Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health 
Yes, I said it. Women, if you have an issue with your man's size, then you really don't like or love him as much as you think you do.
You can beat around the bush all you want, but you don't actually like or love a man if you cheat on him, laugh at him, or dump him because of something over which he has zero control.
I've been depressed all my life, thinking that I wasn't big enough to have a normal relationship with a woman (I am below average, but it's not a micro-penis). I honestly wanted to kill myself at times because I was so painfully lonely.
After years of therapy, I reluctantly entered the dating world. A month ago, I met a wonderful woman. We clicked on so many levels, both intellectually and physically. We had undeniable chemistry. I was faced with the inevitable moment of truth when we became intimate. I can't even begin to describe how nervous I was when it came time for me to show her what I had, and you know what? None of those nightmare scenarios I described above happened. She was perfectly happy with it, and we proceeded to spend the next few days making each other feel amazing.
I have found that most people are selfish these days. Perhaps you can blame it on Hollywood, with shows like Sex and the City ("oh he's so wonderful, but his penis is small, so I'm going to dump him and date a jerk instead"), and the media constantly harping on about how "bigger is better."
I would argue that many people today do not know how to love unconditionally. Unconditional love means accepting your partner for all of who they are, "warts and all."
If a partner refuses to learn how to pleasure you by whatever methods necessary, then by all means, find someone else who will. However, to break up with someone over size alone is a very shallow thing to do. It shows that you didn't care about them at all as a human being. You were simply expecting them to be a walking, talking sex toy for your pleasure.
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Meaningless comment...
For a whiny meaningless post. Holey crikey. Seriously, consider listening and reading more and talking less. You're completely full of it.
You clearly have no personal experience with having a small penis and how devastating it can be to one's self esteem.
Yeah but having a 7 inch girthy cock is really nice
true... if a finger can make her cum, every penis can.
The penis can't make the same movements as a finger... though it would be cool xD
@AleDeEurope true but it can reach the important area's.
I can agree with your myTake. However, I don't believe in unconditional love. You say, "unconditional love means accepting your partner for all who they are, warts and all". Firstly, when did they catch those warts and where? :P
If you love your partner "for who they are" your love is based on certain qualities, habits and so on which that person possesses = conditions. The notion also implies accepting someone no matter what they do to you. There is no healthy relationship where the people involved will stay together no matter what they do to each other. A perfect example is abusive relationships. You don't expect anyone to love their abusive partner unconditionally, right? I think healthy romantic relationships are based on team work, when both partners fulfill certain conditions.
Haha, it's a figure of speech. I do not condone or support abusive relationships. This mytake is about normal, healthy relationships. I agree wholeheartedly with your last statement. By unconditional, I mean loving your partner for who they are as a person. Each partner should ideally have such a mindset. We all grow old and wrinkly at some point in our lives. Unconditional love is caring for your partner if they become unable to take care of themselves (illness, for example). It's loving your partner if, for whatever reason, they become unable to have sex. It requires sacrifice.
I know your Take is about normal, healthy relationships. I just wanted to explain why I don't believe unconditional love exists in romantic relationships. Regarding what you described, I don't think love on its own sustains relationships. Other things come into play *besides* love : sacrifice, which is intrinsic to commitment and loyalty.
i agree and disagree.
agree in teh sense that it doesn't matter if and only if the views on your small penis don't affect intimacy.
i've read some good accounts of women having no problems w/ a small penis if the guy is secure w/ having a small penis. many accounts where the guy isn't -------- which is what causes bedroom problems.
this is false no 3 incher is going to keep a marriage happy no matter how much she loves you, srry but it's the truth
Then that woman doesn't love him. Simple as that.
no woman need to be pleased just as men do, and whether you like it or not sex is involved in love, you make deep love connection and understand each other bodies during sex and if you are missing that in a relationship than it's probably doomed, srry but...
It's sad that you people will never know unconditional love.
Or be capable of it.
im gonna stop replying because your not understand, ok
I understand fully how little you know about love. Each partner should be dedicated to pleasuring their partner in whatever way it takes. The fact that you would give up just because of his size shows that a penis is all you cared about in the relationship.
I don't know i think i could do petty good
Would u break up with someone you love when he becomes paralyzed for example in a car accident?
@Dingsbums thank you, sir!
She is telling you the truth lol..
@Fearless_banana thank you
@Fearless_banana would you kill yourself if you were four inches? You seem to place a lot of stock in your size.
