Sexual Relationships 
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The more guys I meet and talk to, the more surprised I am to find out how many of them really don’t like eating pussy. For years I thought this was an urban legend and that all men wanted to do it on a woman and enjoyed it, but to my surprise quite a few men really are squeamish about it. So I want to encourage guys here to get past this aversion to the wonderful experience of making love to a woman’s vagina with your tongue and lips. Ahhhh yes, enjoy it.
It’s not as gross as you might think
So I might understand some guys who are freaked out about eating pussy because maybe they had a bad experience - she smelled bad down there or was really sweaty there, and so you just were repulsed by it. But don’t let one bad experience deter you from having a great dinner.
More often than not vaginas are going to have some kind of smell, even when she’s super clean. That’s just how it is. It can be a mild fish like smell, this will always be due to the fact that the vagina is closed up with no air or light. Much like your own mouth. This should not make you feel gross about eating it, rather you need to understand it. Vaginas by nature are also moist, and always will be moist, so you need to expect that, and honestly…accept that too. Even more so when the woman becomes aroused. She will get very wet, and may even squirt in your face if you're lucky. Accept it. Your mouth is wet and is perfect for making contact with a wet pussy.
Eating pussy is not going to be, nor does it have to be, some squeaky clean, odorless experience. Oral sex is messy, on both partners. And vaginas aren’t supposed to be beautiful. Some are, and some don’t look that great, you will have to learn to get around it. Just like not all dicks are attractive to all women. As a man you should enjoy giving oral as much as getting it.
Cunnilingus makes sex better for her
Unless she’s one of those women you might meet who are self-conscious about their pussy and really don’t want any man going down on her, I would embrace it when you’re with a woman who wants it if I were you. Go all in. Even if you need a little work figuring out where the clit is or applying the right sucking rhythm or licking, a woman appreciates that you really want to please her even if you have to work at it.
Giving her oral sex first not only better prepares her mentally and arouses her for intercourse, but it also can relax her and put her mind at some ease knowing that you want to make a good experience for her and don’t want to rush into immediate intercourse, unless she’s super horny in that moment and really wants you to put it in and pound her hips. Eating pussy allows you to have control of the situation and take the lead with confidence, and it really does make intimacy more intense. It’s also great if she’s a woman who can have multiple orgasms because you can eat her and she cums, and then you can slip inside of her and she cums some more, so you’re able to have fun doing a few sex acts in a row.
Oral sex also works well if she has a really tight pussy and maybe you are somewhat…‘big’ down there. I’ve had sex with a few tight women and they were nervous about…well…you know, lol. So I had to be very gentle with them at first. I found that giving them plenty of foreplay and oral beforehand helped their vagina to become more lubricated and open to receive a larger penis. This made me a feel a lot better as I was also nervous about the sex and scared of hurting them, but if you take it slow and prep her well first, you both can enjoy the experience. So if you meet a girl who is particularly tight, eating her first can make it better when you do slip in.
Cunnilingus can make sex better for you too!
I know for me, eating pussy makes sex so much more fun, especially if you do it first. Or even if it’s going to be the entire meal. I think I must be one of those few men who can’t really just jump into sex super fast, nor do I cum fast either. I like and need to enjoy all the corners, crevices, minutes, and seconds of a sexual experience. Cumming fast also feels a lot less bomblastic as opposed to drawn out sex, unless I’m having a moment where I’m particularly red hot horny and need to nut.
I personally have more arousal and enjoyment if I can be touchy and orally with a woman first. Foreplay is good for me just as much as it is for her. I like to put my hands and lips all over her body. Her shoulders, her neck, her breasts, her stomach…. Bringing a woman to a stimulated state intensifies my own fire. And the best part is having your face hugged between her thighs while you work your tongue on and inside that pussy, even more when she starts to tense up and her breathing gets harder, and you can look up at her and see her naked breasts heaving up and down, and her legs start shaking as she’s cumming on your mouth. Hold those hips down and make her feel good and powerless so she cums harder. Mmmmmm…
Enjoy
So for all the guys out there who have never eaten pussy, learn to change your thinking. Don’t be scared or grossed out by it. It doesn’t mean you have to enjoy her smell or actually drink up her fluids, you simply use your tongue and lips on her clit and folds with passion. Just let her juices run out of your mouth as you do it, add some fingers if she’s okay with it, and go with the flow.
Namaste, and good luck.
#eatingpussy
What Girls & Guys Said
26 48Cunnilingus makes her feel loved and close to you like nothing else can sexually.
Yessir, right on!
I love performing cunnilingus to pleasure her. It turns me on too. It's also worth mentioning that my tongue lasts much longer than my penis would, which gives her lots of time to reach orgasm... maybe more than once.
Good point!
Thank you. Going down on her is really important.
I think I am one of the rare women who doesn't particularly like or get turned on from receiving oral.
Any particular reason?
I've just never felt comfortable with it, I get grossed out by it which just kills the mood
Hmm, grossed out... but you aren't doing the act itself?
Yes, buy male genitalia is external and therefore cleaner, holds less bacteria and men don't tend have monthly cycles, whereas women's is mainly internal and can never be 100% clean, can hold more bacteria and has a higher risk of infections stemming from the bladder. On that basis I am all for giving (its actually a turn on for most women to give) but unfortunately I just overthink when receiving and don't fully relax into it.
Gotcha, well sorry to hear that. But as long as you are comfortable.
@midnight_kiss Sorry to hear that lol.
What's to be sorry about, not every likes the same things, I probably like things some people don't it's called being true to your unique self.
@midnight_kiss I guess. Maybe you like anal, and I'm not much of anal fan.
