both.. Its very stupid to take nudes on any internet connected devices.

    • I agree. I've been dumb before. I didn't send nudes because i dont believe in that. But i did something probably worse in which i had Skype sex with a longterm boyfriend. I knew the risks but did it anyways. All i can do is hope he never recorded on his end

    • Right!! no i have heard too many horror stories to even think about risking that. Plus there are people that will ransom your stuff, and extort you.. Its a scary world out there.

    • Stilll sounds like poll option E that younshould choose

  • entirely depends on what level of connection we had at the point where she sent them.

    • Its still fresh

    • That's still vague. Like did we date a few times already or did we have one date or not even that yet?

    • you're talking but haven't gone on a date

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  • I actually did something like this once on accident, and it was genuinely an accident. I was curious about what my body looked like from another perspective other than from my own eyes, because I heard that if you take an image of yourself and reverse it, you see what others see. So, like the idiot I can sometimes be, I used snapchat because my camera app was pretty slow, for some reason, and because I used snapchat, I pressed something I shouldn't have and sent it to a girl I had been chatting with. I called her and begged her not to open what I had sent her, but I guess curiosity overcame her, and opened it anyway.
    If someone randomly sent me a nude that I didn't like, I think I'd ask them a bit more about it, because it could be an accident. It wouldn't immediately repel me

    • Well at least you asked that she didn't open it

  • If the dick is small while he’s hard I’m dropping him

    • 😂 i almost puked

    • Lmao😭😭😭

  • Yes but I would definitely pull them up as to why they even sent it in the first place

    • So you just assume it’ll grow on you?

    • No but if I really liked them I would try to look beyond it

    • Sadly i gotta be in love to overlook it

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