Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health 
The longer you are single, the more you realize what an issue sexual frustration is.
With it on face value easy to fix, but the reality far more complicated
These are the following options to deal with it:
1. Abstinence
The basis of this is merely waiting for your next relationship and dealing with your 'itch'. It can work well for people with low sex drives or others who have never been in a relationship with a vibrant sex life.
For those who have, it represents death through a thousand cuts.
2. Masturbation
Always available and offers relief as well as being fun.
But, the more you 'play', the less the relief felt. With it igniting the yearn in you to use two hands in the company of a lover.
In the end, equal frustration alongside the fun and relief.
3. Casual Sex/ One Night Stands
A method that has its merits as well as flaws.
From a male point of view, it is often not easy to just go out, find a woman and get laid. Even when it is, and you do find a willing woman you never know what you will get. The sex could be amazing, downright dreadful and anything in between.
Dealing with the morning after is also often a cocktail of complication.
It is easier for a woman to go out and get laid but she has to deal with the stigma that gets attached such as slut-shaming as well as the worry of safety. The aside is the casual sex might please the woman but also leave her feeling regret over the meaningless nature of the sex.
4. Friends With Benefits
A great option on face value with you coming to an agreement with a friend to have casual sex to help both of you out. The idea is brilliant for the real feeling you already have for each other means there will always be care and a desire to please within the sex.
Herein lies the irony.
For within the desire to please the lines of the agreement become skewed. With one often catching feelings while the other loves the joy within the casual. Even if you go into it by being openly honest with each other about what you want and do not want it more often than not ends in tears.
5. Go to a Prostitute
It is a real option for it allows you relief with no questions asked and no chance of a legacy.
I went once with this appeal in mind but the experience as I penned in the below Take left me feeling almost abused.
https://www.girlsaskguys.com/sexual-behavior/a25519-my-night-with-a-prostitute
From a female point of view, a laughable option.
What Girls & Guys Said
16 30I tried all of these options eons ago. It sucks I haven't had sex in 8 years.
you poor thing :(
for me working out in the gym helps me a lot
FWBs are awesome.
work hard and harder on yourself. restrain from masturbation because it will makes you more miserable to jerk off alone. and more confident when you wanna try something with a woman you like
take it as a necessary step to feel better.
i never had a relationship, few sex and i regret it. is time to change the rules to the game ;)
Good take bro
Be a good guy and control yourself, that's what separates real men from the ones who just look like males.
I lost the energy to even care about being single. It's something out of my control, so worrying is a waste of time :D
Jut forget about sex. You'll accomplish more stuff.
Sound like a blast.
Yes I am single and horny.
Were do all the single sexy girls wanting sex..
abstinent people may get 10 orgasms a day through masturbation. So they have low sex drives?
What if you're horny and a female friend became single? Can u help me out on my question I posted?
I am 24 and a single virgin.
Sadly #1 is the only option. It just kills a guy to not have sex, especially as we get older... it feels like you are dying on the inside...
#2 Stops helping
#3/#4... You are insecure about experience so you can't really go out and get that because you don't have a clue what you are doing... I envy girls for this because it's so easy for them to get #3 and #4.
#5 is illegal in most places, the girls maybe very unattractive, have STDs, and you won't get that emotional aspect you need.
I don't like this.
If anyone sees this dont listen to it, this is giving in to lust and temptation using PROSTITUTES ARE YOU SERIOUS? But seriously you should know the sexual immoral people will not enter the kingdom of God.
But I understand the feeling of being horny and all, and I used to do these things also, but that is when christ was not yet in my heart, if anyone is reading this, if you get uncontrollable lust, ask the Lord to get rid of it because he hears your prayrers!
At least I know there is a fellow Christian, here who is thinking straight.
@JoyGirl God bless you
God bless you, too.
Running and/or masterbation works for me when the Husband isn't around, and it was splended when I was single.
i run a lot and also masturbate often- never seems to cut it
You just need to learn how to control yourself. And focus on you. Not on girls or sex.
sure, but easier said than done
''you just need to learn how to control bossing guys around. And focus on you. Not on money or attention.''
@Prilee1992 who the fuck do you think you are? You dont fucking know me to say those fucking shit to me.
Well, for me it's between abstinence and mastrubation... I don't have "friends with benefits", and I'm not into prostitutes.
The title of the take is basically every tinder bio that ever existed...