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The REAL Reason Why Men aren't Having As Much Sex Today

The REAL Reason Why Men arent Having As Much Sex Today


This is my response to another myTake that was featured recently discussing the reasons why men aren't having as much sex today. Though i agree that us millennial men aren't having as much sex nowadays compared to past generations I have to say that I totally disagree with the reasons that other myTake pointed out for the fact they sounded pretty misguided, fallacious and most of all very condescending.

Till then here are the true reasons why me millennial men aren't having as much sex.

We figured out sex is not worth the effort anymore.

The REAL Reason Why Men arent Having As Much Sex Today

Obviously we millennial men have always been exposed to pornography, explicit music, reality shows and many other things that glorify sex too damn much. We’ve learned the hard way that all these things are delusions just created as marketing strategies to consume our lives away. We also learned that these things also come with lots of negative consequences that we simply aren't cucked enough to endure.

We hate being exploited.

The REAL Reason Why Men arent Having As Much Sex Today

That saying above pretty much explains that no women out there will have sex with you unless you got something to offer her first, this is no different than prostitution logically speaking.

Lets not forget that unlike actual prostitutes most women don't like to get to the point, even with the first transaction they still love playing hard to get and will expect more transactions from you in the future and is when you’re officially broke that they decide to have sex with you, if again they feel like it.

If this isn't exploitation then i don't know what exploitation is.

We are tired of women misguiding us.

The REAL Reason Why Men arent Having As Much Sex Today

Dont know where to start with this one. When is not about free stuff as I mentioned earlier is other things like favors, attention, social status and the list goes on.

Bottom line is we are sick of women not meaning what they say or saying what they mean and this can be very frustrating and energy draining. Especially if you’re only getting one thing out of all of this that most of the time it isn't even worth it.

Women today are more demanding than ever and we refuse to live up to their expectations.
The person who wrote the mytake I’m responding to with this one is a prime example. She wrote how today supposedly men aren't getting sex because we are...

- Weak
- Lack looks
- Too nice
- Too desperate


And many other patronizing remarks as if we are the only one at fault for this. Not only does it seem like most women nowadays have a tough time realizing that it takes two to tango, but for some odd reason they believe it can never be their fault if the dance did not go as well as planned.

Like Wtf? Why must we men stop being ourselves and jump through fire hoops just for

We want to avoid law issues like false rape/assault allegations, paternity frauds, etc. at all cost.

The REAL Reason Why Men arent Having As Much Sex Today

Yes this one is one we millennial males have to put up with for quite a while and it didn't really took #metoo for us to become aware of this one.

Today even if a woman has consent sex with you there is still a good chance that she can change her mind and deny that consent if she feels like fucking up your life afterwards. And don't even get me started with the jumpy agendas women have nowadays. Today you can't even start a conversation with any woman in public without making her feel startled one way or another.

Bottom line is that it's not even worth trying. What is the point of trying something that is gonna get you falsely penalized sooner or later.

We rather spend our time and money on more meaningful things.

The REAL Reason Why Men arent Having As Much Sex Today

Yet another one where I do not know where to start from.

Obviously there is no way you’re gonna get laid for free as I mentioned earlier and the fact that even if happens it might backfire on you makes this subject even more apathetic. Till then there are a lot of other valuable things that will last longer that you can spend your money on.

I myself would rather spend my money on video games since not only are they more fun but they last longer and will always be available for me whenever I’m bored. If for ever reason I feel like seeing tits and ass or want the company of a woman I would either higher an escort or hit the strip clubs. Not only are these women just as available but they will always give me what I pay for and will not make me a #metoo victim afterwards.

We don't want drama and other toxicity in our lives.

The REAL Reason Why Men arent Having As Much Sex Today

When is not becoming another #metoo victim drama, clingy hoochies and jealous ex are the other things you gotta worry about.

Women admit it themselves that the best place to find women that are DTF are nightclubs and bars. Yet aren't these the women who...

- Get stupid drunk?

- Flock to any random dude?

- Have other jealous dudes hounding her?

- Fuck random dudes and not remember their identity or consent the next day?

And the list goes on

Women today are just terrible performers.

The REAL Reason Why Men arent Having As Much Sex Today

Is clear that sex is the only thing women have to offer nowadays yet they’re not even good at that one thing.

Even during the act they still to put all the fault on the man. Either he had…

- Erectile Dysfunction
- Premature Ejaculation
- Low Stamina
- Performance Anxiety


Yet you never hear women get any blame in this department. Like come on, why must the man do all the work? Where is the harmony? Do they not know they have to play their role too?