No but common sense tells me that a woman isn't going to be satisfied with a 4 incher. If you are sub 6 inches then you are going to have to be good with your tongue or something lol. Sexual chemistry is a big factor in a relationship.. you think a women would comit to a man for the rest of her life if she couldn't be sexually satisfied by him? You're trying to cope with your small dink lol
@Fearless_banana so why wouldn't you commit suicide?
Because I'm not a pussy and base my confidence off of others. It sounds like you have considered suicide since you are brought it up in this context twice now. I'm sure there are women out there that will settle for a 4 inch cock but you can't shame women for not. You sound mentally unstable bro.
@Fearless_banana you'd be too, if you were told that you would never be able to satisfy a woman, and thus you would never be able to have a normal, healthy relationship with a woman.
@Fearless_banana it must be awesome to have women worship your penis, eh?
You made this take and are literally telling everyone that does not agree with you that they are shallow and terrible.. in a porn fantasy. People are entitled to their sexual preference just as you are. You're a fcking idiot.
Seek therapy OP
@Fearless_banana so what should a guy with a four inch penis do, when women will only settle for him (and cheat any chance they get)?
I can't help you. You need professional help.
@Fearless_banana you sure know a lot about what women want, so spill the beans.
@Fearless_banana you are both so incredibly sad. I'm talking to the real you. This isn't an Internet joke. I think you are really really sad.
Kudos to you for finding your unicorn. 🦄
My nine inch penis doesn't matter after all
It only matters to selfish women who want to use you like a breathing sex toy.
Yes I am the type of guy, girls would rather fuck and then leave
I feel like this is unfair and shifts the onus to the woman to endure unsatisfying sex in lieu of everything else.
It's obvious... a girl obviously isn't looking for dick sizes, if the guy is insecure about his dick then that's the problem not the size...
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True... to a certain extent. Below average is a minor issue, micro is different. She wouldn't feel anything, it'd be one of those "is it in?" moments. What's the point in even having sex if she can't feel it or feels very little, it'd be useless. In reality though, there really aren't many men in the world who are so small it'd be an issue, I think they say it's something like 0.5% of the entire male population and it's an actual medical condition.
To the prosthetics comment if she wanted me to and I liked her I would wear one
Id also where fake muscles where fake tan long as the sex was good. I think it would be more the inconvenience or if it would affect what I felt than pride we have all these inventions now bad with maps get a sat nav bad at lifting things use a wheelbarrow got a scare on your face use makeup or a wig if you're going bald. Prosthetic leg if you lose your leg or have that amazing camera electrode brain thing done if your blind and it's affordable for you and it would work.
I wouldn't ask my girlfriend to wear fake tits If I wasn't using fake muscles or something for her not that she needs to or that she thought fake muscles on me where a good idea but I would muscles, hair, member what ever if it works.
women dont truly love men unless he treats them like shit
There's someone out there for everyone.
When I younger, I didn't believe that, but now I do.
Very true. Although to be honest, I was quite happy when I found out my boyfriend was above average down under :P
Would you have left him if he was below average?
Of course not! I just consider it a perk in the relationship; I wouldn't love him any less if he wasn't.
Do you think he could have pleasured you if he wasn't so big?
Of course. Good sex is about getting creative. And most of the time it's all about "how you use it" if you know what I mean.
Great. You almost made him insecure again opie. Mytake owner, you have a girl that loves you, stop worrying about it
@slimstiffy I DID have one. She broke up with me, and though she denies it, I'm convinced it's my size. She almost started crying when I brought it up, so she must have been lying to try and make herself feel better about it.
Ohh shit... Man im so sorry. Hey, dont take it too hard, there's a women out there for you. I always say there's a vagina for every dick. Vaginal depth/shallowness also is deifderent for different women. You may just find one that fits you. And like you said, if she really loves you, this wouldn't matter anyway
Long live the penis, all sizes
You dont love a man for his penis you love him for his heart. There prosthetics a man can wear now if he's undersized that can allow him him to perform like a regular man sexually.
Oh boy... Tell me you didn't make a poll on this
@slimstiffy when you love someone you accept their faults large and small
You are one with the prosthetic dick question, aren't you...
@slimstiffy some guys are born sexually retarded but that doesn't mean they dont deserve love or that a woman will see them as less than a man just because they have a small winky.
