Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health 
Let me tell you, I was shocked and amazed at all the justifications for not only buying them, but for continuing relationships with these inanimate objects as if they were sentient beings.
Now, I will admit that there were a few things I did agree with in regards to the use of a sex doll, at least peripherally. I mean, if there are some sickos out there who have inclinations to rape or hurt women, then maybe this doll could appease that savage hunger?
Of course, there is the counter argument that rape is not about sex it is about control. How fun would it be to dominate a lifeless doll that is already bent to your will? Besides, a mentally damaged individual may simply graduate from the doll the way sociopaths graduate from torturing animals.
That aside, I suppose what I found most disturbing was the amount of hatred and venom I saw from men who claimed that their only reason for getting a Real Doll was for companionship. Comments about how women were stuck up, useless, or had only used or hurt them seemed a very common theme. I even visited a site where some of the “iDollters” congregated where they were gleefully talking about not dealing with head case females or having to pay to go out with them (but they were willing to pay 6 grand for a doll--go figure).
"Hey, six grand is cheaper than alimony" one chimed in.
"Women will soon be replaced and they will get all jealous!" another said happily.
I couldn't believe what I was reading. And they claimed women were the ones who were messed up in the head!
"I feel the Real doll movement is an anti-female one."
I have been hurt in the past too but it never occurred to me to replace all men with some kind Male Replica that would do my bidding. I have and always will look at men as wonderful beings despite having my heart stomped on by a few who were not so nice. I also enjoy human interaction and have no need to control people or make them do what I want all the time.
I also think it speaks of the maturity of the much maligned ladies that, despite being hurt and stepped on themselves, that male Real Dolls are hardly made or sold. For all the wailing I hear of women who call men dogs and players, not once did I hear one say that they think replacing one with an android was a good idea.
To that end, one guy even tried to claim that the use of a real doll was similar to using a vibrator.
Not even close. When I purchase or use a vibrator, I am not doing it with the idea that I feel men are jerks--I do it to enhance pleasure.
On the flip end, some of these men have hatred for women that is so intense it boggles my mind. A hate so intense they would rather buy a doll then deal with their own inadequacies. Instead of trying to see why they weren’t picked up by women, they chose to run to a fake human being for solace. All this would be okay if they were simply using the doll in the way in which I use a vibrator--but I feel the Real doll movement is an anti-female one.
Now, if you are someone who has legitimate needs, say, you have been burned all over your body, are a shut in or have an illness that makes it hard to get around or even date, I can see why a love doll would come in handy.
But these bitter souls are pissed that women have the temerity to want to be treated with decency, love and respect. How dare she want me to acknowledge that she has needs or is alive? How dare she didn't just think I was the next best thing to slice bread and get naked cause I said hello.
On second thought, maybe a sex doll is good idea--if these guys are really this selfish and maladjusted it could be a great way to weed out the gene pool--Darwinism at its finest.
What really gets me are the men who say they wish to use these dolls to transition from one relationship to the next.
Does anyone else see how this may not be a good idea?
The period of time we take between break ups is to reflect on who we are, where we went wrong and to learn how to make better choices in the future. How can you do this when you are using a doll to mark the passage of time?
And then, you find a real life dream girl--a good woman who is independent, splits the check and pays her own way. She is of course human, so she is flawed just like her man. She will also have needs, so you won't be able to put her in a closet once you get done trying out 101 positions on her...
"Maybe a sex doll IS good idea - if these guys are really this selfish & maladjusted, it could be a great way to weed out the gene pool. Darwinism at its finest."
This woman will walk, talk, breath, have goals, and make you mad. She will also love you, listen to you hold you and take care of you when you are sick.
However, when you are used to getting your way can you ever go back to a give and take?
Women are not without flaw but neither are men--these guys especially. However, instead of trying to work on their faults or emotionally mature they stunt their growth with "female regalements".
Those who delude themselves into thinking they could ever return to a human female after having a companion that does whatever they want 100 percent of the time are in for a world of disappointment.
But again, maybe the love doll is a blessing. If these men, who find women so vulgar and deplorable, who think the world has treated them unjustly because it didn’t cater to their every whim and do not have the gumption to see what it is about themselves that they need to change to be better people cannot find their way, then maybe a doll is the best remedy. It spares women from having to put up with their pathetic whining and leave the real men who can actually indulge in mature one-on-one with a live individual that cares and respects the feelings and needs of others.
Now, I have no problem with a man who legitimately wants to use the doll as a balm for loneliness, or is just a horn dog and doesn’t have time to chase chicks. I also see nothing wrong with a person who has physical or health issue using said doll.