I can write a book on how awful most modern women perform in bed.

- They feel too complex to try almost anythings
- Never let you try out your favorite positions on them for whatever reason
- Never encourage you to perform on your terms
- Complain about pain and discomfort too much
- Love faking orgasms


Just to name a few. Bottom line is what the hell is the point of wasting your time and energy on something that not only will you not enjoy putting the effort on but will also get you scorned like its your fault even if it isn't?

Most women nowadays just don't look sex material.

The REAL Reason Why Men arent Having As Much Sex Today

I’ll admit that we men are totally at fault for this for our thirst and low standards.

Women nowadays just do not put any effort in even trying to look attractive. They rely too much on makeup and other deceiving beauty techniques and never have any fitness routine. Even worst they feel too privileged to condone any of these things and demand that men accept them the way they are.

Is like I always ask myself, why are women allow to have standards yet when we men have them we end up getting crucify.

Conclusion

There you have it folks, the real reasons why we millennial men aren't having as much sex as the previous generations. We got both moral and safety reasons why we should not let our boners show us how we should live our lives.

So if you’re a millennial never feel bad or discourage if you don't have a sex life. Just remember that in today’s society having a sex life can be a life sentence.

Also ignore the women who try to shame and discourage you for your so called inability to get laid. Just remember that you're not the problem and you never know their true intentions. They are probably just trying to shame and play with your ego with the only thing they have to offer.

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  • I'm in the middle GenX and Millennial, that micro generation Xennial. I'm also married and have a family.

    Despite all that, I have been watching from the side lines over the last few years how sex, relationships and the interactions between the genders have been evolving.

    I have debated for and against many different subjects over the years and much of your above take seems to align to many things I have mentioned in the past and although blunt and on the attack, speaks accurately to what I have observed over the years.

    Yes, women have a lot of things they complain about towards men, but guys have a lot of things to complain about towards women as well.

    Yet based on some responses in here, nobody wants to hear the true perspective of someone from the group they attack and mock so often.

    They sum it up as them not being man enough, or they're moaning or crying, as if they're expected to just shut up and take it (like a man). I'm surprised you haven't been accused of Mansplaining yet.

    Yet that's also the problem. Since the late 80s and 90s, parents, specifically mothers, have been trying to push their sons to be less like their fathers (cuz apparently their traits that attracted them in the first place are wrong) and want them to be more emotional, to express their feelings, to be more sensitive and to not adhere to normal gender standards, etc.

    The argument is that the "old ways" result in us guys being murderous, raping, violent sex monsters with no care for anything else in the world and were all dangerous.

    Oddly I never raped, murdered or assaulted anybody in my life and I treat everyone equally, but let's ignore that for now.

    So OK, let's say you raise your boys that way. Fine, I don't care.

    But now the problem is there's so many women out there bitching and moaning that they want a real man, that they don't know how to handle or deal with their partner crying or showing emotions, and so on.

    So no matter WTF you do, you still lose and you're doing it wrong.

    I know first hand what it's like to be manipulated by past partners, to be pressured and forced to change who I am into what they want me to be, to snoop through my crap to find anything to start an argument and use to try and control me like some fk'n child. And they also cheated on me. They didn't have the decency or the fk'n balls to just end it and walk away.

    Add on the risks of STDs, pregnancy, the additional mess and odours from actual sex, to accusations of unwanted advances or assault & getting MeToo'd and have your life and career ruined without due justice, or purposely trying to get pregnant as financial entrapment.

    What do you end up with?

    A bunch of guys fed up with it all and no longer wanting to play the game.

    I don't blame them. If I ended up divorced or otherwise single again, I wouldn't even bother looking for another relationship.

    This generation doesn't have erectile dysfunction issues because of too much porn. If that was the reason...

    • ... Then how could they get it up to masturbate to said porn? Then there's the whole "Porn Addiction" crap. Porn has existed since humans could make photographs, film, frig, even paint. It was quite easily available when I was growing up and porn mags and pin up girls have been around since before the Boomers. Porn on the internet has been around since dial up. It was around when I was in college and just as easy to obtain as it is today. The only difference is the video resolution and internet speeds. There's no such thing as "Porn Addiction." You don't go through withdrawals if you don't see any. You're not selling your couch for some extra money to pay your PornHub membership. Masturbating to porn is a sexual preference like any other preference out there, regardless of how strange you think it is. The reason why a guy would prefer to masturbate to porn over having actual sex can be attributed to, once again, Preference. They have this preference because of all of the above mentioned issues. Having actual sex isn't really worth it to them anymore. And for the girls here attacking and mocking these people for their preference, claiming that there's something wrong with them, that they're sub human, freaks, or pathetic because they don't want to have sex with a "Real Woman"... Maybe you're the problem. Maybe it's that attitude that makes them no longer give a shit. Maybe it's you women who aren't putting in the effort to make it worthwhile. doesn't matter really. It's no coincidence that the new wave Feminism, MeToo, MGTOW, Incels all came about roughly at the same time. It's no coincidence in the last decade AI has been improving, that sex dolls are becoming more realistic and cheaper and that Sexbots are making leaps and bounds in development. The genders are drifting apart and nobody gives a shit to try and make things better. doesn't really matter anyways. We have more than enough humans on the planet at the moment.