So you ate some fat ghetto girl's pussy... who are you, Dr. Phil now?
Real 👏 Men 👏 Go 👏 Down 👏
Guys that refuse to go down are more or less perpetual butthurt sociopathic teenagers. I was impressed with Dr BOA until I heard him whine like a little baby about how he refused to go downtown. Fine dude. Stay over there while I have a quick chat with your old lady
Yes! I cannot BELIEVE there are still men who won't eat pussy.
It is the closest thing I know of to communing with god
you are correct ;)
I agree wholeheartedly. Foreplay is vastly overlooked and under-rated as part part of the arousal >> orgasmic experience.
One of the best things a gal can do to ME during arousal is to have me face down and to v-e-r-y, v-e-r-y lightly stroke (almost tickling) my inside thighs, butt, flanks, perineal area. eeeeeeeeeeOOOOOOOOOwwwwwwwweeeeeeee. Just flip me over quick, toast my front, and I'm cooked!
I totally get you... but I also need to say that it needs only one bad women to spoil it for a guy for years...
Hospital doc went up to me on the day my daughter was born and informed me about a pretty bad, multiple fungal infections which where carried for years, obviously from his view with medical background...
Girls, hygiene pls... if there is something, it just costs some time and trust me, in life, you will have that more than once, just fix it...
Yikes.
Eh, I really don't need a guy to eat my puss, just learn how to choke me right instead.
Whoa... 😳😁
Exactly.
Yeah, I like doing that. Definitely adds to the excitement.
Which is a nice skill to have
@ninania You're a little freak, aren't you?😂
@ManOnFire correct.
I also like a piece of duct tape over the mouth and someone pinching my nostrils on and off
@ninania Well. You will have to live with me eating you forever as punishment😈
@DGravez6 I'm not into that kind of breath play.
@ManOnFire I don't have to do anything.
Ninania. Do you have someone that can choke you right, now?
@Stevefiveo I have several someones, in fact.
@ninania Even if I choke you?😈
@ManOnFire ew, stop.
@ninania You're no freak lol.
@ManOnFire ever heard of consent? I'm reacting to you, not your topic.
@ninania Oh Lord. Now we going way off and not even having fun anymore. I'm done here.
@ManOnFire I stopped having fun the moment you injected yourself into my sex life.
Lucky,. Most girls I know that are in to it can not find anyone willing to do that.
Yes lol and namaste 🙏
Yes, the number guys i know who love having there cock sucked but turn their nose up to her pussy.
Out of the two i prefer pussy, the girl is usually more appreciative, than guys anyway..
Love to eat pussy my favorite
I have a very long tongue. I also love to give more than recieve. So going down on a woman is one of my favorite things to do.
I absolutely love giving women I am with oral every time we do anything sexual and something about a woman on her period makes me enjoy oral 5 times as much.
I ptefer giving oral over receiving oral.
Soooo I always thought I just didn’t care for it or like but turns out they all sucked at doing it so I never really knew what to expect just that it didn’t feel good. I met one guy and it was the best ever and I honestly probably would have went my whole life saying I hate it. 😅
Not sure how anyone could / would dislike it…. It is a ridiculous turn on to please, tease and sometimes give her Os orally.
It can definitely enhance intercourse for both….
Because men are to be served and pleased. Where are women are there to please and serve their man 😂
As a man if you have not taken the time to research the female anatomy shame on you. A clitoris is like an iceberg. Mostly invisible below the surface, wrapping around the vaginal tunnel and extending out towards the thighs. “The part that we see and feel is just this tiny little glans that creates the head of the clitoris, the tip of the clitoris has 8,000 nerve endings that is twice the amount of nerve endings in a man's penis. From there, all this fabulous magical stuff is happening beneath the surface. A clitoris is made up of 18 distinct parts. The actual vaginal tunnel has almost no sensation at all giving birth through something as sensitive as a clitoris would be “excruciating. While being aroused and engorged the clitoris can grow from 50 to 300 times it's normal size as the female reaches orgasm. The clit is the only part of the human body that never ages it looks the same at 80 years old as it does at 20 years old. The clit also controls the G-Spot and the lesser known A spot which is located just when you get to the cervix and bend your fingers upward and press back toward the stomach of the female and put pressure that is the A spot. The A is responsible partially for orgasms from pressure being applied by the penis during anal sex. The clitoris has what is called arms and legs the legs run down the inner thighs the arms run up toward the stomach and turn out toward the outer hips these are called erogenous zones. Women if you don't know this it's probably because you haven't thought to study your own anatomy. The female body has 11 erogenous zones that can trigger 11 different distinctive orgasms none feeling the same as the other. Just as different as a clitoral orgasm versus a g-spot orgasm. It's not that big of a challenge to lick or suck on a clit and cause an orgasm. But when you apply knowledge that 99% of other men don't have and add 10 more erogenous zones that 99% of men don't know about then you can demonstrate what a real oral orgasm should be. If a man's techniques are well-honed he can cause a woman to have three orgasms at the same time from 3 different erogenous zones. The clit the G-Spot and A spot for instance could climaxat the same time. There's a lot more to it guys than just randomly licking and sucking and nibbling. One of the things I've had the most success with is sliding two fingers inside of the woman and just tickling her g-spot ever so lightly like a butterfly whisperer while absolutely tongue thrashing her clit. The contrast of the soft gentle touch versus the violence can cause an ungodly orgasm. At which point you pull your fingers away you lock your lips around the opening of her canal and literally suck her juices from her and watch the second orgasm happen instantaneously. Jus' Sayin
I enjoy eating a woman out. It's one of the best parts in my opinion. Just needs to be clean and not have an abnormal smell.