I have this old friend and we will always be friends but some times when it's been some time between my own personal sexual activity my mind wonders and I start thinking what she is like in the bed.
We have spoken about sex and our personal sex life's before, I've even told her "I would",
But I've started to do this with most of my attractive female friends. Is this wrong? It would also be interesting to get a female perspective on this
Is it wrong to think of your female friends sexually?
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10 46It is demeaning to sexually objectify someone without their consent
Finding someone sexually arousing isn't objectification. Disregarding the entirety of their existence except for their sexual appeal is sexual objectification. If you think someone has nice hair, you're not objectifying them by finding their hair appealing.
It doesn’t sound like objectification, it just sounds like his friend is really attractive and he was a little slow to notice it right away.
I've had sex with many of my female friends and we're all great friends
Sex is normal. Nothing wrong. She may want to bang you, you never know. Otherwise, chill.
No, that’s just normal thoughts.
There are two possible variations.
First, you are in love with your friend but can’t or don’t want to admit it. Also you are trying to find an excuse for your thoughts or feelings that you are hiding from yourself.
Second, you just a guy who desperately needs a girlfriend, because you are alone and not sexually satisfied.
Those are a couple of good thoughts, and honestly I don't I would really need to evaluate my thinking to give you an answer
Nice answer. 3rd thing even if u r having a partner and the woman is a bit gud lukn and desirable then also the case
I mean that’s pretty common but I don’t like it too much when guy friends are sexually interested in me. It’s flattering in a way, but I’d like to think that they are friends with me because they care about me and not just because they think they may get a chance to screw me. 😥
Sounds like you’re a normal human male.
You perv. That is why people say men and women can't be friends. It is because of perverts like you.
Sexual interest in the opposite sex is not perverse, you fool.
I did tell my friend I had these thoughts... We are still friends
Another perv protecting his boyfriend.
Probably no one likes and your just upset about that
No I have blocked pervs like you who were once "friends". I don't need unwanted attention unlike the undesirable women who feel flattered by that. It boosts their low self-esteem.
Why he is a perv. Everyone is like that.
Your private sexual thoughts can be anything you want. Probably best not to tell them though.
It's literally the only reason we have them around.
Go crush some puss bro.
Sure thing!! What about you? lol
She surely fuck your ass in her fantasy. So you should not worry. I also love to think about my male colleagues in a sexual way haha.
So females can have a dirty mind too lol 😂
Of course haha
O. k. keep it up. But don't forget your Actual Relationships.
Yah! Females hav u don hav to be amazed boi they are too humans they also have lust desires like males