Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health 
I see so many questions related to penis size, and I have just got to put some truth out there. I apologize in advance for any offense and for maybe being too open about myself.
YES SIZE MATTERS, just not nearly as much as you may think.
I understand why it is important to you. You want to know that you are the best. Maybe you just love the look of awe on a woman's face when she sees it. Maybe you are terrified that you are not good enough, or that she is secretly laughing or dissapointed.
For my average and below average guys.
She has had bigger, but she has not had better. Now I know bigger is better right? Yes, a bigger cock is somewhat better than a small cock. But it does not mean the sex, the connection, or the relationship is better. How do I know this? Because who is she with now? You are obviously best at something.
We care about size. We want to know that you have a normal sized functioning cock. But average is around 5 inches hard and we don't know your inches just by looking. I have had guys that I thought were average tell me they were 4 inches. I got used to it and so did my vagina. And the sex was still good.
This is how I judge the quality of sex in order from most important to least.
1. Are we in love or do we have a strong connection?
2. Am I feeling sexy?
2. Are we sexually compatible? Do we have similar likes, communicate well and catch a good rhythm?
3. Is he skilled? Can he turn me on?
4. Is he a gentleman...ladies first. :)
5. How does he look naked and how big is his penis?
See where I put the D?
Now for my big guys. I know what you want.
We really don't want to have conversations about how amazing your penis is. In fact, if you get cocky...see what I did there...then it is a BIG turn off. And I am liable to go back to the little guy. The biggest I have had was somewhere between 11 and 13 inches. He was also very thick and great in bed. But what I loved most is that he was very shy about his penis and did not want to talk about it. He also wasn't the best I've had.
Last note is this. I find maturity very sexy. A guy who is jealous and worried that he is inadequate does not come off as mature. The guy who can't get enough of himself and thinks he is God can take a hike. But the guy who can be straight forward about himself and doesn't care about my past. I won't be able to keep my hands off him.
What Girls & Guys Said
18 83I'm 7'' for example, some considered me big while others were like "meh" and in one case the girl was like it's the smallest I've ever had hhhhh... yet that wasn't important as I understood so far, as long as it goes deep enough and you know how to use it then women doesn't really care...
nice my take :)
You probably should have pointed out that if a girl doesn't bang a different guy every week then their junk will tighten up and two fingers will be too big for a little bit, forget about 4 inch 6 inch 5 inch, and the ever so popular 12.5inch.
I like how people always focus on the length despite the majority of nerve endings being centred around the vaginal opening.
We can still feel things deeper than the opening
@FriendlyGemini Yes, you can. But there's significantly less sensation within the vaginal canal. But the clitoris has the majority of nerve endings, then you have the vaginal opening. Longer penises can cause bruising on the cervix uteri and prevent the man from rubbing onto the clitoris during penetration. But yes, you can still feel things inside the vagina.
I know how it works since I actually have a vagina, but thank you for the information lol.
@FriendlyGemini Just because you have a body part doesn't mean you know about it. You stated something I never made a claim regarding. I simply explained my point.
Well, I know about it. Also, I know how it actually FEELS to have one, inside and out. That's why I said what I said. I don't really know what statement I made that you never made a claim regarding, but I was simply stating my point as well. Length matters to some people because we can, in fact, feel the difference. Some people enjoy more length, some people enjoy less. Not everybody actually cares about length. It has nothing to do with how many nerve endings are around the opening. It all depends on preference honestly.
Weird guy.
Once you've told a guy "The biggest I have had was somewhere between 11 and 13 inches. He was also very thick and great in bed", and the guy is average (or even 8-9") - you don't think that's gonna pop up somewhere in his head at some point, and affect him? If you say it shouldn't affect him if he's a real man, confident, or some s**t like that, etc., then you don't know human nature, and I have even less respect for you. Wht the hell should you tell the new guy about some monster cocks from your past? Geez!
Ladies, if you've experienced a big cock, please don't tell your new guy. Tell him the biggest you've had is about his size, maybe a bit bigger. Lie your ass off if necessary. Trust me, his performance will not be affected adversely. However, if you must tell him about your big one (or all your big ones - even better to emasculate the poor (average) guy, right?), please tell him that it hurt, was too big, you didn't like it, blahblahblah, etc. Do you want to brag about what you've had, and potentially ruin your new guy's confidence/ego? Hurt his feelings? make him feel lesser, inadequate, not measuring up? Not good enough for you? Or, do you want your new guy rock hard and in the groove, feelin' it, and being The Man? Keep that kind of brutal, hurtful honesty to yourselves, girls. We don't need to hear that s**t. I don't speak for all guys, just the vast majority. I'm sure there are "small-ish" guys who get turned-on thinking about all the thick cocks plunging into the girl they're with. And, if you think that you can tell your new guy about all the big ones (that have bottomed-out, and maybe stretched you), and that "you might not be that big, but you know how to use it", are a wonderful lover, blahblahblah - the guy doesn't want to hear about the monster cocks, and telling him his works great still doesn't make it right, or even smart. I believe that women who tell their new men about all the big cocks they've had, lotsa anal, DP, gangbangs, the whole football team, etc., are f**king c**nts, and don't deserve the love of a good man. I know from experience that it's best to keep some things to yourself. You think I tell my new girlfriend how tight my ex was? Gimme a break! So, do you care more about your guy, or more about "honesty, and trust", that might destroy him (or at least adversely affect his "drive" with you). (in his mind) Why even try - you've had way more than he can ever give you. He's already defeated.
