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Thefapbook.com. Facebook adds a new like button
Facebook has become the go to place when guys are feeling horny. Or even can make them feel horny. Facebook is a massive collection of every hot female friend's social life from her innocent to wilder moments. It is in short, his fapbook.
Ever wondered why you got so many likes?
Have you ever wondered when you were wearing that hot dress on Halloween, or posed for a selfie with your mouth open, or you and another hot friend took a bikini picture on the beach, why all your guy friends hit the "like" button? It's a reflex action to viewing such stimulating visual material, or else a mark of gratitude after a good session.
I love it when a female friend posts pictures of herself with her mouth open. It seems like many others do given the number of likes she gets!
When you pose like above, or better still looking right at the camera, we love you for it. So much so, we hit that "like" button.
Many of us fantasise about our hot female friends, and when they post visual material of themselves with their mouth open, well we've got something hard, you've got your mouth open, you can see where our minds take us.
Please do take a selfie. You're not the only one who thinks it's a good photo of you!
Since we have now entered the selfie era as well, Facebook is host to even more instant moments of selfies by the pool, by the beach, at the party, just after you got ready for a big night out. We love you for it. And we love that our phones are getting bigger again to show us your hot fb pictures too, but that's another take.
It gives us a visual tool for our fantasies
When we see a hot female friend with another hot female friend, it allows us to visually imagine the three some or you making out with her or us all in the hottub together. Men are visual creatures and simply love it when an attractive female posts a hot picture of herself for our pleasure.
So many guys do it and it seems a lot of women know it (and love it?)
I think I have gotten off pretty much every time I went on fb to at least two of my female friends, sometimes both of them together!"
One study showed 80% of guys masturbated to their female friends' pictures on Facebook. The trend was particular strong amongst single guys at nearly 92% where it was especially a common occurrence if the girl they were fantasizing about was also single. Amongst guys who had a girlfriend, it was lower at 65%. In this category, around 55% of this was about a female friend versus their girlfriend.
When an attractive female friend of a guy posts a new picture on Facebook, he will often browse through them. If he finds her hot, it's likely he'll fantasize about her and use the picture to compliment his imagination. E.g. She is posing at a party smiling, turns into her smiling whilst let's say riding someone, erm thing.
One of the most common fantasies was a female friend giving him head. If a girl happened to also be an innocent or very nice person, it added to the excitement. Often this was the only place they might see them being more suggestive or less innocent:
My cute and innocent friend is so nice. When she posts a picture, she looks really hot in a dress or her smile just makes me feel excited. I feel so happy seeing her on fb."
These female friends are mainly crushes and someone he desires
Now occasionally, the guy might "fap" to a girl he knows on fb (i.e. a fb friend only and not someone he considers a friend), but he wouldn't want anything with her. He just found that particular picture hot. But mostly, when a guy fantasizes about a fb friend (who is an actual person he cares about), he does like her in a special way and would happily sleep with her and live out that fantasy if she offered.
There are really nice cute friends who you like and feel aroused by their picture. There are fun girls who are a bit flaky on timings, who you enjoy in your own time.
It allows us to live out a fantasy much better. It truly connects our fantasies.
But fantasizing on "Fapbook" is quite common. Maybe it's exciting in some circumstances because you know the person, but sometimes it is because you actually know and like the person a lot.
It's a compliment
The guys are often expressing an attraction to you and actually imagine having passionate sex with you. Now do you like this? Would you prefer a fap button?
In my view, there are 3 types of guys who would do this:
1. Guys who are your fb friends, maybe you see in everyday life, but are not that decent to you. They are using you as objectification/sexual material.
2. Guys who are mainly your fb friends, who don't see you often. They might be nice to you, but are probably not that real a friend. The fact they don't see or contact you often by other means than fb is a case in point. They probably hit you up to get off about that hot friend they have when they are feeling horny or want some variety.
3. Guys who might be your fb or not, and you also see in life. They are extremely nice to you. A good person, confident, kind, caring. They find you genuinely attractive. Now if that's the case, why haven't you clicked that they like you (they're being extra nice to you for a reason ladies cos they like you), and why don't you tell them to get off Facebook and come to your place as you have to show them something?
Guy 3 would love to see you like this...
Would you want to know, should there be a fap button?
Would you feel flattered if you knew they got off about you? What about those who never clicked like and still got off to your picture of you looking rather fine in a short skirt? Or wearing that body fitting dress?
What about guys who aren't on Facebook and still see your profile picture through a friend or fapbook account?
What about guy friends who fantasize about you irregardless and wonder just how to live out those fantasies with the girl they really like (you)?
