Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health 
Men, I know this title sounds like I'm about to drop a link to some scam, but nothing at all is required of you except an open mind. I don't have much interest in spending a lot of my time on a take and you don't have much interest in spending a lot of your time reading it so let's get right to it and get out:
- Men need to improve mentally much more than they need to improve physically.
We love women's bodies. It can make all of the difference in terms of how much we enjoy sex if the woman is hot (to us) or if she is less physically attractive. This does not include physical attraction resulting from emotional bonding, but pure animalistic desire. Yet, we have porn. We can see and enjoy a female body that far exceeds any body that we'll ever meet let alone have sex with. So why do we bother to have sex when it's time consuming and sometimes soul crushing to get, has the risk of STDs and pregnancy, and is far less private than masterbating is? Because a vagina feels that much than our hands? There are things that imitate that as well, but those things are used mostly by "sex perverts" and those who just have an unusual interest in sex. No, we do it because of the psychological impact of having sex with an actual woman activates in our brains. Our minds want to touch an actual woman, this releases chemicals in our brain that our own hands can't match. It's all in our heads and this makes a much bigger impact than how tight a woman's vagina is. To put it another way, it's not so much that the woman has a tight vagina that makes sex with her so awesome, it's the fact that we know we are having sex with a vagina that is really tight which quadruples how happy we are when having sex with it.
Women tend to be less stimulated by the visual. This is good news for the fat boys and maybe annoying for the handsome men who've put in hard time at the gym. While having a six pack does help you come off as more dominant to a woman, a fat guy who can turn on a woman's mind through whispering to his girlfriend how he's going to plow her that night while she's standing in front of him in the starbucks line, is going to be a much better lay for her. She is horny for the fat guy and fantasing about his dick and the fatness becomes irrelevant as a bad personality is irrelevant on a hot women to a horny man.
Tip 1: Talk DIRTY
This one takes some time since most men don't really get that turned on by dirty talk. You'll make little mistakes which might make the girl giggle instead of be aroused, but the more critical part will be getting comfortable telling her that she's like your big dick inside of her/ she likes being your little slut. Your social training has taught you not to embrace this side of you that loves a slut. What you need to understand is you are the leader in sex and and girls, especially the classy ones, thirst to be dominated mentally as well as just getting pinned down by a man. You'll have to experiment...some girls even like being called a rotten bitch...some girls won't bite. It's easy enough to escalate and if you reach that point where a girl isn't game, then just fall back a little in your aggresision. Try this before you knock it. You'll be suprised by how kinky it is to a girl to be your slut (ONLY IN THE BEDROOM!!!)
Tip 2: Pull her hair / Slap her ass
I'm not a big fan of technical move advice. I think it can get a guy out of his head and make it more like science than passion. Yet, it's good to know a few typical things that girls love that many guys are timid or don't know to do. Pull her pointail back especially when you're doing her doggystle. This won't hurt her. She'll like it. Again, if for some reason she's very sensitive and it hurts (I've never, ever encountered this) it's fine just to pull more gently or stop all togehther. Also, slap her ass as hard as you want to. I don't know if it's all the fat or the pleasure of being slapped like that is so arousing they forget the pain, but I slapping a girl's ass is almost always a safe bet. If you think she might be secretly S and M...you can try slapping other body parts, but proceed with extreme cautioun. In fact, just wait for her to tell you to slap her there. An inappropriate slap could mean the end of that sexual encounter, but probably not much more.
Tip 3: Be rough on that vagina
If you're trying to be tender because you're being romantic I guess it's ok to go gentle, but understand that a woman's vagina is usually far less sensitive than most guys imagine. If a girl wanted her vagina treated gently, she'd be with a girl. Even when you're eating her out suck on that clit super hard and listen up if she's too sensitive (again never encountered this.) Push your lips on it hard and pull her lips open wide so you can really get in there.
Tip 4: (When men get nervous, they can't get erect. When women get nervous, they can't orgasm.) Don't get discouraged if she seems like she's taking forever. It just means she's a timid broad.
Don't make a woman feel bad and don't feel bad yourself if she isn't orgasming in a reasonable amount of time. I wouldn't kill myself over trying to make her orgasm either. It's her issue not yours, assuming you did everything you were supposed to do. The problem I think is that some women have their first few times with sex with guys who are douchebags and didn't make them feel comfortable so they didn't orgasm. Then they created a complex in their heads that there is something wrong with their body that they can't orgasm. This complex becomes a self fulfilling prophecy. If you ask her why she hasn't orgasmed yet you're just making it far worse. Do you thing and don't take that shit personally or it could screw wiht your mind for the next girl.
Tip 5: Change positions when you're about to orgasm or when you think the sex is getting boring
I tend to favor missionary. I used to watch a lot of porn so it's too easy for me to feel like I'm acting out some corny amatuer video if I do anything fancy. Yet, this position makes guys come the fastest of all the positions (cowgirl makes girls come the fastest) so when you're about to blow, just change positions and you'll be suprsied how much your penis resest itself. Also, you really should avoid only having sex from one position. Girls like a variety. Again, some guys know that doggystyle is better for guys with smaller dicks because it allows for more penetration than the other positions. If a girl asks you to do her doggystyle don't freak out. Assume she just likes that style even if it somthing more. Doubt will absolutely murder your sex game.
Tip 6: (Optional) Music can be good if you're just hooking up because it distracts your mind from worrying or feeling uncomfortable.
Since you can't hear your own thoughts, you can stay more present to the moment. Also on this, if you start to worry try staring instensly at the girl for a short period. This is a form a meditation that will allow you to become present when your mind is drifting.
Tip 7: (Optional) Watch amateur porn videos
Concentrate on how much the girl loves getting dick and how the guys aren't really doing anything you can't do. You need to understand that women love sex, they love dick, contrary to what society portrays since doing so makes them "sluts" or whatever. You need to believe that what you're doing is bringing the woman even more pleasure than you're getting. This is the ideal mindset that will help you maintain a strong erection and also not just "masterbate" into her meaning you are really just trying to get an orgasm for yourself and aren't actually connecting with another human being through sex.
Ok, we're out. There are a lot more tips I've learned from experience and let me know if there are more tips that you have that weren't talked about. If you disagree, please refer to your own experiences and not what you just "think" ie. its wrong to be rough with a woman in bed...women don't like that how dare you! Instead maybe phrase it more like "from personal experience, most guys I have sex with are too rough with me" or something like that...
Note: For those of you who picked up on it, I used Chuck Bass as the avatar for the tips in action. I mostly did this to f*ck with the guys on here who hate on my sh*t and give them something to whine about, but also so as not to estrange women who don't like all this dirty talk. Also, I think it's kind of distracting when the people change in photos constantly throughout a Take.
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