Is being a virgin weird or a 'red flag' when you're dating someone? How and when do you tell people?
Im 19 and pretty unlucky in love i'd say. I have dated multiple woman over the years but most just didn't worked out. I have to admit i am pretty picky when it comes to women...
Now atm I am dating this girl, which i really fancy. We just connected so well since i met her, i haven't had this feeling in a while. We share a lot of interest and i make her laugh a lot, she also makes me smile a lot. Last week was our first date after a few weeks of texting/calling, we have our 2nd date planned next week.
I know she likes me, or has at least some romantic interest in me, because we made out on the first date and cuddled all night (We watched a movie at her place). She texted me afterwards and said she really enjoyed it. Besides that she was the one who suggested a second date before i even left her house.
Now on the first date we did have a short convo about past relationships, not that deeply. She asked me if i have ever been in a longterm relationship before, and I haven't really been in a long term relationship, so when i answered her question i think she kinda knew the fact that i'm a virgin? maybe not?
Now i read online that some people dont want to date virgins, mostly older people though. which leads me back to my question... is it weird that im a male 19 yr old virgin? and how and when should i tell her? or is it better not to tell her till after the deed?
Thanks in advance,
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