    • amen brother! yea society thinks we men are supermans that gotta handle whatever the fuck that throws at us. yet when we act like true superman and works to our advantage they want to crucify us as toxic masculinity and like you said they do want us to be more emotional one minute and robotic the other. bottom line is women want you to be whatever the fuck they want you to be no matter what that is just as long as it works to their service and needs

    • and the porn stuff is a little complicated to explain. these guys will explain it 1000X better than I do...

      https://nofap.com/

      https://www.yourbrainonporn.com/

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  • Didn’t read it. Well, most of it anyway.

    In my opinion most millennial men aren’t having much sex because... well look at yourselves. Woke culture, man buns, skinny jeans, soy lattes, gluten free everything and voting for Obama. What girl would be sexually attracted to a generation of feminized pussycats?

    That said, you guys were indoctrinated from day one. There never was an opportunity to form your own opinion because liberalism and feminism have been crammed down your throats 24/7/365 from the moment you came out your dads nut sack. Nobody taught or influenced you guys otherwise.

    Now, that said, there is a lot of truth to those memes. None of it stopped me from getting laid left and right. It’s like Kenny Rogers said in that song the Gambler. You gotta know when to hold em’, know when to fold em’ etc etc. That’s how you end up side stepping the bad ones most of the time and the crap that comes with them, and there are a lot of bad ones. A lot of them!

    Anyway how would your generation know differently? You were all raised by single mothers and force fed feminism, so you are all very much the product of your environments.

    • what you mean look at yourself? dude, I am definitely not one of those pussycats. never own skinny jeans in my life and its a little flawed to say women today not aren't attracted to these clowns as these are the type women flock to the most. and don't get me started how women are at fault the most for this. always demanding us to be softy asses for them. I agree with your 2nd paragraph all the way. luckily I wasn't born in america and grew up with a culture that does praise masculinity; though it was still not free of gynocentrism. you're 3rd paragraph. I'm pretty sure it was your looks, your economics and status that gave you the edge. trust me, that PUA bullshit that women are attracted to confidence is false all the way. a lot of us know differently now thanks to MGTOW and the Red Pill community that has done a good job at racing awareness at the toxic direction we were guided to

    • @CasaNorba Same here, no pussycat (read: softy) in mind. But the truth is that a "Yes" (to consent sex) is today a "No" for those feminazis (3.0). There are women out there where a "Yes" means "Yes" and the male behaves and doesn't overuse it, just great sex, you know?

Most Helpful Girls

  • I agree with you. Men don't want to play these days. Women have many rights which men don't have. Many women think they are better than men, they trick them, use them. Recently a friend of my boyfriend left his girlfriend because she didn't allow him to see his kids from his former ex. In the end she wanted him to take care of her own kids.
    If men don't do things that women want, they're bad. That's how some or many women think.
    BUT... Not all women are like this. Not all women or men are bad. But social media plays an important part. It changes the way women and men interact.

    • i doubt is social media, cause false rape allegations and paternity frauds have been going on for quite a while

    • Social media? I would say it is feminism that has ruined the traditional family.

    • Do you feel the repercussions coming from the MGTOW community?

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  • That's a very long way of trying to make yourself feel better about the fact that no woman wants to have sex with you

    • was that supposed to be offensive? cause I feel more than good right now being at peace maintaining my celibacy. all that peace along with my freedom is gonna be gone if I lose it. till then didn't you said you were still a virgin in one of my last questions?

    • Says the person who posts the same repetitive masturbation polls because she's never had sex before and wants to inflate her status on here by spamming the same questions, just worded differently. "People living in glass houses shouldn't throw stones."

    • Do any of you see me writing long MyTakes blaming my celibacy on men? No? Then there's not really a comparison to be made.

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  • Goddamn, well, combining those points I could see where you could make a good argument for why it would make men avoidant of relationships. I'm missing where it would make you stop having sex though. Women being more and more picky, especially about casual encounters would be a very valid reason.

