Is it ok to cuddle with someone who is 7 years older than you?

I don’t want serious relationship but I want something sexually just for fun. So that guy wants to be friends with benefits without having sex but planning to do oral sex. I also want this but I feel guilty of doing this with older guy plus I m virgin girl. What do you guys think about age gap?
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  • I don't see why not. A number of years ago I did it with a girl that was only 18 and I was 45. All we did was sit together listening to music for a few hours with my arm around her, her hands in mine and I accidentally kissed her on top of her head.

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  • Wow. I like that you’ve already laid out the plans on how far you’re willing to go with him like it’s a 5-year plan. I wish more women were like this. Write out your mission statement for sex so that anyone who wishes to date you understands your values. Now there’s no mystery about what you want. This is genius.

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • I wouldn’t worry about age

  • Hope it's not a problem my girlfriend is 8 years younger than me

  • It is fine. Just be careful.

  • Thats its completely upto you lol

  • You're both adults, so I don't see a problem with you two cuddling.

  • If she were 40, sure. Probably more than that.

  • It could work good for both of you.

    • I know I'd certainly enjoy that.

    • But I don’t want sex just foreply haha

    • Yes I know but you dud say you'd give him a bj, sounds like a great arrangement.

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  • The age gap isn't the problem, it being casual is. People should only do that stuff while being a monogamous couple.

  • Sounds stupid.

    • You think it is not good one?

    • Could get raped also.

  • Your descriptive paragraph doesn't not match the actual question that you asked.
    Sucking dick is not "cuddling."

    • Ya so is it ok to do oral sex with him?

    • That depends. Is that something that you want to be part of your history? Do you want "used to suck guys friends' dicks" to be part of your legacy? Reputations last forever, you know. There are no takebacks.

  • As long as you are both adults, who cares…. go for it.

  • Men used to have to make a commitment to a woman for sex.
    Women wanted equality and freedom.
    This is the unintended consequence.
    Do as you please.

  • I cuddled with my fiancée, who was 22 years older than I. Nothing wrong, as long as both are consensual.

  • The age gap isn't a concern, the fact you're a virgin is though.

  • It's not ok to have friends with benefits, ever. But, I can't control people, I can only accept that they're going to do it, regardless of what I like, right?

  • 💯 as long as you are 18 why be concerned with age? Go for it and have fun!

  • Yes, cuddle. I don’t think 7 years is much of an age gap. I still date girls 18 and up. You will certainly enjoy the oral sex and you should have some great orgasms from his tongue.

    • Thank you for the Like! Hope you enjoy those orgasms!

  • don't worry babe

  • Do it its ok he will be expertise and u will learn a lot
    Enjoy ❤️

    • I wanna ask u if u mind Have u ever maked out with a guy?

    • If u never Then u may lose virginty with him

    • Why you think like that? We agree not to have sex

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  • Yes totally

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