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I’m 27 and I have been very religieus until I was 24. I started to date a guy and gave him after 5 months of dating a few blowjobs and he liked to finger me. Then After then I started to date another guy and at the second date I gave him a blowjob and he fingered me. After that a year later dated a guy and on the first date he dry humped me in the car and licked my breasts. Lastly dated a guy and jerked him off in the car. This is an honest true story. Now I’m reflecting back and I’m so ashamed of the past few years. I dwelled away from my religion and I was a bit lost. In our culture it’s not ok at all for a woman to do these things. I was just a virgin for so long and sexual cravings came out of nowhere. I have not had sex yet and want to keep it till marriage but should I tell my future husband this or not?
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Please don’t judge me or call me names. I have been crying for weeks now. I just want to know wether to tell my future husband about my past or not. I’m from the middle east originally and Christian.
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What Girls & Guys Said
5 40People make mistakes, as long as you don't continue being slutty.
But do I tell him?
It's up to you whether or not you want to be honest about that. Personally, if you did a couple of times, didn't have full on sex and learned that it was a mistake, I would think it's ok to make mistakes. We're all sinners, as long as you learned from it and don't repeat those mistakes. Be sexual with your future husband or serious boyfriend only.
Thanks. I have not done anything in a year and not going to until I marry. I was just over it being the ‘good girl’ and everyone around me judged me for being a virgin and not have done anything. Now I regret it so much.