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Sexual Health Rude to ask to use toys during sex?
MsLivy Xper 5
What's the best way of asking about it? Since I asked pretty straight forward and it resulted in a insult match
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6 59I don't think so, I always bring some either because she wants more stimulation or to keep her g-spot humming while I go down on her. I saw a new one by Crave, it's metal and flares out just enough to cover the nub of the clit. The metal is supposed to make the stimulation much more intense. I always wear a small but powerful vibe on a chain around my neck. May I ask what your faves are?
I wouldn't have a problem with that, but don't know about anyone else.
Sit on my face and suffocate me please.
some guys don't like it. they see it as you invalidating their ability of giving you pleasure. i like using toys tho. it's fun to focus entirely on her pleasure sometimes.
I guess it can be. Maybe best to have a conversation about it beforehand if he'd be interested in using toys.
Hell, no. Ask away.
Not an insult at all. Im a guy thay loves using toys during sex. Huge turn on for me.
No, it's not rude. And he shouldn't have gotten offended.
If your partner can’t handle you being straightforward, he needs to grow the fuck up.
Fair enough lmal
No, not at all. But its best to know your partner before asking.
Sounds like you pulled out a dildo that was bigger than his dick, lol. Just go with a vibrator, he should like that.
Everyone's different but I'd admittedly feel like I wasn't doing a good enough job, possibly might even feel obsolete.
There's nothing wrong with including toys during sex. I use them on her all the time. I'll be in one hole and the toy in another. He should have politely declined if he wasn't interested in doing it. There's no need to be rude about it.
I do not think it is. You are wanting fun.
you should definitely use
It must depend on the guy because I wouldn't be insulted or upset
You can ask me without any issues lol
Depends on if there for you
I would say no depending on what you're using for me anyways
It's not rude and it can add a whole lot of fun especially if you try dp or using plugs. I think most guys would be fine with it just give them a bit of warning and explain why and then they can process its not because they don't satisfy you or see it as a threat.
Just be straight forward it not rude at all I'd have fun with it