Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health 
A significant amount of women will offer you a sugarcoated response when you ask about your penis size. They will say it's all about how a man works it and place little or no importance in how many inches he is.
The fact of the matter is, in some cases that simply isn't true.
To some extent, size matters to a woman and can be a deal breaker.
Yes, it's true an un-aroused vagina is an average of 4 inches deep, but that does not imply that's the size a woman needs to please her in bed. During arousal, the vagina lengthens and widens and is ready to accommodate a penis. This allows a woman to be able to take several inches longer than that size.
So, what can we learn from this?
When a woman is fully aroused, in most cases 4 inches just isn't enough to please her no matter how "great" you are in bed.
Some men like to wrong women that simply state that they prefer a certain size over another.
I have to ask men that condemn women, would you like to have intercourse with a vagina that you couldn't feel?
I mean, one that's extremely loose.
During sex, don't you want to feel as much as you possibly can?
The same goes for women who prefer a certain penis size, these women want to be able to enjoy sex as much as they can.
A smaller penis doesn't give them the ability to feel as much as they'd like.
For the smaller men out there, I know this is a difficult pill to swallow.
We all want to live in a society where we are accepted by all.
But let me ask you this, how realistic is that?
Even men that are on the larger side, may experience similar problems of rejection.
I doubt, they have nearly as a hard time as a guy with a smaller penis but some women
find sex far too painful with a man who is well over average length.
This leads her to wanting someone who is in between.
You're probably thinking, what size is ideal for most women?
I am sorry to tell you, that is a question that cannot be answered by just one woman alone.
Each and every single one of us are different.
Some women will be direct with you and will tell you what they prefer.
Others will sugarcoat their answers and tell you what you want to hear.
The only real way of knowing, is to establish a relationship with her and eventually time will tell if she was honest with you about her likes and wants.
Cheer up, guys!
There's no point in dwelling on what cannot be changed.
Be proud of what you have.
I guarantee if you try to look for approval in each and every single person, you will be sadly disappointed. Every one of us has different tastes, wants, needs, likes and desires.
The best thing to be, is happy with yourself and sooner or later you'll find someone who feels the same way about you.
What Girls & Guys Said
48 123Love the pictures.. First one I thought it was Taylor Swift;-O
And the plugs, LMFAO
I think the ones that say "Size doesn't matter" are the:
1. ones that ONLY get pleasure from Clitoral stimulation
2. virgins that don't know what they are talking about
3. never had one that was TOO BIG.
"men that are on the larger side, may experience similar problems of rejection.
I doubt, they have nearly as a hard time as a guy with a smaller penis but some women find sex far too painful with a man who is well over average length"... I can chimp in on that. I've never been straight up "Rejected... had a run away screaming get that thing away from me", LOL. Most girls are Horny enough or up for the challenge;-) It is a severe Mood killer when it doesn't work out, be it just not fitting or if she's in pain the whole time. I think all of the Average and less than average guys think it's "Greener on the other side" which isn't the case.
True that all women have a different "Preference size"... The problem I find.. is that women of GAG either don't know what their's is.. or for some reason don't want to help the insecure GAG boys out by telling them. I think if they did, guys (especially virgins) could get an "Ideal" of what they can expect/have in store for them.
lol I thought it was Taylor too
@Lgesj lol after reading your comments I came to know it is not Taylor 😀
he should be at least 7 inches to get respected by girls
For a one night stand based on dick size alone perhaps. Still i doubt a girl would refuse her boyfriend for being "merely" 6 inches.
If your not hot with big boobs and bum I shall not respectt you.
@bobbyxx its a good thing i have all those things
Prove it :)
15% of men have a penis that is 7 inches or longer.
@Benk111 its reassuring to be part of the majority
I like how you think. I make the cut ;)
@CaliSoccerGuy 7 inches or above is good especially for deepthroating
You'd be the 2nd gal to ever get me that deep. I'd be impressed :P
what about 9 or bigger?
Well then only 3% of men are respected by girls I guess lol
#TeamSizeMatters *high five*
Well done! Well said! Well everything! We're constantly being preached to by science nazis trying to tell us what we can and cannot feel during sex. I think this is a fair explaination as to why the standard claim of four inches being enough simply isn't true for all women. We are built differently down there so not all penises are going to be a match. Nothing can be done about it and it's not worth dwelling on as there are more ways to sexually satisfy a woman.
