Im a virgin, is it normal to have this fantasy, or even realistic?

[Anonymous]

hi im 19, a virgin, and im very small built/skinny. I have never even tried a dildo yet, though I plan on getting one. I feel so tight still, I can barely fit two fingers in me. Yet I have these crazy fantasies about getting fucked penis (or dildo) that is really big. I want to feel my pussy stretch to the point it starts to hurt, and just the though of something so deep in me makes me go crazy. Is this even realistic? and roughly how big would a dildo or penis need to be to give me that sensation?

[Anonymous]

You probably have a pesky hymen to "relieve" before you go for the big one. If you can fit two slender fingers. you should consider between that and a long, wide dildo. Going aggressive with one of theses can help.

Then, believe it or not, this would be a good approach (don't forget the condom).

It would give you both realistic width and all the reach you could need.
Both hide in plain sight, too.

[R4vedave]

Completely normal to have this fantasy, and definitely realistic. You can buy thick toys specifically meant for this kind of purpose, but it all depends on what you can personally take

[Asker]

How big would I need? Average is like 5.5 inches long so... 6.5 or 7? Sorry this is a bit exciting but I dont know what to pick

[R4vedave]

I don't think what you'd really want to focus on is length, I stead focus on girth. That's what'll really give you that filled up feeling. I'm not sure what size you'd need though since I'm not a girl, and I don't know your body that well. Figure out the circumference of whatever toy or thing you currently use, even if it's just your fingers, and just go a bit bigger with your estimate. From there it's easy to find toys online in whatever size you want.

[Asker]

Okay thank you, ill go for something 6 inches and about 5 in girth? or is that too thick to start do you think?

[R4vedave]

To start out, I think that's pretty decent.

My partner and I own this toy in medium, and it's a pretty big size. This might be something you'd be interested in once you feel comfortable with getting something a bit larger: https://bad-dragon.com/products/nova

Anything from bad dragon really would be good, as they have fairly large toys available

[Vanessa_Reyes]

I'm 5'1" and I get that feeling when I use my 9" dildo. If you're a virgin start with a 5-6" one and work your way up to a bigger one.

[Asker]

How thick should I start with?

[Vanessa_Reyes]

Maybe a 3-4" circumference

[Asker]

okay Ill look into those. what thickness is your 9 inch dildo?

[Vanessa_Reyes]

It's 6"

[Asker]

fuck that is huge... i dont think that would even fit in me

[Vanessa_Reyes]

Girl, it will. You just need to start with the smaller ones. Once you work up to the bigger ones, it feels so good because you can feel it just opening and stretching you.

[Asker]

I am also trying to get prepared for my boyfriend says he's 7.3 inches long and 5.5 in girth... To imagine that in me is crazy. Do you think that will be enough to feel myself open and stretch out?

[Vanessa_Reyes]

Yes that's enough

[Suhailadil89]

6" girth? Cmon is that even possible

[Tyme1313]

@Suhailadil89 Yea, it’s totally possible.

[The-Senko-San]

I have the same fantasy 😄

[Asker]

Have you ever used a dildo or had sex?

[The-Senko-San]

Had sex

[Asker]

did you get that feeling? how big was he? :O

[Nahid1707]

Normal

[Dantheman101]

I would get a small one as well in case you get curious about anal 😱

[LOGESHKUMAR]

It's completely normal to have this fantasy..

[fett253]

Just try one to start with, and then figure out which direction of stretch you enjoy, or maybe it's both!

[Anonymous]

Yeah, sure you are a girl. 🤦‍♀️

[Anonymous]

Are you still on here?