Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health 
Now, I know we're all well aware that porn is fake. Even the ameture stuff isn't much like what happens in the average married couple's bedroom. Porn is a wonderful way to spice up a dry sex life. But there's no denying that one might compare their body or their sexual performance to that which they see in internet porn . It may even be that the easy access to porn sort of screws up young people's idea of sex.
Here are the differences that I have noticed in porn:
1 - Real bodies don't look like pornstars.
Not all of us can afford the luxury of penis enlargement, labiaplasties, vaginal rejuvination. Breast, hip and butt implants. The list goes on.
2 - Porn stars ALWAYS cum.
Did you know it's actually qute hard to get a woman to cum just from vaginal penetration? Most of us need some sort of clitoral attention.
3 - Everyone's always in the mood. Again and again and again and...
Guys get tired. Sometimes a guy has trouble getting or maintaining an errection. Girls require a warm up. Foreplay. Sometimes, she really does have a headache.
4 - Porno Guys last AGES!
Seriously, quickies are great. Don't underastimate them.
5 - Bald privates.
Unless a girl has a salon on standby 24/7, she's going to have to deal with prickly regrowth. Some women don't like having a totally hairless coochie either. And men, well, a totally bald crotch is kind of strange looking to me.
6 - Porn stars hardly ever make love.
Thanks to porn , ordinary missionary sex can look kind of boring. Sure, hardcore sex and new positions are great! But it has nothing on the slow, sensual sex that's called making love. It's next level.
7 - Have you HEARD the girls in porn?
Not all of us scream like we're being murdered. Some girls are loud, sure. But if a woman starts screaming the second you enter her, she's faking it.
Do you agree?
What Girls & Guys Said
19 33You mean "they don't always gum". But yea this and everything else you said are pretty much common sense
Everything you're saying is true. How can they last so long by the way? I wonder if they actually enjoy the coitus or it's just work for them.
And women screaming so much? I never scream to be honest :/ I met a guy who believed that girls always screamed during sex because of p*rn .
Traditionally the guys were hired for that capability, plus they'd edit footage together from more than one roudn of sex. But nowadays they just load them to the gills with viagra (and maybe an antidepressant) and they will basically stay hard even if they cum.
@kheserthorpe what would be the point of the antidepressant?
delayed ejaculation. Not sure if they use them but wouldn't be surprised. they may just lean on the viagra though
Quick question: If they're faking it, then it's some of the best acting I've ever seen (especially the squirting), but aren't p*rn stars notoriously BAD actors?
This might shock you, but squirting (when she shoots it out) is actually pee. Most girls can do it if they learn how to manipulate their lower stomach muscles to press on the bladder when they cum. I've even read that some put turkey baster like things up there, but I don't know how much even I can rely on the truth in that! haha in my opinion, most GOOD lesbian p*rn is real.
Okay, but there's still the rest of the sex, and, again, their reputation for being bad actors.
@Take Owner I am sure i read somewhere that when you squirt its not urine but a clear liquid which fills up in the bladder. Maybe the source wasn't good. How sure are you? are u dead sure its just pee?
I disagree. The reason is that you find that a lot of homemade and amateur p*rn does not have the highlights of professionally made p*rn but does tend to maintain a lot of the realities of sex you listed including things like longevity. A lot of homemade stuff is easily 30+ minutes long and the avg p*rn scene is 20m cut off.
#1&6 I agree but the rest are totally false, and that is the relationship that I am in now. We BOTH always make sure that we both cum, so sessions go on for 3-4hours, she screams so loud that I am sur e the police will show up some day and she is brasilian and has been waxing her "hole" life (there is no more hair left
Wow, that's different haha Good for you. :) Bu most people's sex lives aren't like that. Especially young couples and married couples who have little children with prying eyes.
That's why they make children Tylenol lol and young couples should be having the most sex, damm if I had that energy again I dint know what I would. do
my neighbors bang on my door asking if i'm ok
Fun to read, and also very true.
p*rn is just theatre. Everything that happens there is (bad) acting.
and the head ache bullshit, draw a parallel with schoolkids complaining their stomach hurts just to skip school and when they really are sick, you can clearly tell. So, you should think of more innovative excuses :)
It's good that you know that it's just acting. Some people don't, or they don't know important parts of it are fake. I hardly know any women who are in a healthy sexual relationship who are so not horny that they have to fake a headache.
