Orgasm from dry humping?

So yesterday when I was making out with my boyfriend, I started grinding against him and after a while he was dry humping me on my bed with clothes on. I could feel myself getting close to an orgasm but I just let it happen because it felt good at the time. I felt embarassed after it, but he laughed because he though it was cute. I'm a virgin and this is the first orgasm I've had with a guy. Even though I found it embarassing, I wanna do it again for some reason. Is it normal to feel this way? I did have to change my pants but it was worth it. He even offered to give me oral once but I refused because I didn't feel comfortable letting him do it. I now want him to do it though. What should I do?
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  • you have nothing to feel embarrassed about. I actually think dry humping is quite fun. go for oral, I am sure he will love letting his tongue slide down your slit and over your clit. you could even try sucking him while he is busy if you like. do what is comfortable, and as far as it is comfortable, for you both.

  • "but I just let it happen because it felt good at the time." That is exactly the way you should do things. Don't let some thought process ruin a beautiful feeling. You let it happen and it was great. Now treat his offers of oral the same. If you want it, do it.

    • I already did lol. I guess I made the right choice. I'll be doing this more often from now.

    • Excellent! :-)

Most Helpful Girls

  • What should you do? You should tell him to get down there and start licking your clit. I suggest soft and indirect at first, then direct and vigorous, but you be his guide and give him lots of feedback. You just might squirt and multi-orgasm.

    • Alright. I'll give it a go. Thanks :)

    • Oh, forgot to mention, try doing some of that dry humping as foreplay to the oral sex. That will help.

    • Alright I will :)

  • My current boyfriend is the first guy who's given me oral, and I was really nervous the first time but it was amazing! Seriously you have nothing to be worried/embarrassed about, just do whatever you're comfortable with :)

    • Alright I'll try it out. Thanks :)

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  • Totally normal! 👌🏻 and you should continue to do that often.. Dry hump orgasm for a girl is rare, but awesome!

  • Just let it happen and do it over and over Let you boyfriend give you oral you will love it too.

    • I already did lol. Thanks anyway :)

  • Oh gawd, 2015 is the alternative version of 2014. I am getting concerned.

    [ clears throat] Its totally normal. Just ask for it next round. Don't break up.

    • Umm where did I say I was gonna break up?

    • No worries. 2014 flash back.

    • Oh okay lol

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  • Good for you that will make your first time a lot beter

  • Its normal. You felt really good and you want more. I'd say do oral

    • Alright!

  • Lay back and enjoy it, seriously let him go down on you! You will not regret it.

  • Why did you get embarrassed? Thats actually normal

    • I don't know. It was the first time something like this has happened lol

    • I think when the things heat up you should just tell him now you want it he'd be totally fine with it. After all he was the one who suggested it at the first place lol

    • Alright. Thanks :)

  • Just do what you're comfortable with. You don't need to feel bad about an orgasm and it's very normal to like it and want more of it. Just go off your urges as long as you're both down for it.

    • Yeah you're right. I don't even know why I'm feeling this way

  • You should, oral sex will take you to another world.

    • Alright

  • Let him give you oral. You like the orgasm food for you.

    • I'm planning to.

    • That is good. And you shoukd be proud cause he isn't selfish. But reward him after.

    • I will but I probably won't know what I'm doing lol.

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