My Shocking Experience: How I Got Sexually Harassed And Almost Raped

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My Shocking Experience: How I Got Sexually Harassed And Almost Raped

(That's the beach...)

The story begins. Me, my twin sister and my best guy friend had been planning this trip for a week or so. We were excited about it, of course.

We went to this beach, because it's the nearest one for us. It was a sunny day and everything seemed so perfect. Like nothing could ruin the day.

We had stereos, bunch of junk food -because there's McDonalds really close to the beach- and a tent!

So we did our little camp on the top of the hill, to a place where we still could see it from the water. We had lots of fun. After few hours it started raining a bit so we just went into the tent. There were few people still swimming there. When the rain stopped, it was sunny again and the beach was completely ours.

This is the point where the trouble started...

We had seen this man, riding a bike near the beach for hours. He always stared at us. He was wearing a cap, glasses with darkened lenses and a long fishing vest.

Nothing else. An hour before I saw him standing near the gardens which are right next to the beach. He was just standing there. We taught that he was just doing some normal stuff or something. But we didn't see properly because the grass was so long it went up to his waist and stomach.

Then it happened. There were no one except us near the beach. No hikers, no one. He came to the beach with his bike. I was sitting in the tent while others were swimming. He came about 10 meters away from me. He stared at my friend and sis. Then he just opened up the vest and started to jerk off. I asked him to stop and leave. He just continued. Then he took the vest completely off and started to walk towards me. I had a bikini top and shorts on and I had wrapped a towel around myself when he arrived. He was now about 3 meters away from me.

My guy friend noticed something was wrong. They first had thought that this was a sick joke. But no. It wasn't. My friend came towards the tent and noticed the situation. He told me to call the police. I quickly stood up and took my friend's phone (I didn't have mine with me, it has been lost for a week or so...). The man was now less then to two meters away from me... I called the cops and I noticed the man quickly left. The police was supposed to come. But they never did. I called again and they told me they had decided it wasn't the main priority at the moment. I was shocked. I was crying. We quickly packed our camp and left... It was a nightmare to me. On the way home I could still see the man staring at me when I closed my eyes...

So this was my story about what happened about a week ago.

And one last thing.

The man is 60-70 years old...

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JuicyBrain Yoda
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Let's be real for a second.
It was lewd conduct. Not sexual harrassment. Also, you don't know that he wanted to rape you. I am not saying that what happened was not traumatizing but girls tend to invent stories and make it worse than it was. The truth here is that someone masturbated while approaching you. This is what happened. You were not raped or almost raped.
Also, what does the fact that he was 70yo had to do with anything? Would it have been ok if he had been 25yo and hot?

Believe it or not, there are worse things happening than girls seeing men masturbate going on. That's why the cops prioritize calls. If a cat is caught in a tree, you can bet it's at the end of the list...
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- dudegrt09
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  Well the guy was approaching her with his pants down so there was a legitimate threat if you ask me...
- JuicyBrain
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  @dudegrt09 He was threatening alright. Was he going to rape her? Do you know that? Nobody knows. What if he wanted to offer her money for sex? It's still illegal, but it's not rape. We cannot not assume his intentions. We have good reasons to think he was not well intentioned, but we have no way of knowing it was rape.
- dudegrt09
  +1 y
  Ofcourse we don't, maybe he just wanted to cuddle with her
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- JuicyBrain
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  @dudegrt09 I see your sarcasm. Let me remind you what I wrote. "We have good reasons to think he was not well intentioned" You know what that means right? We know it was probably something bad but we don't know what it was and therefore, we cannot say it was rape. It's simple logic.
- dudegrt09
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  Well not exactly being sarcastic lol, I agree, you could have never known what he could have done, but even if it wasn't exactly an attempt tom rape, we can most definitely assume his intentions were not positive. So yeah I don't feel the need to get into technicalities. From a lawyer's standpoint I will say he could be charged with indecent exposure in a public place at best. Maybe she went to the nudie beach and didn't knew it was a nudie beach, who knows!
- dudegrt09
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  *to rape
- JuicyBrain
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  @dudegrt09 Yes, I understand really well why she was scared and I am not trying to diminish it. My point is that there is a difference between what is going on in the girl's head and what is really happening. People are quick to judge people for what happened in the girl's head. Lots of people would be quick to see that man be put in jail for rape. All he can be arrested for is lewd behavior which will probably lend him a fine if it's a first time offense.
- dudegrt09
  +1 y
  yeah I agree, provided he was caught before he actually reached her and touched her
- RainbowFanGirl
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  Well the body language that he imposed was threatening, many would have thought the same probably.
- JuicyBrain
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  @RainbowFanGirl I have absolutely no doubt he was threatening and like I said, I do not wish to diminish her experience. I am sure she was scared and she had good reasons to. But she can't say she was almost raped.

