She'll Love the Anal Games You Play

It's a great thing to do with your girl(s), but it takes a little getting used to do right. It's not like porn, boys...

*Note this is mainly for introducing girls to anal sex, not having it with girls who are already well accustomed to it.

She'll Love the Anal Games You Play

The first thing to consider is how dangerous anal sex can be. In my experience, girls can get hurt much more easily by vigorous anal sex than vaginal sex, so you'll want to heed the old "only fools rush in" saying. Also, I've noticed condoms slip down and even off sometimes durinal anal.

But the good stuff. It's dominant to take a girl's ass, which is why i think many straight guys are into it despite it being an actviity that gay guys do a lot more often. It's also a brand new hole of pleasure to discover. Discovery is on your side...you're a frontiersman. Let your confidence come in this fact as you set down this path towards anal pleasure...

She'll Love the Anal Games You Play

It can be painful, obviously, but that means you will just need to be smarter about how you bring it up. Never bring it up if she's not aroused at the moment of hearing it...there's a lot of things that may and will run through her mind--what if it hurts? what if you start thinking about other guys she could have had anal sex with or just the fact that you were able to have it with her and then you think she's a slut? What if she's trying to save it for her husband?

She'll Love the Anal Games You Play

Now that you've brought it up when she's wet and horny, you'll want to know what to do about it...if she really is brand new to it, use lube on her and for the first few times playing with it just use your fingers. A good time to do this is when you're eating her out telling her you're going to play with her ass and then start fingering her ass. Should be noted that this is one of those rare instances where it's ok for a man to get a manicure as cuticles and long fingernails inside her ass can end very, very poorly...

She'll Love the Anal Games You Play

After she's gotten used to fingering, I finally make it the move for real anal sex. Again, analytically...this will always seem a bad idea. So the, wait until you've brought her to almost come doggystyle then stop slap it with your dick and then lube up. I've noticed vaseline works better because it's thicker and you should put it both inside her and on your dick

you're still not out of of the woods yet (or into them as it were...) Be slow with the process of pushing a bit more and more inside of her with each stroke. It should take five or so minutes to get in there enough to start really having anal sex...don't rush this. This is the one time in sex it's ok to go slow motion and actually preferred...

She'll Love the Anal Games You Play

She can also squat on it and whiel this seems a lot tougher on the girl it has the bonus of being able to finger her while she's also getting you anally. Experiment here.

She'll Love the Anal Games You Play

So, gentlemen, if you're an ass virgin yourself, you likely cringed at a lot of this, but after much trial and error i can say this is the deep and dirty of being able to actually take that thing you stare as so much. Again, I'd say only do this with girls you're dating since it is a process, but I do forsee this becoming more common than it already is so you might as well get a head start

She'll Love the Anal Games You Play

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  • If you're going to injure a woman by penetrating her anus, I think you should know how it feels to do that to her, first. Most guys are far too cowardly and selfish to have it done to them, with a strapon or whatever, they'd rather hurt a woman for their own pleasure, which is what anal sex is. It's the most useless of all sexual activities, and the vast majority of men couldn't care less how it hurts their partner. It makes women distrustful and bitter. When a man can hurt her for his own selfish pleasure. Anal sex is not an act of love. Fecal bacteria has no place in sex.

    • as i told you last year, videos for how to make anal pleasurable are made by women.

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  • I <3 Anal sex.

    Although I advise against Vaseline because it can ruin a condom with the chemicals it has it in.

    I personally love "Astroglide lube" it makes the experience way better for me!

    • I've used that too for fingering her ass but with your dick I feel like it's better to use something thicker

    • What about water based Vaseline? Is it bad for condom and anal?

    • Then use AstroGlide Gel. In my experience, it's just the right consistency plus if it gets dry, just a little spit and you're good to go.

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  • Thank you for this I've been only learning from porn unfortunately

  • I'm surprised you didn't add in the factor of toy play because often it's better to use a small toy for those that really need time an gradually adjust and by increasing the toy size " which is why plugs were invented" a woman can grow better accustomed to something larger being inserted, as well as learn muscular control that will assist in the lessening of pain "which is a lot of the reason the pain is so bad at first because the muscules are super tensened", and the anus is slowly stretched and dilated with less effort and less all round pain. Anal is Hat trick of a lot of factors but you can ease the difficulty of it and midigating those factors better with a toy than one can with fingers. Plus a toy can be left inserted while vaginal play is being had which acts in large part to creating muscular relaxation as well as simultaneously providing alternative stimulation for sexual arousal. At that point anal can be done much more easily once the toy or plug is removed rather than to try and gain a lesser adjustment by just using fingers and penis. Yes the man should insert slow regardless, and yes lube is a must, but with a toy at least she has a better shot of learning muscular control and midigating the pain better than without one as I said. Plus with a toy the anus has has been given a dilation effect widening the hole so as to make for an easier and all round less painful insertion rather than an insertion without said muscular controle or dilation. Fingers are okay but my point is that there are better ways.