You live and you learn, when I had sex for the first time I thought I had to deliver just like the machos at the p*rn shoot.. I learned quite fast that's not how it works :P
hahah my current boyfriend was like that too! Now, sex is much better.
What gets me is why people are so damn offended by p*rn , unless your bf or gf is literally comparing you to the actors it shouldn't matter and no not every p*rnstar is surgicly enhanced there are these 2 things that have been around for thousands of years called DIET and EXERCISE and since these peoples JOB is sex they make sure they stay in shape its just like modeling noone hires fat models and the truth is p*rn is becoming more popular than hollywood its no longer the old strippers at biker bars its the every day highschool girl that are in p*rn i have a tumblr page called prettypornstars you should go check it out you'll see that these girls are pretty average looking and i dont know what you mean by guys are lasting forever most p*rn scenes are like 15 minutes tops and that includes warm up foreplay and acual sex and the clips that are 30-45 minutes are usually 15 minutes of the camera guy asking the girl 50 questions
When ever a woman gets on here ranting about p*rn i never see them complain that the guys dicks are too big or that they have too much muscles no its always how fake the girl is
Yes I know it... Filmy world is always fake... !!!
Fake moanings, fake boobs, fake dicks etc.
I am 100% agree with you. What we see in the p*rn we not find that in reality. A person try to bring it in real life but I think their sexual life might ruin to copy the p*rn site.
thats it.
6 - p*rn stars hardly ever make love.
thats the main
good points.
i prefer cam sex it is so safe isn't it? .)
your getting conned mate
True still good to watch and hear
i hate it how the entire p*rn industry is centred around men. they rarely ever show the man properly. even the ads next to the video, they are all aimed as men as their target group
is it weird that i enjoy watching lesbian p*rn more than straight p*rn , even though i am straight? i just find it a little more... interesting
There's been a study done on that. It's because lesbian p*rn is centred around the woman's pleasure rather than the mans, which appeals to women (both straight and gay) more than straight p*rn does.
that's it!
Hmm. Those p*rnstar women aren't orgasming, they fake all of it. And the men don't last ages, that's all just camera effects. p*rn scenes can last for hours, and everything you mentioned is just due to camera effects and acting... I mean, I realize that was your point, but what I'm trying to say is that even the pornstars... well, everything they do is fake, not just how they look and act, but EVERYTHING.
I don't wanna make love
So it doesn't matter
Thank you lol.
What you write is true a big part, but I honestly love p*rn , and for me it mainly did good things. There's a difference in p*rn movies from 20 years back and modern internet p*rn movies, which I think are more realistic and hot. I noticed that a lot of this made believe amateur p*rn (bangbus, collegerules, you know what I mean) is physically not really different from reality. Of course college isn't all orgies (although I fucked a lot as a college girl) but the way they fuck is pretty much how I've always done it and loved it that way. I have to admit that I always wanted sex to be like that, and the guys too, so it kinda matched. So the fact that p*rn shaped our sex, was for me a great thing. I learned a lot from it. When I heard my neighbors in my dorm fucking, it sounded the same. Girls moan pretty loud when it's good. Also girls and guys are now often going to the gym to stay in shape, and I think p*rnstar bodies (except for the fake tits) aren't that hard to get. I know a lot of girls that I've seen naked that could be put in a p*rn movie, or seen pornstars that had the same type of body as me. I think the modern internet p*rn is not that far off and closer to reality, and therefore hotter than the 90's cable guy p*rn movies. So it's a personal preference of how you like sex. I like it that way, and am glad that there is so much p*rn to learn from.
i have to add that I haven't had many love relationships, so maybe it's because I have a lot of casual sex that I like it that way. There's less emotions involved.
dis agree ,,, p*rn is not good at all and she has a point , u can fuck a dog , but u can't make love ,, trust me u missing a lot
@Youssefalez Dude I know what I like. I already had what you think I missed out on. I found the kind of sex I like an never felt bad about it. I talked about it with many people and could only conclude that I was one of the happiest with my own sex life. Who are you to call who fucks like a dog? Let me guess. You're one of those internet slut shamers?
Average girl in p*rn has 34B breasts. the whole 'porn stars have huge breasts' is pretty outddated
Thankyou for saying some frikin TRUTH here!
my pleasure!