Sexual Relationships 
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The more guys I meet and talk to, the more surprised I am to find out how many of them really don’t like eating pussy. For years I thought this was an urban legend and that all men wanted to do it on a woman and enjoyed it, but to my surprise quite a few men really are squeamish about it. So I want to encourage guys here to get past this aversion to the wonderful experience of making love to a woman’s vagina with your tongue and lips. Ahhhh yes, enjoy it.
It’s not as gross as you might think
So I might understand some guys who are freaked out about eating pussy because maybe they had a bad experience - she smelled bad down there or was really sweaty there, and so you just were repulsed by it. But don’t let one bad experience deter you from having a great dinner.
More often than not vaginas are going to have some kind of smell, even when she’s super clean. That’s just how it is. It can be a mild fish like smell, this will always be due to the fact that the vagina is closed up with no air or light. Much like your own mouth. This should not make you feel gross about eating it, rather you need to understand it. Vaginas by nature are also moist, and always will be moist, so you need to expect that, and honestly…accept that too. Even more so when the woman becomes aroused. She will get very wet, and may even squirt in your face if you're lucky. Accept it. Your mouth is wet and is perfect for making contact with a wet pussy.
Eating pussy is not going to be, nor does it have to be, some squeaky clean, odorless experience. Oral sex is messy, on both partners. And vaginas aren’t supposed to be beautiful. Some are, and some don’t look that great, you will have to learn to get around it. Just like not all dicks are attractive to all women. As a man you should enjoy giving oral as much as getting it.
Cunnilingus makes sex better for her
Unless she’s one of those women you might meet who are self-conscious about their pussy and really don’t want any man going down on her, I would embrace it when you’re with a woman who wants it if I were you. Go all in. Even if you need a little work figuring out where the clit is or applying the right sucking rhythm or licking, a woman appreciates that you really want to please her even if you have to work at it.
Giving her oral sex first not only better prepares her mentally and arouses her for intercourse, but it also can relax her and put her mind at some ease knowing that you want to make a good experience for her and don’t want to rush into immediate intercourse, unless she’s super horny in that moment and really wants you to put it in and pound her hips. Eating pussy allows you to have control of the situation and take the lead with confidence, and it really does make intimacy more intense. It’s also great if she’s a woman who can have multiple orgasms because you can eat her and she cums, and then you can slip inside of her and she cums some more, so you’re able to have fun doing a few sex acts in a row.
Oral sex also works well if she has a really tight pussy and maybe you are somewhat…‘big’ down there. I’ve had sex with a few tight women and they were nervous about…well…you know, lol. So I had to be very gentle with them at first. I found that giving them plenty of foreplay and oral beforehand helped their vagina to become more lubricated and open to receive a larger penis. This made me a feel a lot better as I was also nervous about the sex and scared of hurting them, but if you take it slow and prep her well first, you both can enjoy the experience. So if you meet a girl who is particularly tight, eating her first can make it better when you do slip in.
Cunnilingus can make sex better for you too!
I know for me, eating pussy makes sex so much more fun, especially if you do it first. Or even if it’s going to be the entire meal. I think I must be one of those few men who can’t really just jump into sex super fast, nor do I cum fast either. I like and need to enjoy all the corners, crevices, minutes, and seconds of a sexual experience. Cumming fast also feels a lot less bomblastic as opposed to drawn out sex, unless I’m having a moment where I’m particularly red hot horny and need to nut.
I personally have more arousal and enjoyment if I can be touchy and orally with a woman first. Foreplay is good for me just as much as it is for her. I like to put my hands and lips all over her body. Her shoulders, her neck, her breasts, her stomach…. Bringing a woman to a stimulated state intensifies my own fire. And the best part is having your face hugged between her thighs while you work your tongue on and inside that pussy, even more when she starts to tense up and her breathing gets harder, and you can look up at her and see her naked breasts heaving up and down, and her legs start shaking as she’s cumming on your mouth. Hold those hips down and make her feel good and powerless so she cums harder. Mmmmmm…
Enjoy
So for all the guys out there who have never eaten pussy, learn to change your thinking. Don’t be scared or grossed out by it. It doesn’t mean you have to enjoy her smell or actually drink up her fluids, you simply use your tongue and lips on her clit and folds with passion. Just let her juices run out of your mouth as you do it, add some fingers if she’s okay with it, and go with the flow.