Most Helpful Girl

SovereignessofVamps Influencer
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This story is bad, but 3 young people couldn't handle a 70 year old?
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randomhobo Yoda
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It sucks that happened and it probably was rather traumatising. But couldn't you have just kicked him in the balls? He had nothing protecting them and well... the guys 70, it's hardly like he can overpower you. Hell just trying an he'd probably have snapped in half.
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Paris13 Master
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My Lord, @FinnishBeautyGirl, How awful for you Both. I have seen plenty of Bad and Horrible Episodes on ID that would curl your Toes... I am Grateful to God you and sis are okay.
However, You Both Must make a Point, so this loony doesn't do this and Maybe More in Store with another, Go to the Police Department and Put in a Complaint Now Somehow. They will also need a Description.
He could be Someone who is a Crazy Pervert, Mentally not Right, and I don't Trust guys like this who Do a Lot... In the Night.
From now on, please, both of you Girls, Stay More with other campers, in a Camp site. I have not only 'Seen' this with people people in general, but even a Couple alone on a trip or even in their own Car, being Stalked and Then... Something Horrible Happens.
Good luck and Thank you for Mentioning me for some help here, dear. xx
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- RainbowFanGirl
  +1 y
  Hey Paris? I would like to PM you but I can't. Can you please send me a message?
- Paris13
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  @RainbowFanGirl Oh, hi, sweetie, how are you? I will do this.. Many have had problems like this with messaging me and I have had to Refollow them, Glitch in Gag.. Happy you are okay, thank you so much. xx
- FinnishBeautyGirl
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  Thank you @Paris13 for support
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- Paris13
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  Hi, @RainbowFanGirl, we had been messaging here.. this is what i mean with Gag Glitch.. Sure, Let me try again. xx
- Paris13
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  lol @RainbowFanGirl, oh, sorry, sweetie, older message. lol
- Paris13
  +1 y
  @FinnishBeautyGirl you are most welcome, hun, and please, come see me if you need me, I am always here for You and your sis. xxoo
Xfitchick Yoda
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Thrilling story. I would file a complaint to the police anyway. They have to come.
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- JuicyBrain
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  Yes. It's what they want. This way they can justify asking for more taxes.
DaniaMQ Yoda
+1 y
Omg wtf... I'm so sorry you had to go through that and I'm glad you are okay!
be careful next time!
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BlondeGirl_ Xper 5
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"It wasn't the main priority right now"? WTF ID SCREAMED THROUGH THE PHONE SO HARD (S) HED BE DEAF FOR THE REST OF HIS/HER LIFE... ugh im so pissed now... if that man hadn't left you could have been raped/murdered/kidnapped...
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- FinnishBeautyGirl
  +1 y
  Exactly... Scary things happen. I hate govermwnt at the moment really hard
- BlondeGirl_
  +1 y
  i understand why...
- BlondeGirl_
  +1 y
  oh wow you're finnish too :'D i didn't knowthat the government here sucked that bad... :(
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- FinnishBeautyGirl
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  Oho en huomannu et säki oot suomalainen :'D
- BlondeGirl_
  +1 y
  huomasin sun nimest :D
Girl_Ex_Machina Xper 5
+1 y
People like this are why I love pepper spray. And hey if they've exposed themselves, skip the eyes and aim straight for the dick!
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dogbert444 Guru
+1 y
That's so terrible! An awful experience for you. Just take it easy. The trauma will pass eventually. I really hope you are OK!
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jcoldstream Xper 7
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I carry an electric stinger outdoors and at nights. I can hit a cock through clothing from six feet away and my God it makes them scream.
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summiter Master
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The world is full of sickos. I'm sorry that happened. I would tell your parents and go to the police station in person with one of your parents and file a report. The cops need to get this perv off the street.
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EllieLexis513 Editor
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This isn't sexual harassment nor 'almost rape', but I can see why it's traumatic. If the guy had already left, then I know why the police weren't in a rush to get over there because the guy was already gone. But still, to say it's not a priority is a bit retarded, where the fuck do the police officers there train?
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- Abraham21
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  I agree with you
Darkone1 Xper 6
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Buy a weapon for your safety.
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mikemx55 Yoda
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What's with that click bait?
Almost raped... lol... you were flashed, that's all. He wasn't gonna rape you..
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- Abraham21
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  Click bait confirmed mate✌
skywave Xper 3
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You should have called police anyway after that.

I guarantee you people like that are in their records they would find that fucking loser very quickly.
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AleDeEurope Master
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The cops said it wasn't the main priority?

I call bullshit. This sounds completely made up.
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- Other_Tommy_Wiseau
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  Unfortunately, the Warren v the district of Columbia case (1981) ruled that the police have no legal duty to protect an single individual
- Other_Tommy_Wiseau
  +1 y
  I just read that she's Finnish. I don't know how that shit works there 🤔
- AleDeEurope
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  @Other_Tommy_Wiseau It's not just the cops thing, but everything else doesn't make sense.
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- Other_Tommy_Wiseau
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  I agree with you there. JuicyBrain summed it up perfectly, in my opinion
archiz Guru
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fuck it I ain t leaving the house alone again!
I am glad you re alright :)
tc and talk to your parents or friends or a doc to get over the trauma
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onthelist Xper 6
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ur fine now id suggest just move on. You werent hurt and the world is still turning.
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apple24 Master
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whoa! That fucking crazy!
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- FinnishBeautyGirl
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  And scary...
dudeman Guru
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moral of the story, never go anywhere without backup.
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sexyphil Explorer
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@FinnishBeautyGirl Glad you were ok but you need to be careful of people that would do you harm. I would hate anything to happen to you or Beate XXX
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RainbowFanGirl Editor
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I am so sorry that happened to you. I'm glad you're okay now.
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- RainbowFanGirl
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  Also, what's up with the police in Finland? They didn't do anything?
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