I hear women often ask the question
Am I a slut?
Well let's get something straight, this is a topic I've wanted to write about for a while due to the overuse and misuse of the term.
To answer that question we must first answer the main question.
What is a slut?
According to Oxford dictionary a slut is
A woman who has many casual sexual partners.
Now if being a slut is an act than how could someone dress sluty?
From what the media tells us it is to dress provocatively.
This looks fine to me and so does this.
The clothes you wear do not make you promiscuous, it is the actions you take that do. So calling clothes "slutty" makes no sense.
Lastly I will talk about slut shaming and relationships.
Why do women hate sluts?
Simple, because they aren't getting any and are jealous.
They may claim to have the moral high ground and what not but at the end of the day they are just jealous because they can't get a guy.
If you want sex than do something that will make you look better than the other girl or at the very least be more outgoing and confident than you currently are. Guys always want an attractive and confident girl.
Sex is not only with the person you love but something you do for fun
Now for those of you that claim that you're waiting for Mr. Right to take your virginity and that is why you look down on sluts. I've got news for you. Sex is no longer about love and respect and whatever else you think it is about. It is about having fun and enjoying yourself. It is very unlikely that you will find someone in this day and age that wants a loving relationship with very little sex. Those who claim they do, most likely say that because they can't get it anywhere else so they have to wait for you to give it to them.
Sex should not be seen as something sacred because it isn't. It is a physical act between two consenting indivuduals. If you keep claiming that it is you will never find a guy that will want to be with you since all relationships require it. Some require more than others based on the sexual needs of each individual.
So go out there and try to meet someone. Whether it be just for sex or for a relationship.
Life's too short to be constantly judging people who are happy. Instead go find your own happiness.
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