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The Perks of Dating a Man with a Foot Fetish

The Perks of Dating a Man with a Foot Fetish

This Take isn't weird
Obviously, if I'm doing this myTake, I've got a foot fetish. That means I find female feet attractive and that's all. I know there is a slight stigma attached to fetishes and with the foot fetish being the most common (by all accounts), foot fetishists often seem to be stereotyped as pervy loners. I'll be honest, I'm sure some of us are. But pervy loners are not exclusive to foot fetishists. I have a foot fetish and I am (mostly ) a normal guy. I want to get married and raise a family. I want to meet someone I can speak to and connect with. I find many parts of the female body sexy aside from feet. Feet just happen to be one more thing I do find sexy. I don't do anything criminal or weird and would never violate someone's boundaries for my own gratification; something which many guys without foot fetishes can't say.

Plenty of women seem uncomfortable with the subject so I thought I might do a Take explaining the benefits a man's foot fetish could have for his female partner.

NOTE: This all applies to me and the majority of foot fetishists in my experience. Everyone's sexuality is a little different.

1. Foot rubs

The Perks of Dating a Man with a Foot Fetish

Yep, this is the main one. Some women LOVE foot rubs but can't get their partners to do it because they're either too lazy or don't like feet. If your boyfriend has a foot fetish, he will jump through hoops to massage your feet. You can come home, pop off your shoes and most guys with a foot fetish will volunteer to give you a massage for the next hour anyway you like. They'll practice and find ways to make you relax and enjoy your massage so they can do it more often. Your feet basically have their own personal masseuse now.

2. Footwear

The Perks of Dating a Man with a Foot Fetish

At some point most guys will complain that their girlfriend has too many shoes. Guys with a foot fetish however won't complain. Hell, they'll probably offer to pay for half of them. To them (us), the wide variety of women's shoes make women's feet sexier and draw attention to them in the same way that other forms of clothing (e.g. lingerie) do for other parts of the female body. If you go shoe shopping, he will be interested and it's a personal fantasy of mine to go shoe shopping with a girlfriend and she teases me the whole way through. The wide selection of female footwear will catch his interest as much as yours which provides plenty of opportunities for fun and you have an excuse for buying more shoes.

3. Variety

The Perks of Dating a Man with a Foot Fetish

In long term relationships, sex can get boring and it helps to have options available to freshen things up. A foot fetish means there is one more way to experience sexual pleasure. Obviously, it shouldn't be one sided but if you're looking for another way of turning your man on and he has a foot fetish, you basically have 2 'On' switches to his sex drive on the end of your legs, giving you the chance to bring variety to your sex life and explore new things. Who knows? You might like it.

4. Intimacy

The Perks of Dating a Man with a Foot Fetish

Many men with foot fetishes seem to be secretive with it. Obviously most people don't broadcast the details of their sexuality for the world to hear but even for foot fetishists in relationships, it can be hard to open up about this in case the woman rejects it and believes he is weird. Therefore, if the woman accepts it, it can bring her and her partner much closer. They will have a stronger bond as he will have shared secrets that only she knows of him and have kept it between them. This is guaranteed to make you special in his mind and can lead to a great amount of trust.

5. Pampering!!!

The Perks of Dating a Man with a Foot Fetish

Women generally love to be pampered. Foot fetishes are an opportunity for that. Not only will you get foot rubs (see 1.), he will love to get/give you pedicures, foot baths or paint your toe nails for you. He could also buy all this for you as a present and the pedicures could be his present too.

6. Attraction

The Perks of Dating a Man with a Foot Fetish

This means that there is another part of your body that can be attractive to (some) men. Everyone has body parts that they are proud of and some they aren't so proud of. It's natural. I know some women (that I've seen online. I don't really stare at girl's feet irl you'll be glad to hear. ) that look pretty good but have incredibly sexy feet (people disagree on what this means. Some fetishists love toes, some prefer soles. There is a wide variety). That makes them more attractive to me than women who have 'ugly feet' but look great otherwise. It opens up more options as well as meaning there are now more parts of your body that he is attracted to and only you know that. You can tease him in public without anyone else ever knowing by just dangling your foot in his view.

Conclusion

Foot fetishes come in many different forms and, like most forms of human sexuality, they are too unique to just sum up easily. But in my opinion, foot fetishes provide a genuine opportunity to bring a couple closer as it offers unique opportunities such as those I outlined above. It makes that person unique.

I hope that I will be able to explore my fetish in future with an open minded and mature partner and I will make sure that she reaps the benefits.

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  • my feet are too ticklish... i wouldn't even enjoy a massage without squirming!

    • Hahaha have any boy kiss on your feet

  • A lot of people are into feet, like some are into breasts, hair & everything else imaginable. Obviously many consider women's feet attractive. Look at all the open shoes & sandals they make for us.

    I go barefoot a lot & when I absolutely have to wear shoes I wear sandals or flip-flops, so I have attracted guys with foot fetishes. Some have been cool about it, others were creepy. Scott hasn't admitted to having a foot fetish but it isn't hard to see that he's really into my feet. He loves how I go barefoot all the time, he loves giving me foot massages & pedicures, we frequently play footsie & during lovemaking he's all over my feet.

    • Who is Scott? May be he likes ur feet 👣

    • As of last June Scott is my husband, my boyfriend of several years before then. I know he likes my feet.