How do women not get when a guy "likes" them in real life?
So answer this. You have a great guy friend. Maybe you even met him when you were not single, but you are now. He makes you laugh. As well as being pretty handsome himself, he is very nice and caring toward you. Sends a sweet text here or there. Maybe you actually interact with him much less on Facebook (Fapbook) than by texting or catching up with him in person. Now if he is really nice to you, sends you flirty messages, do you not realise that this is because he likes you?
Have we entered an era where guys who brag on Facebook have women acting less than innocent?
Is the reason why some guys getting off about the lovely lady because they are more respectful to her in real life. Thus when she poses in her naughty pose with her girlfriends or in a hot dress, they see a side of her she keeps hidden?
Or even if a brash guy friend has her posing along with others so he can post it on his account along with many other pictures of him and other girls, is he just doing it so he can "fap to it" later? More often than not, this guy never gets to sleep with them though!
Would the guys who wouldn't objectify her like this, then have to resort to looking at that picture, fap about it (just her, it's called cropping) and then wonder afterward how to have her acting like this around him in private?
What do you think?
Most guys "fap" to their female friends on fb. And most guys would want what the above gif shows. And a majority of your guy friends would love to take you out. Why don't you ask THEM out?
Life's short, if you find him attractive, ask him out and enjoy yourself!
What Girls & Guys Said
23 36Okay but don't assume that girls don't do this either. Just saying.
thank you.
Do they really?
Lol 😂
I'm sure not all guys do this. Like wise, not all girls do it either. It depends on the person, and it's got nothing to do with gender.
it's like an innate sin thing.
@Panay Most guys do it though. And surely women realize that?
Totally ridiculous. Any guy who proposes that uses it himself and assumes other guys do. You are indeed in need of counseling
Why do you think certain pictures get 100+ likes? Look at the comments here from BOTH females and males.
Ew!
Facebook!
I can't fap to this!
I fap to sexy prons. Fapping on Facebook is for the one's, who finish the fastest.
Why? Have u tried it? Trust me, you are missing out
Bullshit. I don't even have Facebook and I never will.
In short: S'truth.
So say we all
What about the 3 guys above?
#NotAll But I wouldn't be surprised if overall it's a common thing. I'm sure some find it gross but I have to wonder if they've ever jerked off at all. You'll imagine a picture your crush in your mind and jerk off, but looking at a picture of them is totally bananas? Get real. You'll jerk off to a girl in porn, but than once you add her on Facebook - now it's crossing the line? Ok, sure buddy. I suppose daydreaming about being intimate with your crush is also taboo, huh? If you've never done it then ok whatever, but don't feed me bullshit like it's something crazy. And to the girls: It really seems like such a stupid thing to be bothered by, deal with it.
Yeah I agree, I don't understand how thinking about it in your mind is different?
sure
How do you mean? What do you make of the 3 guys in the compliment section above?
I'm sure girls jerk off too.
You reckon? How'd do you know and also do they know we do it? Isn't it odd that most suggestive pictures are on their fb page versus other mediums?
Id be lying if i said i never did it
Yeah I think they know don't they? I mean 96 likes on a pic?
Well id only do it if i had a crush on the girl If she's hot i might oogle the pic for a min but it takes more than that for me to get the ole johnson out
Oh yeah there's got to be some connection or otherwise just some attraction to a body feature
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What?
The pictures are not that hot at all but I guess so, I've never used Facebook for fapping, in fact I don't use Facebook :-)
Fair enough. Tbh you are more likely to bang those female friends by not using it than being friend zoned by being her fb friend.
Haha I wish I've never had a girlfriend and I think fb girls want me either
They will. If anything, they wonder and crave your attention since unlike the fb guys, you don't provide validation like that. Which leads to meeting in person like they used to in days gone by and actually having real sex.
facebook is overrated
I hear ya. Interesting that most women (including the nicer ones) pose more suggestively in photos that go on there. Even in party wear or work wear, it's like a cv for a model lol
Could you help me out on this? www.girlsaskguys.com/.../q2149531-do-women-let-some-men-get-away-with-more-see-description-first
This is why I don't have guy friends.
Please see the "It's a compliment". Not everyone is purely objectifying you. Tell me your thoughts on those 3 guy types
Sure it's a compliment, I suppose, but in a way slapping someone's ass is too. That doesn't mean it's not insulting/disgusting.
It still feels kinda creepy and at the very least, disrespectful though
@Panay that's what I think.
So do women like it? How do you mean?
I don't.