Namaste, and good luck.
#eatingpussy
What Girls & Guys Said
26 48Nice Mytake
The good thing is at the age of 35 you finally realized that. At 16 I actually already knew that Lmao.
Lmfao. I didn't realize that now at 35, I've been eating pussy for ages. I'm only writing about it now at 35. Lol.
this guy loves to eat pussy. especially when it's clean and shaven. you can learn a lot about the nuances of a woman's pleasure zones on her pussy from spending some time down there and asking her what feels good.
As a domme I must say it's just pure pleasure. I enjoy seeing my man all passionate about it and even better if he's begging.
I don't know bout you guys, but for me, giving oral is the most important part of sex. I make sure she comes at least 3 to 4 times from oral before I go onto penetration. She enjoys it wayyyy much more, trust me !!!
My first sex partner, a bit older and experienced, taught me a lot including how to perform oral on women to ignite her fire.
It's basically a myth.
"Woman, you want oral? Ask as much as men do, then we talk."
The reason for the disparity is not that men find it disgusting, but that women do.
(And feel self conscious about it. Somehow they think we get to stare at it while sucking, we don't, we barely get to use our noses.)
Oral on women is very important
Never tried it but I want to.
Being willing is a good start.
Couldn't agree more.
All the comments are from submissive girls
I take it you must be a submissive guy?
i ain't
Maybe you should write about what MEN need, not women. Women tell us all the time already, in loud tones.
True. But men still aren't listening. Just like how men are telling women all the time how they judge men for "opening up" or being emotional yet women still do it. They aren't listening. Both sides are asking for something but not respecting the other.
Reiterating what people should do won't make them any more likely to do it I'm afraid.
sorry not gay. I can deal with no head so long as I don't gotta go diving.
Are you saying that you think eating pussy is gay?
@billiumboomerboi Wooooaaaah. Bro. I NEVER use the down vote button on here, but I really had to do it this time. Eating pussy is gay? That is one of the most ridiculous, most high school level things I've heard on GaG as of now.
hey man if you want to go for it. Its just not my cup of tea. Although I do eat a can of fish a day so maybe I'll enjoy it.
I concur
I enjoyed going down on my wife!!
Yep, women deserve oral just as much as guys
Great to see some guys out here who love it💪🏾
I don't go down on woman if she does not have neat, clean and good smell pussy
I mean you don't need to give a woman oral to turn her on. To be honest I actually think teasing a woman by kissing her around her vagina instead of just going for it is better and more enjoyable to do. When I actually gave a woman oral, I did not enjoy it one bit. I was getting a feeling of puking but hid it really really well. Getting oral kinda freaks me out. Why would you want a mouth full of bacteria and food particles all over your penis? Haha
You are failing big time, my boy. This Take was made for exactly guys like you.
He has the mindset that I had until I was 22. I didn't want my mouth where the person peed from among other things. But when i saw a pretty enough dick, I was happy to suck it. And after one guy begged enough, I was glad to let him try eating me out. Crazy cause i turned down all my other exes who really wanted to do it. The one i let do it definitely turned out to be the wrong one. Either way, i could continue in life without being eaten out but i dont think i could go on without sucking unless he has an unappealing dick
Yes i love it
I love licking a pussy so much. I could happily lick and kiss for hours. So sexy having them squirm on your face
Here is what I do. When we are just making out, I will rub and finger her. I will then sneak my hand to my face and smell my fingers. If it is not nasty, I will go down on the girl until she cums on my face. Don't really care that much, most of the time, if she goes down on me. Going down on a girl is one of my favorite things to do