    • Really? He did anything with ur feet?

  • Sounds weird and creepy.

    • Don't you like foot rubs n massage?

    • Depends if the guy is a creep.

    • Hmm? If the guy is gentle?

  • This is actually a pretty good myTake, lol.

    Nice idea to tease him in public... hahaha, nobody will know beside him.

    One of my oldest non-relative peoples (I've known him for longer than my other non-relative peoples) has a foot fetish that developed in his childhood.

    Your myTake inspired me. IF I have a partner with a foot fetish I'll ensure to take better care of my feet. Over the years they got sun burnt. The burns have faded but my overall feet can be better.

    I don't have a hand fetish but I do ask to see the hands of men I'm interested in. Hands can look masculine and I like to inspect the tools.

    Only reason I would want to see his feet is to know whether they look bigger or smaller than mine and if to feel self conscious. 🙈

    • Such pretty floral lavender shoes by the way. 🙂

    • Awesome lol Now you know why i like your heels and feet 😂 😂

  • In my close-knit inner-circle of friends, we all have a fondness for feet and legs. I take good care of myself, especially my legs & feet. I'm quite proud of them. My boyfriend & girlfriends insisted that I open a Tumblr or Instagram or Flickr account to "display" my assets. I'm still in an experimental stage with my Tumblr account. So far, I've shared numerous photos of my legs & feet there. I appropriately titled my blog 'cRaZyAbOuTmYoWnLeGsAnDfEeT' which can be viewed through https://crazyaboutmyownlegsandfeet.tumblr.com/ or www.tumblr.com/search/cRaZyAbOuTmYoWnLeGsAnDfEeT+ Let me know what you think of them.

  • It’s such a common fetish. I don’t even really consider it weird anymore

    • Thanks 😊😊 Really hard to find girls who think its normal

    • Don't be cruel and share pic 😂 😂

  • I don't like my feet. They're wide, large and clunky. I'm on them at least 9hrs a day for either job I work at. I was even in a friends with benefits relationship for awhile with a guy with a foot fetish and he told me my feet were the least prettiest of any girl he has been with... So I have that going for me too... But it's awesome for anyone who is enjoying it!

    • I appreciate your honesty But how you feel if guy do something with your feet

    • I'm the kind of girl that will do just about anything for/to their partner during sex. So I wouldn't mind it.

    • Plus it's one of the normal fetishes on the list of what it could be.

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  • I didn’t even read anything apart from the title and all I can say is that it is not a perk to date a man with a foot fetish. The complete opposite for me lol.

    • Why lol

    • I’m not interested in feet and not interested in guys who have a foot fetish. It makes me so uncomfortable... I’ve had a guy “secretly” take photos of my feet and legs and it made me extremely uncomfortable

    • Not taking photo lol It about caressing them

  • I think female feet are gorgeous

    • Agreed with you

  • My husband does and loves me in backless heels strappy heels and with nylons on
    I love it also

    • Do you like if guy sucks n lick them?

    • He does. And likes just holding them. He hit it from his mums friends as a boy. Most wore stockings not tights as did his mum

    • You really amazing can't you adopt me 😂 😂?

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  • Feet can be a place to connect during sex or with your love. There are a lot of erogenous zones on our body that can be easy to call weird or whatever. I think exploration, creativity and especially vulnerability are very important to great sex. As long as you both enjoy it go for it.

  • Ehh. Depends to the degree of weirdness of the fetish. I would be open to foot rubs and him buying me nice shoes though 😉

    • Nothing weird just like other body parts he likes feet

    • Yeah but some wanna suck your toes etc. And I'm not down for that

    • Foot fetish not about kissing or licking feet but also foot rubs n trampling like walking on back

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  • I'm good lol

  • 1. Can be useful sometimes.
    2. I don't have an obsession with shoes.
    3. Maybe
    4. Ok
    5. Hmm
    6. Weird
    Conclusion - it depends on the girl.

    • What about foot massage after work out or gym?

    • I like that :D

    • I would love to massage ur feet 😊

  • Come pamper my feet and worship them til your hearts content ;)

    • Lmao 😂 😂 I will d that

  • Cool ! Thanks for sharing

    • Which perk you like most 😂 😂

    • Probably the intimacy and foot rubs.

    • My favourite 😍

  • I don't know. I've dated guys with a thing for feet and they were some of the prissiest guys around. Not only did they require that my feet be perfectly polished and baby soft all. of. the. time but they were prissy and demanding about other appearance points as well. When I hear foot fetish, I hear, oh, a pretty boy who probably primps more than I do.

    • Hahaha 😂 and don't forget free foot massage and rubs

    • I seen ur feet in how do I look questions and they really beautiful

    • All are not prissy

  • Well perks of dating a man (or women) with a foot fetish.

    • You only punish ur girl friend not me 😞

    • With women 😂😂 Do you like women feet?

    • Yes, but I prefer a whole women not just her feet.

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  • So how does a girl know before you get to know her? Do you wear a gold chain with a small gold foot on swinging on it?

  • This was actually pretty interesting, thanks for sharing

    • What you found interesting 😂 😂?

    • I never really thought about the advantages of a foot fetish, so all of it really haha

    • I told you 😂 😂 Adopt me 😂 😂 u will have so many benefits

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