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Sexual Health My boyfriend shows my nudes to his friends: what should I do?
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I send my boyfriend a special nude pic JUST FOR HIM at least once a week but I recently got a message from one of his mates saying "Hey ***** showed me that sexy pic of you, have you got any for me?" and after getting more information I found that he shows his friends WILLINGLY! I feel like a complete slut that he can just pass around when I was doing it to please him and only him! I feel so ashamed :'(
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What Girls & Guys Said
25 14First thing you do is stop sending him nudes. Next try to get all you have sent to him deleted. Which will be hard to do if he has sent copies to his buddies.
did you confront him with it? no matter what i´d never give one to him again... this is a serious trust issue!
Dump his sorry ass he should not be doing that! Relationships are based on trust and if you can't trust him to keep those to himself break up. If you don't want to do that than never send them to him ever again and make sure he knows why you aren't sending them anymore.
This requires harsh treatment First, get a nude ( or embarrassing picture ) of him then blackmail him to delete every picture he's got of u, then dumb his sorry ass and move on. You trusted him because he's meant to be your boyfriend, if he had any real feelings for you he wouldn't be doing this
First of all of i may say so... if a man shares the nude pics of you with his friends he does not respect you.. if he does not respect you, he does not love you. To share those pics with his friends is more serious than one would think! He could even get jail time for that. Be carefull of a guy like that. I would vote you dump his ass and get someone who will appreciate and respect you. My best wishes to you.
stop sending him nudes and break up with him! Obviously he isn't trustworthy and doesn't deserve you.
Lets first of say, I have never sent Nudes of my wife to someone else.
However, everyone saying its a disrespectful thing and he doesn't respect you seems kind of harsh, Your treating it like his caption on the image is some trashy thing, Like calling you a S*** . Yes for sure have a conversation with him but it seems also fair to say he may just be super stoked of what he has and shares it. It might be way more innocent than some responses have implied. The unfortunate thing here is saying that the other way around would prove how aweful it truly is, but to be honest speaking for myself and most of the male population I would have no problem with my wife sharing pics of me with her friends it would be kinda flattering unless of course its attached to making fun of me but I could even take that with some humor. I a, just saying talk to him he might have just got excited.
if your boyfriend shows your nudes to his friends then he isn't good for you you should leave him , he isn't sincere trust me
Fucking murder him
Definitely stop sending nudes, and in my opinion - break up with him! He has zero respect for you, so why waste another second with him? Also, you are not at all a slut and shouldn't feel that way. If anyone should be ashamed, it's him.
Dump him, he doesn't respect you
I thought the answer to this question would be obvious. You have to STOP sending him nudes. You should also talk to him about this. His treatment of you is unacceptable and he should know. Do you really want to be with someone who doesn't care about who has seen his girlfriend naked, much less his friends!
I would also like to suggest that you stop sending nudes in general.
Dump his ass, and never send nudes to anyone ever again
Get his phone. Delete adll the nudes.
Then dump him.