Should I tell boyfriend I’m bisexual or not?

Do you think that he should know?
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+1 y
I will tell him
+1 y
I’m not interested in denying part of my identity and feeling as thigh he doesn’t know every part of me because of it!!
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  • Of course.

    Why would people be in intimate, close relationships but keep secrets from one another and hide major parts of ourselves. That is a pathetic way to live.
    Plus he should be able to make an informed decision about his life. If he isn't into bisexual girls then he deserves the truth so he can make an informed decision as to whether he doesn't care about that or if he'd rather move on to someone else.

    You should be open and let others know you when it comes to long term, romantic relationships.

    • Yes that’s important, but people say “so of he isn’t into bisexual girls or whatever” as though someone can turn off their feelings because someone is bisexual lol sounds crazy that people think it’s that easy for him to do. It can sorta be likened to me telling him that I have a condition or that one or the other gets diagnosed with some shit and then saying “oh shit I’m not really into people who have that condition” LOL. That’s not how it is for people in long term partnerships.

    • I don't know what your point is but none of your response negates being fully honest with people so you can have full intimacy with each other and so everyone involved can make informed decisions.

    • That’s fine and I’m agreeing on it, BUT you made a comment about him potentially “whether he doesn’t care or if he’s rather bla bla”. That sounds as though he can just take the information and decide to find someone else and that’s NOT reality. Feelings are involved and we have history. It’s the same as me telling him about my condition and him saying “I’m not into someone with that condition so I’ll find someone else”. Pretty ignorant.

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  • He would probably be into it if you wanted a two girl threesome. But not if you had feelings for her. Being cucked in a lesbian way is kinda weird territory as a guy, who likely won't see it as 'real' cucking and might even enjoy the thought of it, although not emotionally.

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  • It is Good to be Honest. You Never Know how it may Go. xxoo

    • Thanks to Gag. xx

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  • Yep tell him.

  • U can do if u feel you are hiding it from him but if your in a monogamous relationship and not looking to do 3soms I dont see how it would matter

    • But it’s who I am. He Skills know every part of me don’t you think?

    • Thats why insaid if u feel like u are hiding it tell him

    • Although if u know he is the jelouse type how will it go down

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  • I would love a bisexual girlfriend. Ideally she would choose a girlfriend to live with us, who ideally would also be bisexual, so that's double the amount of sex, PLUS since they both love sex with girls that means they almost certainly love to have their pussy eaten, which is great on its own but in this case it's also double the pussy to eat, meaning hopefully something like, um, 3-4 times a day, say one hour each time. Heaven on earth if you ask me. I wish every girl on the planet were bi.

  • I think you should tell him not because he should know, but because you should know how he feels about it. You don't want to waste time on a guy who has a problem with part of who you are. Better for you to know right away what kind of guy he is

  • Absolutely, communication!

  • Would you want him to tell you the same?

  • yes of course

  • I would think he should know. But I mean a lot of guys get turned on by it. He might even want to encourage you and get in to doing threesomes and let you get a girlfriend on the side.

    • No he’s the jealous type so I don’t see that happening tbh

    • Oh. Crap! Sorry!

    • Yeah!!

  • Yes, I think that would be a good idea.

  • Yes. He should know.

  • I think you should tell him. He might be in shock at first but he might be understanding and be ok with it. When you tell him he might want a threesome though with another girl.

    • He’s not they kinda guy

    • That*

    • Yeah he doesn't sound like he that kind of guy it was mostly a joke.

  • I’d like to know. I’d be fine with it. I’d probably just ask you you les porn with me. Maybe get a friend to come in one night to join or watch.

    • He doesn’t want threesomes!!

  • No. I don't see the point. It' just make things worse... unless you're looking for a threesome or something.

    • But that is part of me so he should get to know that part too

    • Somethings are better left unsaid.

    • No I don’t think hiding part of your identity is smart

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  • Yes. You absolutely must tell him. He has to make the determination of whether or not to stay in the relationship, since the danger exists you will cheat on him with another woman.

    • Omg fuck off. Bisexuals are not sex beasts LOL

    • I had a girlfriend that cheated on me with another woman. This shit happens! Never again. Still... tell him.. he HAS to know.

    • Yes, BUT you’re generalising it and it’s not THAT common

  • Yes.

  • He should know

  • Tell him :)
    by the way I prefer to date Bi girls over straight ;)

  • All women are bisexual so this won't be a surprise to him.

  • Yes you should

  • Just be honest and tell him, wouldn't you want to know if he was and didn't tell you?

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