What been average size for guys in your personal experience? Not studies
@rleaf18 Usually 5 inches or less. However the guy that holds a personal record for giving me the most orgasms in one session had only 5 inches and not much in terms of girth. Like I said, there are other ways of satisfying a woman.
Really? I always thought 5.5 was avg
@rleaf18 Well I don't exactly pull out a ruler and measure every guy. I measure by sight and touch and compare it to my 6 inch dildo. Most of them were notably shorter than it.
And were most guys white? And how many guys have u seen in person?
great answer! I love your honesty girl :) But my smallest dildo is 7.5 inches haha
That is a very fair take and more than likely 100% true but I won't lose any sleep over it - I can't do anything about the size of my penis - So if women consider it a needle dick, average or a pornstar cock whatever - If it was an important enough issue for the girl to be a dealbreaker , I don't think we would be compatible enough to get to the bedroom anyways so I am glad I will never find out if my penis meets her standard or not.
Penor size?
I honestly don't care about penis size. And that is legit the truth. I really used to care but penetration is the most boring part of sex to me. If a guy is good at oral and using his hands I wouldn't care if he had a really small dick. If he was terrible at all three, then it would matter but other than that, meh.
I appreciate your honesty. In my response to some users , I stated the only girls this will not matter to are virgins and those who are oral lovers. Someone who is into penetration maybe not be able to look past it. Thanks for answering!
No problem. I've had a lot of sex with a lot of different guys (and girls). I just think sex is very little about the actual act of penetration, foreplay is where it's at.
I'll jump into the mix here... hopefully for positive insight. 'Mytake' you've hit it spot on... a girl who likes oral versus penetration would likely be impartial... not very preferential on size or girth. I can definitely say, speaking from confidence on what I want & what I like; I LIKE penetration... some foreplay-but I have fetishes, kink (minimal BDSM) & I like SIZE. A comfortable snug fit... because I like 'controlled' rough sex_very much into the penetration. In a COMMITTED, monogamous adult arrangement (with sex health screenings first) I will 'occasionally' get heavily into fellatio on the male. I like giving oral in certain circumstances. I LIKE size & length for this as well. I like a bulbous, firm tip... a man who's cut. I do not like uncut but I have had intercourse with an uncircumcised young male 1 time (he was 23, I was maybe 38?). A comfortable length for fellatio is likely 6.5 inches. It matters in penetration.
@2mindful I really think you should explore sex with him, don't be so quick to say no. I've always told myself, I'll try something before I say I don't like it. I didn't think the sex with the large guy was pleasurable at first, but it's like my vagina adapted to him after doing so repeatedly. I think you will do. When you allow yourself to adapt you might experience some of the greatest sex ever.
Sorry, I placed my response to your question in the wrong location but I am sure u know what I am answering :)
What been average size for guys in your personal experience? Not studies
@rleaf18 you asking me or?
@2mindful forgive me but I'm not sure what you're saying? I get that you have a preference, I just don't.
Yes you
@rleaf18 do you mean what was the average penis size I've personally seen? I don't know, everyone is wildly different. I've had very big and very small and average and I spose average is just that...
Well this may sound odd but what kind of phone donm u have
@rleaf18 why?
Just to compare my size to see if its ok
@rleaf18 get lost
@2mindful 6.5 is above average
I like how most women will always do the "Size isn't all that matters," but will then congregate around posts like these to say the exact opposite.
Yeah! I don't know why people lie on anonymous sites. It might be good in real life as they don't want to hurt the feeling of the person but here, why? People should be informed about the reality.
@Stacyzee... thanks for your very insightful take on a very important aspect of sex between a man and a woman.
You are absolutely right and any guy who disbelieves you is, I think, in denial.
Of course a girl will feel much more sexual pleasure if her vagina is filled with her partners hard penis... I really find it hard to understand why men with smaller penises don't get that.
Yes, sexual skills also make a difference but my experiences with a number of women over the years tells me absolutely that pretty much 100% of them like to feel a good-sized penis inside them.
Perhaps I'm being a little self-satisfied about this because I'm just a fraction or so above average (7.2" when hard) but on the other hand I have learned to be caring + patient when making love to a woman so she can have the most beautiful sexual pleasure everytime. Penetrative sex is just one element of being sexual with a girl, albeit an important one where it really should be no surpise that penis size does matter !
It truly depends on where you g-spot is and it changes from woman to woman. Some women do have it near opening some in the inner part. Some enjoy the length due to g-spot being at the end, some like the girth because they have it on the walls of the vagina near opening, and some again dont care because they need clitoral satisfaction not vaginal. So really there is no white or black answer to this ancient question. It is a colorful zone between black and white and changes based on woman's need.