Explain the 3 guys in the "it's a compliment" section above
Just no.
reason why i dont use facebook again. just makes me puke
It seems more like a vanity/validation thing. Tbh I don't see how people you interact with on there are better friends than people you interact with by text. Even if you see them in person, I personally think guys or girls who remember special occasions without fb reminding them are your true friends. All you have to do is quit fb to find that out. I also think though that women post act far more slutty with Facebook friends (e. g. pose like models) than they would with the other closer type of friends. It makes no f**king sense?
i think this too. personally i can't stand the Whole " i wanna be an hot slut/ attention catcher /alternative model / whatver" thing either. it just turns me off to the point i dont wanna see people anymore
Yeah agreed. What I don't get though is the sweet girls who seem to do it too. So the flaky attention seekers do it a lot and get validation. They never seem to actually commit to anyone, and seem to crave the non fb guys since they don't validate as much. The sweet girls though, they pose innocent with you off fb. With friends who are on fb, she'll pose with other women around a guy who pretty much objectifies women like a model in short shorts etc. It's like they act innocent around good people (who are confident, charming, attractive etc) who aren't on fb? And slutty otherwise?
every girl is on his own man. the only thing i can see is that there are girls who wanna get validation out of total sluts and this makes me sad and pissed off at the same time. i know girls who act slutty on facebook and are really cool in real life. and viceversa. again they're all attention seekers to some degree
Yeah great point. I mean it's just strange that sweet girls as well are great in real life and they pose more slutty in photos (including group ones) that go on fb. I mean it's great viewing material when you see it, just don't get the behaviour. So to people they are closer with (ppl off fb), they act more innocent? I mean I'd love them acting more slutty like that all the time then! Yeah maybe they are validation seekers. Just how do you win lol? If they're sweet and you're decent?
So to people they are closer with (ppl off fb), they act more innocent? < oh i think i recognized you with these kind of questions and writing man uuuuh XD ok. Nah, as i said, it depends on how you act and how you show up. Even if you're Brad Pitt but have 0 confidence she might/might not depend to act like a sweetball of fluff or just a plain hoe how do you win? ignore this stuff. think with your penis. Be brave "Oh, you know what? you're better in real life than in photos" that's how i win. Even stuck up bitches with a fake attitude wanna suck my D when i say this shit. They drop the mask and most like, the panties
Haha do they? Hope so. I think if you're not one of the fb validators who click like (one of the hundred) then you're fine. Well obviously bro lol. You be confident. The point is though they'll often pose with fb friends like models, but act sweet and angelic with the off fb guys. But the off fb guys (us) will get the sex. It's just it's tricky to judge if you know the girl if she's into you.
It's just it's tricky to judge if you know the girl if she's into you. ^ im arrived to a point where i dont care about rejection anymore. Im the prize, and she's too stupid to discard me, her loss. She's not special so on with the #next
Yeah good point. I have come to the same conclusion. And tbh we are the prize right? Decent chaps who aren't just fake fb friends. It's just when they act angelic, it's tricky to tell when you know em. Not sure how to make a move, one became single and has moved back here. about to catch up soon.
yeah you are the prize since you're not the servant who wanna give her the sense of validation. the wanker behind the screen so to speak just go with the flow if you feel she's into you, kiss her. if she's not that much into you, #next. there's not time to lose
Good point. What about in person tho to know they're into you. Obviously you have to kinda wait a bit to go in for a kiss. So just be flirty and if she responds that's good? In terms of posing, do u think it's better if they pose round your waist and vice versa than the pouting, model pose with the fb guys?
yeah if she responds its a good thing, sure. dont wait for the kidss, if she touches you a lot of times be brave and go for the kiss i dont even care how they pose
Yeah me neither (I might see it via a friend and maybe fap thinking about her but that's it). I always flirt and touch new women. But how do you do the touching thing with girls you know (who became single).
you dont touch em unless they touch you. and that's it. otherwise you pass from the casual flirt vibe to the friendly touchy friend vibe. and you dont want that, you wanna bang em
Yeah agreed. But I'm confused, how do u mean. I thought most pua sites would say touch touch touch. I mean I do the waist, which she doesn't seem to do with many other guys (good sign?)? But haven't moved to you know poking the arm, because it feels nervous to do it suddenly (I'll try though when I see her soon). Recommendations for a 1st time in long time catchup (and she is now single btw)?
pua is shit. i dont need to seek her approval touching her unless she touches me. then yeah, low just above the ass if i got to make way to her somewhere intimate (resturant car or whatever) but thats it. until she touches me im not gonna touch her i'do like it suggested. be a gentleman. if she touches you, do the same, briefly. nothing too hot or too hard
Yeah I agree. Most pua stuff I think is to ruin good guy's chances so the guys who don't have any charm can swoop in being the only guys left at the end of the night lol. I agree, you touch and respond reciprocally. Yeah I also put hand on waist when I can. I just wish sweet girls would start sending better signals to good guys in social circle who they clearly think of higher, but don't really be sexual as much as with the model posing thing with others. I'm hoping to see some sexual vibe soon, she's single now. Agreed on the you're the prize, let her make a move too. It's just what environments are best too - restaurant car, teas bowl etc?
the more intimate you get the better it is. every place is good as long as there's not a huge crowd and you have to scream in her ears to make questions about her and having a normal decent conversation
Right, I mean is suggesting those three things a good thing for a 1st time in a longo time catchup? And is it clear I mean just 1 to 1?