But I resent men who try to trash all women because they themselves are shallow and inadequate and try to claim a lump if silicone trumps flesh and blood.
These are the ones who truly deserve the label of loser and pathetic and will never alter that perception no matter how many well thought out justifications they have to the contrary.
What Girls & Guys Said
18 26Those who wonder about my Anger--how do men feel when woman say "they do not need a man?" case closed.
I am angered hat people tend to place blame in situations where some fault could easily be put on themselves as well. This is about us trying to find a common ground--not running to dolls for solace.
and a vibrator is aphallic symbol--not a hoel human being.
Arfoo, the feminist movement was not anti-male but more about getting social equality (right to vote, rigth to work, changing ideals) whereas this doll seems to be an answer to frustration that may be caused by men themselves.
If a woman said the same things these guys did--wouldn't you be calling them men haters?
Now current feminism (SEX IN THE CITY paradigam) is wrong yes--men are valued partners not tools for our amusement. Still, giving up on each other is not the answer...
I am not like that--my husband has tremedous freedoms and we have a very happy and strong marriage--in fact--he was the one who pursued marriage not me!
Try looking for a different type of girl--not a high maintenance snooty one--or even a bisexual lover-- and perhaps you will find one more willing to compromise who understands your needs.
Thanks Digital Saint--and we so do need each other--I love my brothers and my sistahs--why can't we all just get along? LOL
Thanks guys for the comments
I know--but I think it is a fall out from the sexual revolution--we are trying to define roles and there is so much aggression involved--maybe in time we will be able to remove unfair stigmas and treat one another with mutual respect love and courtesy...
What about the feminist who called men "walking dildos"? How is this different from women and their dildos? Some men use this strictly for pleasure, as women do with dildos. Some men are using it replace women, as some women do with dildos.
Why attack them if you yourself cannot understand the reasons behind it and refuse to accept that women have seriously hurt these kinds of men making them totally withdrawn?
From the article you sound like an egotistical B**** who denies the coin has two sides because the one side doesn't fit with *YOUR* views.
Ive read that article and these guys did have a point about being in pain as I've been their. But I've found other outlets and wouldn't dream of doin it with a sex doll id feel so bad about myself if I did that. Instead I push myself harder to talk to girls so I don't end up that way. What got me about the article was that the guy making them is like making a killer on sales, and has his own philosophy about how to build them and keep them functional like a car or something.
These guys are creepy and strange. There is a thing on youtube called "true forced loneliness" a bunch of men whining about how no women will have them. They are often bitter as well. Not sure why so many men have this attitude and women don't seem to. Let them have their dolls it's better they stay away from actual women.
It's bad enough that people actually have relationships with life-sized dolls, but did you really need to write 1500 words about it?
Kion52's comment was perfect... Women will never understand it because no matter how unattractive they are they will always be able to get sex. Some guys don't get it easily, and it can cause them to feel really lonely, frustrated and depressed... In extreme cases as you said they resort to rape... I think it would be much better to just stop judging these poor guys and allow them to use these dolls instead. Also legalizing prostitution could be a good idea...
I think you now understand what men feel about the feminism movement
I don't see the attraction in these dolls--but it's funny you mentioned android. If someone could create a gynoid that was indistinguishable from a woman but without all the drama and head games, I might buy it. I think this speaks to the different way men and women feel about sex. Sex can be emotional for men, but it doesn't have to be.
This is why there are more hookers than gigolos.
I think we've come to a point when dating has become obsolete. I've never come across a woman that's acted right. None that I want to be around but yet I'm not antisocial. I hang out with friends and work with the public. I feel like being with someone is more hassle than it's worth. Women seem to get possessive and are just plain rude to other woman and friends after awhile. They turn down sex more often as time moves on. Why not have something that's willing to pleasure you after a long day?
i would like to try one,but owning one I don't know
Awesome...
I think it is a bit sad the amount of fear and anger towards the opposite sex in the US.
Interesting article and comments too about the controversial world of love dolls.
There's the financial aspect as well. Ex-wife, divorce, attorneys, alimony ... $150K. Sex doll ... $6K. Peace and quiet ... priceless!
Omg. I ran across this thread and HAD to see what it was about. I thought the subject of people "creating intimacy with silicone" (lol) would be the shocker of the thread, but I was wrong. what is shocking is the attitude you put forth in your writing. you seem outraged and genuinely angry towards these people. it would seem that you are the one that hates MEN and finds them deplorable & vulgar. I'm not really scared of people who own dolls (thats stupid), but totally scared of you. WOW lady!!!