Yep, and we meet again... Why is it that you are wearing a mask?
@slimstiffy because certain guys get offensive, psycho and stalkerish when a woman speak tge truth about penis size and it doesn't validate their penis size or their sexual ability.
Look, i got no problem about how you see dick size. What i have a problem with, is that you say a man has to wear an artificial thing over his real dick, to pleasure a woman. Do you realize, how disrespedting that is to a mans ego? I wouldn't have really bothered, but a bunch of men would actually go as far as to make such fools of themselves,, listening to idiotic opinions of people like you.
@slimstiffy well lets be honest a men who's members are undersized dont have an ego that would prevent them wearing a prosthetic that would aid them preforming the way normal men do.
Really? Please stop and tell me you are trolling. How can you be so insensitive. Are you rrally so perfect. Is there nothing wrong with you. What if you have somewhat small boobs, and a guy wants you to wear a prosthetic chest and you have to put up with that in order to please him? How does that make you feel? No, i wouldn't do that. If im with you i love your breasts just the way they are and thats all i ever want. I want the real you.
@slimstiffy my boyfriend's in the past have asked me to wear my old school uniform I dont see how its any different. My current boyfriend is tiny in the penis department and he has told me it has been a problem in the past with other women but is so happy that I have overlooked his problem. I got the prosthetic for him and now he feels he can perform like a normal man. When you love a person their happiness is your only concern. there's a lot more to a relationship than sex.
Wearing a shool uniform is not the same. And no you dont respect your boyfriend. If you dont respect him, you can't really love him. I dont want to start this over, im done
@slimstiffy all men are not created equally in the penis department thats just a reality of life. Even guys that are shrimp sized deserve love dont you think?
Yeah. And why aren't you giving them love?
@slimstiffy I gotta alotta love to give.
You dont love him if you make him wear a prosthetic dick
@slimstiffy
I would love him if a crocodile bit off his legs. I don't make him he wants to so he can satisfy me sexually.
If you really loved him you wouldn't call his dick shrimp sized and small men sexually retarded.
@slimstiffy their born that way its not my fault and I can overlook it and accept it can you say the same?
Hey! Im not the one being judgmental here! Dont shift tge blame on me
@slimstiffy why are you blaming me for your short cummings?
Hehe.. I dont have any short cummings... Im blaming you for being ignorant...
@slimstiffy talk to Jesus.
Dont tbring god into this
@slimstiffy Im sure if you pray hard enough you may find a woman that will love you no matter what like my man did despite all your failings big and small.
Oh im big enough down there , i pray for more important shit than fir being able to satisfy a woman. I would pray that my wife would not be as stupid, as shallow as superficial and ignorant, as you are
@slimstiffy well im sure any woman would happy to be with you as your big enough. best of luck.
Well i dont want her to be happy just because im big enough.. Any man can do that.. I want her to be hapoy because she is with me
@slimstiffy but what if your not big enough but she's willing to look past that.
As long as she's not gonna make me wear a prosthetic fker and stays loyal, im good
@slimstiffy well I dont see why you wouldn't experiment.
Well that means you haven't listened to anything i said regarding this ... Anyway not that i care.. I've stopped trying to make you understand and caring about your poor boyfriend a long time ago
@slimstiffy poor boyfriend. He's lucky im in love with him most of exs dumped him because of his size.
Hey, can you do something for me? I want you to take a dark triad test, its just a personality test. It should be found easily when you google it. Tell me the results too. I promise i won't judge, its just because im curious
@slimstiffy me or her?
Not you man, her. Have you read her comments. You might get why im asking that.
Lets be honest here: It is not that it doesn't matter at all, it is just relatively insignificant for her romantic attraction whether you're packing 9 or 4 inches.
I wouldn't be bothered by a girl not having a diploma or a successful career but it is still nice if she does.
If she LOVES you, it won't matter, period. If it does matter, then she is just using you for selfish reasons.
I'm talking about unconditional love.
I think you're misunderstanding my point here. It still matters. It just ends up being one point in or against your favor among a million for. It is still one point. What you're arguing here is akin to saying that having 10$ doesn't matter if you have a a million. Reality is that it is still money, even if it isn't a significant portion of the whole. My point is: Just you wait until you need 1 000 010$. Then it will truly matter again ;)
LOL next your gonna tell me height, weight, looks, and income doesn't matter to women either lol.
To selfish people, yes (of both genders).