  • Thanks to medical needs, I've had things up my ass.
    I don't enjoy it at all. Even when it isn't painful or uncomfortable, the only thought in my mind is "people do this for fun?"
    No, i see no appeal to anal, giving or receiving. And my biggest fear in life if falling hard for a woman only for her to tell me she REALLY likes it in the ass.

    • lol what would be so wrong with putting it in her ass?

    • beyond the fact that my personal experience says there is nothing fun about it? the fact that I don't want shit on my dick.

  • Lol nah no thanks

    • won't say never, but for now no thanks lol

  • Interesting take.

    I don't have the patience of wanting to do anal. Just takes forever to get anything ready. So I end up bored out of my mind.

    I've had it done once were the dude just put it in and no lube. Omg that's the worst pain I have ever felt in my life and I have a really high pain tolerance. I basically screamed at the dude to get it out and laid there trying to breathe and get through the pain. I was also in some tears. It was just that bad.

    • Wow what a jerk!

    • this sounds fairly rapey...

    • lol Naw it wasn't. I wanted to try it. Just they didn't work their way slowly. So they just stuck it in like they would for vaginal. Well now I know never to go about it that way.

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  • I've never understood the appeal of anal sex. why would you want to put your dick into shit?

    sure she can wash outside, but unless she has a colonic before hand, there is still going to be hit in there.

    each to their own, nd im not bashing anyone who enjoys it, but i just dont get it.

    • It comes in handy when you don’t want your partner to get pregnant.

  • My wife likes it but only sometimes. I get a clue about it when going down on her. If she is very wet I start with fingering around her anus. When she is very juicy from licking her pussy, it puddles below and lubes a little finger well. If she comes faster by this, I know her ass could be in play after vaginal sex. Our standard position is missionary, but if it proceeds to doggystyle I take time to get her ready more by licking her asshole. After that starts, I do not go back to the pussy with my mouth as if there is a bit of fecal matter, it could cause a vaginal infection. After she is ready the key is going slow. For me, once I am in, it does not take much movement to cum. Then pull out very slowly. It is a very loving thing for your partner to be vulnerable and trusting you to treat her anus gently.

  • Anal sex is alright. it's like something you do every blue moon. And he has to be small, your anus can only open up to 6 inches anything bigger is causing damage. Vaseline, is a nono... learned from gay friends it causes tares in the lower intestine since that's what your penis is in , anyway too Manu cause too much damage. your supposed to use water based lube. and many gay don't have anal, and those who do make it a special thing since nothing is spontaneous about anal sex at least nothing half way clean

    • lol first and only time a girl will say small as a good thing

    • Do u like giving guys anal

  • Shitting in the pants isn't a good thing later in life

    • This is a myth.

  • Unclean! Unclean!

    • haha

  • Not for me!!! I am not risking damaging something and having bathroom issues for years on end. I've heard u can have issues just from having anal even once.

    • Lotta rumers out there

    • hence why you need this take!

    • Myths!

  • What's up with some people and anal? I tried it, at the request of my girl, and while it was good, I like pussy more.
    It was tight, but it was missing that special something... can't place my dick on it.

    • lol it's not duol to replace just an entire new world of sex.. kind of going underwater you only do it occasionally and it's not better than land but you usually enjoy the trip

  • whats the use if i am never having sex, no girl can ever be attracted to me

  • Dani Daniels and Racheal Weisz <3
    That first ass is one of the best I've ever see, But have no idea who it is.

  • all these kids complaining about anal being unclean... don't nobody know how to use a damn shower?

    • What I’m saying lol. It’s literally the dirtiest part of the body. If you’re dealing with it don’t be surprised if it gets dirty.

  • first time I did anal with my girlfriend my condom slipped off and got stuck inside her bum opps but good news was next morning she took a poop and saw condom in the toilet

  • No way Jose... that looks kinda like... a latent gay stuff, I never liked anal, and I never will.

  • The only booty play I like is light spanking and some squeezing, like in that pr0n gif. Otherwise, I don't like anal sex, I prefer vaginal. Yes, I did try what you already stated, but it was so uncomfortable. Never again for me.

    • you probably rushed in

    • Not at all.

  • No way man, we all know what comes out of the ass, I wouldn't go there...

  • Yuck, anal is so repulsive, I would never do it.

    • lol you didn't even read the take

    • Yes I have, and I still dislike anal.

    • but it gets better !

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