ONLY 1 on 1
Yeah I agree that's what I want 1 on 1. But how do you ask it? And if she didn't get it, and asked about shall we see who else is free/ mentioned meeting others, can I make it, how do you make it clear?
as i responded in the other post i did, man. And if she didn't get it, and asked about shall we see who else is free/ mentioned meeting others, can I make it, how do you make it clear? "I dont feel we should have other people around, i just dont feel it. i have my reasons, maybe i will talk about it with you." and that's it
Ah I see. I mean do u have to say don't want to have others around? Even though it's true, to a girl would that be too harsh. Is there a way to put a positive spin on it about just want her there?
"what about some other friends" "im not in the mood to have other people around now! plus i wanna focus on your silly ass and make you laugh for good without someone unable to get my jokes around!" :D and that's it
Haha I hope so. It's just I do know the others (don't really like many of them tho lol). So can I say something without calling her silly ass (not really my style with her), can you change it from being not in the mood for others to just wanna see her (does that sound better and more positive do u get what I mean)?
"what about some other friends" "what about no? id like it better to talk with you only ! plus i wanna focus on you (insert sweet compliment here) and make you laugh for good" easy peasy
I like that better, yeah. Is it ok to say I wanna focus on you haha. When you say sweet compliment, you mean like you're the one who I want to see?
that sounds about right, yeah
I hope it works bro!
;) good luck!
Thanks!
Dude I can honestly say I've never jerked it to a picture on Facebook. That's weird man
You haven't lived buddy
WtF!!! And you say it's a compliment?
Most women seem to?
This is sick, not a compliment at all, that's rude and sick
Girls just post and go about their lives like any normal person
We don't need/want guys jerking off to our innocent pictures
This is why guys are such perverts and I can't ever think about guys without thinking they're sick fucks
I don't think so. If you take a picture do you pose like that normally if it wasn't going on fb? Do you not understand why there are 100+ likes on some photos, nearly 70% of which are most likely guys liking it? For some guys, if not many many, his female fb friend's pictures are a source of arousal and release?
That's fucking sick.
How so? So in the case of the 3 guys described above, under the it's a compliment section, what do u think?
But surely girls know why there are so many likes?
Not really. We don't think you're that perverted
I mean I think a lot of guys like it for that reason lol.
Can u help me out? www.girlsaskguys.com/.../q2149531-do-women-let-some-men-get-away-with-more-see-description-first
Some people might think that this article is completely worthless and shouldn't belong on this website..
I would like to bring up a point, that would support this article staying on this website forever..
Do you know that moment, when you're about to make a decision to whetever to date someone or not, because you're not entirely sure if he or she is compatible with you?
And then you start thinking, if there is some sort of attribute or test that you could pass the person through to get a final choice?
Well this is such a test, for me..
Some women would find this extremely disturbing, while some would laugh hysterically at it..
Which category would a woman fall into in this case is a pretty good metric on how likely it is that we would make a good match, in my opinion, yet..
In...
Explain?
U unaware?
Yes. What does that mean?
I'll be right back
In... means I'll be right back?
No
Just watch this.
https://youtu.be/9GsnOH1HUOY
I'll try, my youtube flash player is playing up, no sound and video is shaking. Will try on another medium soon. What is it?
this is really common, more than half my mates do most of the time to crushes :)
everyone looks at images of women/men we find attractive, I think it's more healthy than porn as it's natural..
I agree. I mean do women not realise this? 105 likes, she doesn't understand why? I think it's healthy yes. If you're single, she is, then go for it. But how do u tell them you think they are hot, without losing a friend?
Eww WTF ! I am hearing this for the first time.
I NEVER did it NEVER will. I don't know any other guy in my 20 years of life who do it either. All Your studies are all made up by you and totally WRONG.
You are making us all look bad look bad.
I HATE IT WHEN PEOPLE TRY TO JUSTIFY AND NORMALIZE THEIR WEIRD FETISHES AS VERY COMMON!