Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health Hi! So I’m a 22 year old female who is a virgin and has not done anything sexual with a man thus far.
One thing that has always bothered me about sex is blowjobs.
Like I don’t understand how women enjoy giving bj’s to a man.
I find it very disgusting to place my mouth on a man’s genitalia (full of germs/bacteria) and allow him to also eject his disgusting wet sperm into my mouth.
And wait a minute…. I’m supposed to swallow it? Oh nooo.
I feel like such an outsider talking about this because almost every female seems to be totally fine with doing this act.
Is there something wrong with me for thinking this way? Is there anyone here that also thinks like me? 😭
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Is it normal that I think giving a man blowjobs is disgusting?
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What Girls & Guys Said
16 67Wrong with you? I wouldn't say that but 1) you don't have to swallow and 2) it's no dirtier than any other part of the body.
How do you feel about sex in general?
Thanks for your response! But it doesn’t make sense when people say oh it’s as clean as other parts of your body. But how? Isn’t that where urine comes out from
A man can take shower before that but yea it's where the urine comes out from.
Urine is normally sterile.
to give a blowjob is a beautiful experience... if your worried about piss don't be because small dosages is actually good for you... cum itself is actually a mood enhancer... i always feel better after giving a blowjob... and it's nice to suck a hard penis it really is.
I don't see why you feel like you have to tolerate it because others do, you have your limits and that's fine, as long as you have someone that respects those limits then it's fine no.
Thank you for being understanding!
No problem anon
Like many things in life, you might change your mind if you try it... you might like it. Find a nice clean hunk of a guy and play with his penis. Use your hands first, then gently kiss it. If it feels okay, swirl your tongue around the tip, and take just the tip into your mouth. If at any time it doesn't feel right, stop. That's okay. If it feels good, keep going, doing whatever you feel like.
Of course there is nothing wrong with your view... there are those on here that do like sucking dicks, although... none of us agree on everything.
I had a girlfriend at 20 something... and she told me to my face: "I always wondered what it would feel like to have a penis in my mouth"... The first guy she sucked, was a perfect example of what some asshole men do... he didn't 'ask' or even tell her, he just simply 'shot his wad' in her mouth, and she basically vomited on his stomach. That would leave any 'oral sex virgin' wondering 'why did he do that? She was hesitant to do it after that with me. and I understood why...
In a job I had for several years... a very sexually experienced girl told me straight out...'Its like having a mouthful of warm snot"... Now that is pretty graphic... and she was anything but a 'prude' or inexperienced.
My experience has been a lot like that... one girlfriend... literally vomited her entire dinner we had just had after I ejaculated in her mouth.
... Another, much younger girl... jumped up and immediately ran to the bathroom and washed her mouth out vigorously... I was ashamed that I had shot in her mouth... and YES... some of these "Gentlemen" want girls to 'swallow"?
I wonder how some of them would like a mouthful of warm semen and see how THEY liked it and then were ASKED to swallow that mess?
Being a man... of course I like a girl to suck my penis... but damn... I have to have an understanding of what that entails and what a girls feels/thinks about doing it..
most guys like it swallowed i don't recall any saying please don't swallow
You probably aren't alone, but many women really like it. Go figure!
It’s not normal but you’re young. Perhaps if you meet the right guy you might feel differently. A lot of women only find a penis attractive if it belongs to a man to whom they’re attracted.
I too am Virgin, 21 and completely agree with u
Respect for girls who are both virgin and don't do blowjobs, you are proper ladies.
Thank u
not at all.
Some people are just not into oral sex, either giving or receiving or both.
Some will be fine with oral sex but stop short of having him cum in their mouth or will be ok with him cumming in their mouth but not swallow.
Everyone is different with their likes, dislikes turn-ons and what turns them off.
Hopefully you will end up with an understanding partner that won't try to make you do something that you are not comfortable with.
I am disgusted by blowjobs, too! And also grossed out by the thought of a woman swallowing sperm!
And i prefer to date women who hate blowjobs 😊
But you are right, it is a very common kink. That doesn't mean you ever have to do it. Its just a special kink, nothing more, and its fine to be disgusted by it and never do it. And you dont even nedd to give it a try.
Nope. Nothing wrong with you. It doesn’t appeal to me, either. I don’t want to put something in my mouth that a man pees out of. 😖
@jazzy54 Well said!!!
@Jazzy54 you don't need to do to get pregnant, so it's clearly not necessary. :)
There's nothing wrong with that. You don't have to do that. It's not a requirement.
No its not disgusting honey its actually so much fun
Coming from a pro 😉
@Sitonmyface33 oh yes definitely
You wanna swallow mine after or have me cover your pretty face and big tits
@Sitonmyface33 oh cover me n then give me remaining to swallow
That’s a good answer. Then after I can lick your asshole until I’m recovered and then see how deep we can get inside there?
@Sitonmyface33 umm yeahh
I love that your butthole is so accepting
@Sitonmyface33 all 3 of my holes r very accepting lol
A fine quality in a woman 😉
@Sitonmyface33 yup ofcourse
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@Sitonmyface33 ( . Y . )
That looks pretty accurate of your chest haha
@Sitonmyface33 hehe it does
They are just missing my cum all over them
@Sitonmyface33 true though
Unfortunately 😞
@Sitonmyface33 aww
Maybe someday we can change that
@Sitonmyface33 😍😍
I agree with you.
Giving women an oral sex is ok, but the other way around is just bad.
You should both take a shower to rid your mind from germs. Then try laying on the bed together and try 69. 🙂
Thank you! I guess that is a pretty good idea
You are not the only female that thinks like that everything ain't for everybody and you have to think it's going to be inside of you but seeing as you have never had sex or tried. I guess my best advice would be don't be scared to try and don't give up so easy...
There is nothing wrong with how you feel about things in life , we are all different.. but I will say this a clean cock is most likely cleaner then a mouth is for kissing most days,, or someones hands or feet or ears or nose, there are things in life that you put in your mouth or near you face and eyes and nose and mouth every day with out even thinking about it.. like money etc door handles that people did not clean there hands befor they used it to open and you touched it then what did you do with you fingers and hands since then.. think about it going forward.. so sex is not dirty its normal, just be clean if your wanting to have fun.
"Like I don’t understand how women enjoy giving bj’s to a man." Why are you supposed to understand what other women enjoy doing just because you might not? Since you're already biased against it, you may never try it with an open mind to begin with.
" Is there something wrong with me for thinking this way? Is there anyone here that also thinks like me? " There's nothing wrong with you, and there are plenty of other women who don't like giving them. Similarly, some men don't like going down on a woman. It's all an individual preference.
Sex, in all its variations, holds different levels of importance for people. It's essential to find someone compatible with your own if you're going to enter a relationship, and/or a marriage. Not discussing things that are deal breakers or no-no's with potential partners will end very badly for all involved.
If you don't like it then don't do it. Wait till you get married. And only marry a man that you love every inch of. There's nothing wrong with not having sex before marriage. Infact it's a lot safer.
Yes, you are normal. That is a completely normal attitude to have about fellatio.
I mean, like you said, most girls seem to like it, but you shouldn't feel bad or awkward about it. They aren't for everyone, and I totally get why that would be a turn off.
Do you like the idea of a guy giving YOU oral though?