Guys, In a happy, healthy, long term relationship, how many times a week is it normal to masturbate?

We've been together for 3 years, we live together and have sex ~roughly~ every other day. I masturbate once a week, but I know my boyfriend does more. Just wondering to other guys in happy, long term relationships, how often do you? Does the more you do it, mean you're less happy with your partner?
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  • It can't be a healthy relationship if you have to masturbate at all.

  • Don't over think it. I do know that in a long term relationship a guy's libido increases many times fold and for some reason you just need to get off more. Lol i know for me i even increased in volume of cum. Lol

  • I wouldn't need to masturbate at all if my girlfriend lived with me. She wants sex twice a day and I think that would be more than enough for me. Since I don't live with my girlfriend I usually masturbate once a day unless she's visiting, in which I don't masturbate at all. When we could meet every weekend I masturbated 2-3 times a week.

  • When I was in a relationship She May only want sex 2 times a week but we’d have one day where we would masturbate together but the other days I’d jerk off

  • i dk, but, 3 years, and still no marriage proposal. i get it times are tough, with the virus and unemployment at an all time high but, i would think that after 3 years, he would want to get down on one knee

  • 2 or 3

  • daily

  • It’s different for everyone as long as it’s not hurting your relationship or sex life and you’re not injuring yourself then go nuts! ✊🏻💦

  • Perhaps two or three times per month. It can be for a middle of the night sleep aid or the occasional gourmet porn and toys session when she is out with friends and I'm watching the baby.

  • I don't know what's normal, but I don't masturbate. She masturbates me.