Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health Should boyfriend get a say in me getting a boob job?
Anonymous
I’m thinking about getting my boobs augmented. I want them bigger. I’m a C cup now so they’re a handful and boyfriend loves my boobs. He even sleeps with them in his face. He says that he forbids me getting them done. Should he get a say?
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Today boyfriend said that he’s kinda scared I’ll start showing them off and dressing slutty
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What Girls & Guys Said
6 30Hell no, it's your body
Yes, I think he should
i bet you would
Nope its your body not his
No he should not. I hope you are not asking him to pay for it as so many women do.
That is not ANY of your business really
Maybe not, but it does change the answer aa bit - also you are anonymous here so it should not matter
Tbh @msc545 was right for making that comment. If it happens that you don't care about what your partner thinks then don't demand him to cash in.
@Marilynjuana None of your business sweetheart
@msc545 Money was quite literally the last thing on my mind lolll
Asker, just telling what the decent mindset would be. Sorry :3
@Marilynjuana I don’t know
@Asker your hesitation tells me you will manipulate him to pay for it one way or another.
@ChocoBrownieMonster He might anyway!!
@Asker translated 'he will or i'll find someone else who will'
@ChocoBrownieMonster Yes, that is both the threat and the manipulation
@msc545 I'd break up with a girl who wants bigger boobs. That type of girl will never appreciate what they've got they always want better and that means her partner's too.
@ChocoBrownieMonster Good point!
@chocobrowniemonster And that’s why you don’t have a girlfriend
No it’s your body. It would be different if he were your husband
No, they are your boobs and he is just a boyfriend, not a husband
It's your body, so no, he shouldn't have a say.
I don't think forbid is anything he can do, it's your body.
Yes he should because he’s an important part of your life. Your boobs are cine! Don’t take the risks of getting implants because it’s not like you’re flat.
if married he might should get a say-if just a boyfriend no-Owners get to make modifications to their properties while renters do not (Not saying that he owns you but that renters come and go-as do BFs-and a spouse's opinion should be considered as the assumption is permanency).
No he shouldn't get a say as it's your body, your choice and if you'd like larger breasts then I say go for it! 😋😈🔥💦💦😉🤩
I think he should be able to state his opinion and be able to take it into consideration but he shouldn’t control what you do over your own body.
Well you can do what you like, he is telling you how he feels about it, he must know that he can't actually stop you from doing it so i would interpret 'forbidding you' as he really doesn't want you to do that, I wouldn't either.
I can't imagine why you would want to ruin your boobs for no reason at all, but you obviously dont see it that way, thats how he sees it and its how i see it too.
I think it largely depends on your reason (s) for doing it. You could certainly get his opinion (the choice is ultimately yours). If it was reversed, would you want him to get your opinion if he was changing his body in some way? I can say this, for some guys it could definitely be a turn off so it very well could affect the relationship.