Is it better to be with someone on your sexual experience level?

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Like, if you don’t have experience, be with someone who doesn’t either. Or, if you have experience, be with someone with experience.
To be honest, I think it would be better instead of being with the opposite.

Finchie40 · Accepted Answer

Experience wise? No , because you can always teach someone to be better in bed, if they aren’t that good in bed. It’s best to find someone that likes intimacy and affection as much as you do period. Couples that experience bad sex lives with their partners’ usually end up cheating or leaving their partner for someone else. If you aren’t satisfied with your partner , you are best to have a sit down talk with them and discuss your reasons of concern to them , if nothing changes and they make no effort to satisfy you , it’s best to end the relationship with them and find someone else that meets your sexual wants and needs. Never stay with someone that only thinks about themselves and what is best for themselves, you will only be hurting yourself and wasting your time being with the wrong person , instead of being with the right person. If someone truly loves you and cares about you? They will make an effort to be better for you , they won’t hesitate and make excuses to not want to please you and satisfy you , if they do? Dump them and move on Mynadvoce is to always communicate with your partner before assuming anything , wear their shoes the same way you want them to wear yours and more than likely your relationship will get better. No relationship is perfect because no one is perfect , When you understand you can’t always be right and your partner is always wrong , your relationship will more than likely last the long haul compared to the short haul

Berethor · Accepted Answer

I thought that we have a character development, that you become a proud virgin who only want to be with a fellow virgin, but no, you still think that inexperience is bad, and think that you should be in open relationship and let your man to be with other women. Myself I believe that a virgin woman almost always better than a non-virgin woman, I don't want a ho.

https://allthetropes.org/wiki/Category:Character_Development

At3mis24 · Accepted Answer

Sometimes it's better never to tell your partner if you don't have experience (most men will run away if they figure out the girl is virgin), just be self-confident and it will work!

LaurenM1997 · Accepted Answer

I don’t have any experience but I prefer someone who’s had experience so they know what they are doing

Snkrhoss · Answer

When I was 26 I dated a girl that was 10 years older. There was a point I could tell she wasn’t getting much out of it sexually but loved hanging out with me. There was a point she became more of a mentor than a hookup. She started critiquing me and would tell me what I’m doing wrong when having sex. I learned a lot from her and was thankful for it

b_lova · Answer

It's better to have similar experience levels and desires.

Sadly the more experienced tend to corrupt the less experienced, unless the less experienced has lots of repressed fantasies. Then the more experienced can become the gateway to fulfillment for the less initiated.

RebelinSteel · Answer

It does not matter, as the idea of being with someone is to accept each other and learn together, to share and grow together in your own shared experiences.

SeriouslyNotSerious · Answer

For me, no. As someone who's still learning, I prefer someone who is more experienced and older than me.

Whitewulf · Answer

Well my is kind of a kink but I like to teach. If the girl starts throwing out all these positions or whatever are start to think about how she got to that skill level. Skill level = body count.

Tim2nice · Answer

Little experience is not a big deal as long as she’s open minded and willing to learn. No experience is not good though

David94358 · Answer

There really is no right or wrong answer to that, you can both learn together or you can be shown the ropes by someone more experienced. Communication is the most important thing

exitseven · Answer

My wife and I both had about the same low body count. It worked out good so far. My first time was with somebody who was a lot more experienced. it was not all that good.

DrPepper12 · Answer

There's advantages to both. If you're similarly experienced it's fine, there'll be a good compatibility. If you are mismatched, it creates a dynamic where the experience one has to lead and the inexperienced one has to consider what they want and how far they want to go which could be a lot of fun exploring.

Jennz6 · Answer

That’s why I like being a Submissive, I don’t need experience. I just do what I’m told

Wise4myage · Answer

Yes, experience always counts.😊

jahaims · Answer

It doesn't matter either way. If you have half a brain you can get good in the bedroom.

RedInnocent69 · Answer

No. Not always practical or realistic. They should be kind and you should like them.

msc545 · Answer

Be with someone more experienced and learn things, or be with someone less experienced and teach them things.

Nice222 · Answer

It’s all good.

MasterKS · Answer

mixing all is more fun in life.

jazz23 · Answer

Well in some cases yes it best to match with someone with experience. However if you meet someone who is openminded and willing to learn from you then it can still work just have to go a little slow.