Yup, couldn't have said it better.
@InTimoreDei thanks
Kinda like telling a chick you've had much tighter than her, but not to worry about it because it still gets the job done. Besides, she can still use her hands and mouth, so what does pussy size matter? Yeah, see how well that goes over.
@JayParris We live in a double-standard country, boys, and it's time we fought back against this s**t. They want our jobs, our kids, our possessions, our hearts, minds, bodies, and our nuts in their back pocket. Not on my watch. However, it's a different world in the bedroom. Take me, mandinga!
Right intention but I think if one of these guys finds out the girl is lying or can tell she is he'll be more mad lol. Just be honest. This honesty also means you are with the person for the right reason (s) because that typically comes first if you're looking to stay with someone. Let him know what you like about his member, in the same way he should realize he's probably been with other girls he liked more for certain attributes/features. And if you are perfect to him in every other way except that you have been bottomed out then he should feel lucky he's got a nearly perfect girl for him... seriously. This shit gets murky but I really feel like honesty and undoing stubbornness are the ways to approach this. Some others have commented on blown up numbers regarding size, I definitely know guys who threw out big numbers knowing no one would ask to see and unless a girl is measuring dudes I wouldn't bet on her accuracy.
I have a 50" penis here girls, i swear.
wanna meet up
JK dudezzz lol
Once a bitch has a really big porn sized cock like MINE, they typically tell me that they aren't turned on by smaller or average dudes afterwards. SIZE DOES FUCKING MATTER! Do your penis exercises and get a penis extender / penis hydro pump. Get as big as you fuckin can dudes. Even indigenous peoples had the boys wear weights on their penis to stretch it out and make it longer. They were obsessed with having longer cocks. Women have their fake tits (pushup or surgery), fake looks (makeup), fake nails, fake hair (extensions or color), fake height (heels), etc.. They worry about all that shit. We have one thing that we should really worry about and that is our cock size. Don't be fooled by these bitches who say bigger isn't better. THEY ARE LYING! Just like they lie about their looks in every way possible, they lie about SIZE not being important on a guy. Get these bitches DRUNK and ask them the question again. You'll get the TRUTH.
Alpha.
@Fetastrophe beta LOL as if those things even exist
yeah that's why most guys don't want a chick that has slept around, then they will be craving that possibly bigger cock that they may have had in the past. No need to have a giant dick though, it really can be painful to shove something over 7inches in a women who's vagina is only 4 inches deep. I think they like it more as a status symbol, a hood ornament to brag about
your tiny ain't ya😂
I'm between 4.5 and 5 on a good night. My wife tells me it's fine, and I believe her. But, I'm also one to joke about it too. I'll make small penis jokes with her all day. I don't care.
Ya, the only ones concerned about dick-size are the ones that watch too much porn.
I've yet to find a girl that wanders around with a tape measure. ;)
I couldn't agree with you more. Nice take. 👍
If a woman wants bigger than my slightly above average bone, there's other ways to take care of her needs. However, I have standards too.
i don't care so much about dick as other guys seem to xD but i just stumbled about your 4th point.
i've experienced girls not caring for me after i made them cum. like "what's wrong with you? why can't you cum" well bitch cause you're not moving and seem reluctant to even touch my junk...
i feel like we need to raise awareness that not only men are the douches that only care for their own pleasure xD
With feedback and discussions from the ladies on this and other sites, it would seem to me the only problem penis sizes for the average woman are the extremes. The 1 to 3 inch erect penises & the 9 to 12 inch, ultra thick penises seem to be the ones the ladies say either causes too much discomfort or is hard to find satisfaction from. At any rate my greatest pleasure is derived by causing and giving pleasure to my female partner, whether that be from oral stimulation, other stimulation methods or copulation. For a guy to cause a woman extreme pleasure with his penis by copulation it's not only about the penis but also the positioning of the clit/clit hood. I've found that woman with clit hoods that extend down to the vaginal opening have no difficulty obtaining orgasm by copulation while women whose clit hoods end a 1/2 inch or more above the vaginal opening require other forms of stimulation other than copulation only.
yeah im sure you want a guy who doesn't care about your past LOL that's a terrible sign girl
A guy who cares about your past is a guy who cares about you and doesn't just want to fuck
My penis is two inches when soft and four inches when it's hard.
And when my penis and genital's are shriveled up there even smaller.
Nice take
For sure what you said about a guy, taking too much pride in his size is bad
And TBH, men are pressured to do that , this topic have too much attention to it , it makes a man care more about his size, sadly
No matter how you think about it , we are humans after all , and we care about the general view on this matter
Mine is 5.5 inches erect with adequate blood flow, I once got around 6 inches but that's when I'm super aroused.
My microscopic penis be doing mass damage bruv.
Ain't a thing to worry about as long as I'm getting the benefits.
If she's gunna cheat/ leave me or whatever just 'cause my dick shorter than a toilet paper roll then she wasn't really >feeling< me anyways... See what I did there... It's a BIG turn off. So you're right, dick size does matters but not really if you look at the bigger picture. Sex is important in a relationship but far from being the most important. If someone's dick size is going to affect a relationship, well then.
The biggest I have had was somewhere between 11 and 13 inches - Right... And I am the king of Germany
IMPOSSIBLE!!! I am the true king of Germania!
@Landshrk0068 Which also means that she hasn't had 11-13 inch dick. I win my argument.
Touche. You do.
Ok, I am gonna make a MyTake about the topic but I am going to the root of the problem, and it will include females issues related to self image.