It's OK For Women To Be Promiscuous

There’s nothing wrong with being promiscuous. Our society is one big double standard, but I’m sure you realize that. You’re damned no matter what choices you make. If you’re overweight, you’re unhealthy. If you’re skinny, you’re on drugs. If you don’t drink, you’re boring; if you do drink, you’re a lush. If you don’t have sex, you’re a prude; if you do have sex, you’re a slut.

Here are my reasons to support female promiscuity

Female Promiscuity Is Natural

It's OK For Women To Be Promiscuous

New anthropological research on human behavior has found that when it comes to sexual selection, females aren't merely passive objects of male competition, but actively seek out multiple partners as an "evolutionary strategy." According to science, we're all sluts. This result was published by human behavioral ecologist Brooke Scelza in an article titled "Choosy but not Chaste: Multiple Mating in Human Females" which was published in Evolutionary Anthropology journal. (Source)

It is Their Body

It's OK For Women To Be Promiscuous

It is their body. Who are you to judge? They can do whatever they want to with their body. As long as their intentions are clear and they're sleeping with men for enjoyment and not sabotage, who are we to judge? Who is anyone?

We’re Curious Creatures

It's OK For Women To Be Promiscuous

Humans are naturally curious animals. Our progress is proof of this. So what's wrong if a woman wants to explore the sexual world? She can and if she wants then she should!

Being Single Makes You Desperate

It's OK For Women To Be Promiscuous

It is not true for everyone but on G@G, we're familiar how much desperate singles are to lose their virginity and get laid. Living without intimacy can be challenging. I'm not saying it's impossible. Nothing is impossible, but dating and sex go hand in hand. This desperation can lead to depression. Getting laid can help you to reduce it.

It's Experimentation At Its Best

It's OK For Women To Be Promiscuous

Sex can be part of the day to day life. Promiscuity is just a sexual experiment at its best. It's like one day you eat at McDonald's next day you eat at Burger King. That's all. Just like trying on shoes at the department store or test-driving cars at a dealership, some women feel the need to experiment with multiple men in the bedroom. Experimenting isn't a bad thing, and women shouldn't feel bad because of it.

Men Do It Too

It's OK For Women To Be Promiscuous

We're living in the 21st century. We've feminism, we've equality (or at least trying to achieve it) I'm not feminist but I do believe in gender equality and equal sexual freedom should be part of it. If we're okay with men sleeping around then why not women? They've right to do so. If we see a promiscuous woman we slut shame her. It isn't fair. Men are promiscuous, and women shouldn't be made to feel bad if they are as well. #StopSlutShaming

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  • It's also OK For Women Choosing To Not Have Kids and remain ChildFree.

  • Sure is it, people can do what they want.
    I just would rather not be as the i find the idea very unappealing.

  • I think you are going about this the wrong way. Nobody should be promiscious, neither man nor woman.

    The morals in this era have fallen so much, starting with thinking that it's okay to have sex out of marriage, then it's okay for men to be promiscious, now it's okay for women to be promiscious. the next thing you know it will be okay to have sex anywhere anytime, and it's heading that way with exhibitionism and the rest. smh.

    The word freedom has screwed with people's head that they forgot that we are humans not animals, and what differenciate us is MORALS.

    • Yeah, finally someone! Promiscuity has nothing to do with freedom - in fact it's completely the opposite, it's a typical example of desublimation, a way to deprive your life of it's meaning, so in fact you end up caring less about your freedoms that really matter...

    • FUCK YES FINALLY SOMEONE

    • Nicely done!

  • Years of observation have convinced me that people who behave like this, are usually not at very happy times in their lives.

    This applies to men, as well as to women.

    • My opinion might change when I turn 34 :)

  • By all means, by as promiscuous as you want.

    But then don't complain that decent men no longer want you.

    • There are plenty of decent men who don't care how many sexual partners a women has had.

    • @Eckyx I don't see how any decent man would want to provide resources for a female that has the potential to get pregnant from another man.

    • I don't know of too many women these days who are looking to be at the mercy of a man for financial stability. Many make more than men, in fact - women are proving more successful at higher education. It's more common (in the US at least) for women to look for an equal, at partner for emotional support and fun and someone to work together with against life's challenges.

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  • You can not force people to like what you want. Yeah we live in an odd time of slut shaming where bad decisions that are detrimental to the individual and others are not shamed or discouraged but celebrated and encouraged.

    If a woman is a slut then she should own it. All about personal responsibility. But the rest of the world does not have to accept sluts. Yeah some guys may have sex with sluts but that is all they are good for because that is all they bring to the table.
    Others won't bother with sluts because of our own personal preferences.

    A woman is free to explore her body and sexuality but she is not free from the consequences of her actions. A slut will never be treated like a lady because she isn't. far from it but lady in the original meaning of the word.

    A slut is highly irresponsible with her own body thus can't be trusted with anything else. Also it would be foolish to expect loyalty - self respect or self control. Spreads diseases knowingly or not. Many men have foolishly tried to turn hoes into housewives and failed miserably. A slut is not worth the investment just something fun to play with at the time.

    As for your #StopSlutShaming thing. Answer this question: Is being a slut something that people should aspire to? Please state your reasons for your answer.

  • Nah, promiscuous act is never OK. It is not okay for men, it is not okay for women and it is not okay for cereal bowls.

  • Yes. If it's okay for men, it's okay for women.

    • Men and women are different. Women make terrible men but still try to be men. odd image they have of what a man is though.

    • but it's not ok for men either

    • @WynterWarrior Men and women are only slightly different actually. Society tries to make us different.

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  • Well said! Agree all round.

  • It's easy af for a Woman to be Sexual and get away with it.

    It's not the same for an unattractive male. First rule of Sexual Harrasment "Be attractive", Second rule "Don't be unattractive".

    Gtfo, It's extremely unattractive when a male finds out his girls has fucked around more than he has. It never plays out well.

  • Its not ok. Call me old fashioned, but a commitment is a commitment. Institutions like marriages, the idea of getting old together, anything worth doing outside sex becomes meaningless. No thanks, a man needs to live by a code of honor, otherwise he's just a mindless beast. I hold the woman I love to the same standard. Otherwise I would have no self respect and I would be disrespecting her all the same.

  • No, it is not. Female promiscuity Is predominantly unnatural to women over 10,000 years of human history other than the inevitable deviants and sociopaths. Modern Western culture shields that truth but it is always there,

  • This take just made me love you.

    • I bet you have had ONS at least once

  • It's "ok" for them to sleep around, but that doesn't mean we can't find them less desirable for doing so.

    Also, if you are going to talk about how being promiscuous is a good evolutionary strategy for them, please explain how it would be a good evolutionary strategy for a man to become sexually exclusive and share his resources with a promiscuous woman.

  • And this post is exactly what's wrong with society. Stop supporting and glorifying harmful behavior.

  • Their life, their choice. That's all.

  • That's an individual choice. It will affect the way others see you, but you can't really control what others think. There will always be someone to judge you. You might get rejected for it, but you can't blame them for that. They make choices just like you do. All you can do is whatever you feel is best for you and hope for the best.

  • um ok?

  • It's fine, but don't blame me for judging. I'm not gonna date someone who's promiscuous simply because for me, it reflects her tendency to be impulsive and impatient. Besides, I think sex is an intimate act that I'd only do with someone I love, so someone who doesn't think similarly to me isn't compatible with me anyways.

  • I hate that word promiscuous

    • I agree with your mytake though

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