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Men, genuinely - how do you feel about bisexual women?

I'm asking this because I keep seeing people posting about how apparently, all women are bisexual now.

I'm now wondering what guys think about ACTUAL bisexual women who like both genders.

Feel free to be as open with your opinions, I don't care if you think I'm mentally ill, damaged, or going to hell, have at it.

And to clarify:

I am bisexual, but I am not polyamorous. The two aren't the same. If I am dating a person, male or female, I am dating and sleeping with them exclusively. I don't have this uncontrolled urge to be constantly having sex with other people. That's a misconception.
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  • My last girlfriend was bisexual, so I can say that initially it was something very interesting and intriguing, to find about, to wonder and explore about it... and as you say very well, she wasn't polyamorous, so... didn't go that way, some of the misconceptions you've mentioned.

    And then, it was pretty much like my previous relationships with other (straight) girlfriends, as in... it didn't really became an every day and 24/7 constant thought in our minds, not a worry, no drama, no complications... so this was my own experience. You just have to be smarter about these and other things, it is not all black and white in relationships.

    • Bless you, sir.

    • best wishes for you, BakedBeanie (=

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  • I've dated several bi-girls. Most of them were monogamous, but a couple of them had fun times with girls while we were together (which I was fine with). As long as I'm the only guy, I'm fine with her playing with girls.

    It's not some fantasy for me - and MOST women are straight (only about 1/3 of women ever have any lesbian feelings - which is still a large number, but nothing like "most), and I'm totally fine with that too.

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  • It's not actually "people", it's one person, who keeps making accounts to ask the same damn question, because apparently s/he's never figured out how to masturbate, or do anything actually enjoyable with his/her time.

    As to how I feel... for the vast majority of bisexual women, it's absolutely none of my business. Would I date one? Probably. I'll admit I might have some reservations about asking someone to shut off a corner of their sexuality, though.

  • No issues, but in 40+ years I've only had sexual encounters a couple of admittedly bi girls, and at no time was another woman involved with the two of us. The MFF threesomes I've been in were always with straight girls who were not into each other at all.

  • I married a bisexual girl. When she wanted a man, I satisfied her. When she wanted a girl, she cheated. We divorced. It was a mistake for me and I learn from my mistakes.

  • My sisters bisexual, she’s a year younger than me and came out as a teen.

    I've had a number of bisexual girlfriends

    my last girlfriend was dating a girl prior to dating me.

    I have zero problem and often I find them more confident at times, having been through the often nightmare of coming out.

    obviously you get nice people and not nice people irrespective of sexuality.

    I really don’t give a toss about someone’s sexuality, as long as they are a nice person.

  • It makes no difference to me. All I care about is that she’s into me.

  • It is their choice and their lifestyle. I do not care. One of my previous girlfriends was bi and we still had fantastic sex.

  • If I think I'm getting a threesome out of it, thumbs up from me :D

    • Bisexuality is not the same as polygamy, not even close. Also would you feel the same way if she wanted an extra guy?

    • @MyNameJames Easy buddy. Lighten up, it was only an attempt at humour.

    • I'm not your buddy, guy

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  • i think a few guys feel threatened by it thinking any bi girl would cheat but to me they are no more likely to cheat as a straight girl and also i have never been the jealous type anyway so if anything, if a girl tells me she is bi then i personally find it both sexy and interesting

  • Well not all... averagely speaking most... i dont mind as long as it doesn't affect our relationship...

  • I know not all women are bisexual. If my partner were, that would probably be ok, and no, I wouldn't have to participate. But I might want to have other female partners too.

  • I would have never dated one.
    The moment I found out she was bi I would stop dating her.

    • Why might that be I wonder, afraid you'd lose her to a girl and lose some of your uber-macho masculinity to a girl. She even said "bisexuality is NOT the same as polygamy" also neither one of those means she'll try and cheat on you.

    • @MyNameJames I would never have sex with a man. I will only be with a woman who is straight who only wants men. Being willing to screw your own sex is very unattractive to me.

  • Doesn't make much of a difference to me. My girlfriend's bi and sometimes we have sex with girls together, which is literally the only time it matters to either of us.

  • I love bi-sexual women. Since the age of 17 I've mostly only dated bi's or had sex with them. Back then it was frowned upon by men and women. My first one I dated my friend broke up with her when he found out and I took the phone from him lol. Yes most girls are bi or have had a desire to sleep or make it with a woman because they are God's most beautiful creation. Now women are more open about it but I have always found out within the first 5 mins. It's like that's the first thing they tell me for some reason. I still don't think all guys are ok with it. I say the more the merrier when it comes to women but I think a lot of guys are insecure and afraid their woman will have sex without him out leave him or maybe afraid she'll want him to join and he won't be able to handle 2 women. I don't know?

  • I would date someone that was bisexual if she was nice and she was into me.

  • I’m not a fan as of now

  • No issues with that here. If I like her and she likes girls, you see where I'm going. I don't like that implication by the way...

  • I dated a bisexual girl once and she cheated on my twice with other girls. I know not all are like that but it kinda turned me off to it. I got the distinct impression I could not offer her everything she needed, and that's not cool with me.

    • Lived experience can definitely have an impact on you. I'm sorry that happened, and obviously, me promising all bi girls aren't like that won't take away what you experienced. However, the only thing I can say that I, myself, do not cheat on anyone I date and choose remain to monogamous. Peace and love to you and I hope you're in a better place.

    • Back at ya. I'm good, thank you.

    • No problem. Thanks for commenting.

  • Popular porn culture.
    No, the vast majority of both genders are still attracted to the opposite gender. All of this gender and role confusion has been fabricated. It's still the fringe, and plenty of confused youngsters.

    My kids came up with a good question to determine orientation, works for both genders: "Do you like'a the dick in and around the mouth?" :)

    • Kinda funny, not accurate to reality, and insensitive to those who are not straight and/or cisgender. The trifecta post, good job.

    • @MyNameJames Eat shit dumbass. If you're freaky you're still the at the very fringe of normalcy. And we really don't fucking care.

    • How amazing, a perfect example of why we shouldn't respect all of our elders. I'm sure your family loves talking to you at Thanksgiving, I get the feeling you watch a lot of "libtard get destroyed by (insert conservative name here) compilations".

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  • It’s only 1 guy relentlessly posting the same question

    Personally, couldn’t care less

  • My ex was bi, I enjoyed the relationship a bit more for it, we shared most of the same interests, and because she was bi that extended to porn, but there was the worry that she would dump me for a girl because girls can't get her pregnant.

    She did end up cheating on me, but it was with another guy, which I found odd, but whatever.

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