So your saying a man's two inch penis won't be satisfying or appealing to you, visually or otherwise?
Shit, who would have thought.
I guess it depends, your two inch dick.
The more i get to know myself and the more i get in touch with myself (pun intended) the less i give a shit I'm 6.5 inches but I'm proud i stopped comparing myself to people in porn... WHY? Because porn is fantasy and some dudes do get penis enlargement surgery. TELL TALE SIGN is their erections don't point to the ceiling, they're in a constant flacid/erect state...
Ur like perfect size right?
@lovelywiz I don't know not entirely sure still a virgin haven't used my tool yet but such is life...
Size does matter. I won't like to have 3-4 inches length, neither 8-9 if poor cock is unable to satisfy me. To my mind reasonable length (6-7 inches) with good performance is enough.
So size does matter.
Why you don’t want a 3-4”?
@Sdavid It's too small for her.
@Mohamed_Anonym Yeah. Correct.
Considering less than 3% of guys have 7 in, not sure how reasonable that is…
I'm 7 inches and pretty girthy, is that enough?
It's on the smaller side. It might be enough for some girls if they don't really care about intercourse.
@fartsniffer2016 how's that small? it's above average
5.5 is average. 7 is no where near small.
anything above 6.5 is considered above average, 8 inches and up is considered huge
Bran , just google the average length of a male penis and it is somewhere around what I mentioned. What you are stating seems like a personal opinion rather than research.
Why did you ask that question. Obviously it's enough. It would say it's actually big. I'm just 6"
@fartsniffer2016 sorry I dont go around measuring dicks for a living
You got that right, cool mytake :D
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she looks like taylor swift. what is she so happy about anyways?
@diegoD I guess she likes the size ;)
I've actually read studies on this. 5.17 in. Is the average length of an erect penis. With about 1.5 in. In diameter. Statistically this average size is actually the best size for women. So saying Much larger than 4 inches is getting a little extreme. Also, why inform people of this? It's not like they can do anything about it. It's like getting on here and saying: "look if you are ugly, nobody is going to want you" what is the point?
5.5 is an average size. If you ask me that's a big difference between a 4 inch. Some women also consider a 7 inch , the larger end of average. So saying much larger is accurate. To answer your below question , it's to put forth the truth since I see so much sugarcoated answers. I clearly stated people will want these types of people but only time will tell. Never said no one would want them.
It's okay to fall back on statistics but that doesn't mean it's going to be satisfying to the woman, which is more important than a number on paper. Five might be okay for some but it's not going to work for a decent chunk of women because we're shaped differently down there. For me it's the minimum where I can actually feel him inside but it's still a few centimeters shy of being enough to get me off.
7 inch is not remotely average. Perhaps 6 1/2 could be upper average, but not 7
Yeah, it's true, but thickness matters more than length. Fantastic MyTake ;)
What been average size for guys in your personal experience? Not studies
@rleaf18 I've had only 4 experiences... the size varied from 5-7 inches in length.
Do u mind listing out all 4 sizes? And what race were they each
@rleaf18 LoL, I'm from Balkans, they were all caucasian. The first one was about 5,5 inches, the second was about 5... the third was 7 inches and the fourth one was about 6,5 inches.
Do ur friends ever say whats avg to them?
@rleaf18 Yeah, about 5'5.
Is tht based on their personal rxperiences or just studies they saw
@rleaf18 I don't know, I'll ask them.
Cool thanks!
@rleaf18 You're welcome
At least you;re honest, im not insecure anyway so doesn't bother me in the sloghtest
I get confused by all these questions and mytakes regarding dick size, vagina size, boob size... there are very few things in life that are one size fits all!
So I gather if I can keep a girl coming back, then I must be doing something right?
I also gather that if a girl has a large vagina, she will want a larger penis, if a girl has a smaller vagina she will want a smaller penis that fits just right! So I guess I believe in the Goldilocks principle... she keeps trying until she finds one that is just right.
Well at least you're honest. I cringe whenever I see women say it doesn't matter because of how fake they are.
Right now I'd like to point out that not all women are the same size either.
Not all women are equipped with the exact same set of muscles. So it can be that some women are bigger than others also.
And yes, I know how anatomy works which is why I'm pointing this out.
so i was looking for a specific number and didn't find one