    If you had kids of your own that would go up there too. As far as worrying about metoo moments, what the hell is that anyway? I'm going to guess from your thread a false accusation of rape. Generally a woman would only do that if you are things like rich, or famous, of which I highly doubt anyone on here is both. Perhaps one of the other, but not both. If you are surveillance systems are cheap as hell.

    Divorce depends on what state you get married and divorced in. Same goes for child support, if you have enough money to legitimately worry about it supporting a child and adult's lifestyle, you have a good enough lawyer to set up an estate the mother cannot touch.

    Again, I can see where it would make you reluctant to get into a relationship, but to defend your virginity so much, something else has to have happened there man, and I'm sorry it did. Truly. I've had to overcome a lot to keep putting myself out there, but it's worth it every time. Hope you find that strength.

    • @razelove "Divorce depends on what state you get married and divorced in. Same goes for child support, if you have enough money to legitimately worry about it supporting a child and adult's lifestyle, you have a good enough lawyer to set up an estate the mother cannot touch." Have you ever been to divorce court? If you are married and are unfamiliar with divorce court you are one lucky man. Estates? Not likely. Pre-ups? In some jurisdictions forget about it, the judge will dismiss it. Since the state gets federal dollars collecting child support and there is a huge state bureaucracy that collects child support. Child support payments from divorced fathers and federal dollars on top of it. The state is making out like a bandit. Say "goodbye" to the estate idea. It's not what is in the best interests of the children. It is what is in the best interest of the government.

    • @joeblow123 I've been divorced before, no kids in that one and things went swimmingly. I got everything I wanted by working things out beforehand, and having an at-fault divorce. Documentation is crucial. On the estate end I have been close to two different cases, one man who was rich in new york, and has alimony to pay now that is in excess of what he currently makes. Another who made more money, and was more paranoid about how it was made, so he effectively made zero dollars on paper. At the time of his death he had I believe 12 children, no alimony, and child support from estates in an amount of his choosing. I am very familiar with divorce and custody court, as I am familiar in getting what I want. If you fail to achieve that, you cannot blame a system, you can only blame yourself for not learning it and how to manipulate it to your advantage. If there is no money for the state to make, they have no interest in you. There are countries other than america to put your money in, make it in, or pay your taxes in. Failure of imagination or paranoia on your part is not my fault, or the government's fault. It is yours for playing a linear game rigged to fuck you in a linear way and being shocked that people get fucked by it. The mothers too in non-alimony states. Aside from the upper-middle class, child support is not enough to support a child.

    • @razelove I'm not married. Never have been. Never will be. However, I've read stories about guys who were fucked over in family court. Judges ignoring pre-nups and other legal defenses men can use.

  • i LOVE THIS GUY... looooool... i could not even find ONE point of contension with all the shit you said... not even one. I thought i had reasons... but goddamn.
    welcome to the Xander Zone... women are going to eat you ALIVE for this shit. But it seems like you have transcended the pussy so that probably makes you happy too lol... women HATE IT when they cannot use their pussy to control men... absolutely hate it. and when a man speaks up for himself, they shit on him so he can go back to "his place" according to them.
    many women are probably going to talk about how much you dont get laid, and how you need pussy, etc, but none of them know your real life... so fuck em. secretly, between you and the women who say that ignorant shit.. you probably get laid more than they do lol.

    My thing... the thing that got me.. was the prostitution thing... thats what made me add you. except, I've been saying that for years.
    "every woman is a prostitute, the only difference is time".

    Fucking GREAT Take.

    • Gentlemen, ( Im giving you the benifit of a doubt) To call women prostitutes just because of your experiences and extreme logic, is grudge carrying hate it feels like. Women are people, human beings. Not snakes or whores. The fact that you have at least one person who LOVES you is unsettling. Just be civil when the next woman " threatens you"

    • thanks brother! glad to see more men are finally waking up. but yea pretty much predicted the future as there are already a few female users here who try to call me an incel. but yeah all women do got prostitute encoded in their DNA, I can write a book on why and anoher difference is that real prostitutes are honest women, while most women nowadays are just dishonest prostitutes. that might explain why prostitution itself is illegal today yet dating isn't.

    • Fucking great take? You dont fucking read much do you?

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  • I mean the majority i can see facts but really... the performance one? Women get dissed for “just laying on their backs” all the time. So thats about the only one i fully disagree with

    • did you read that part from top to bottom?

    • Oh, poor baby. Men are dissed for: 1. Not being brave enough. 2. Not being subservient to women. 3. Protesting the injustices against men. Meanwhile, feminists are never called on their misandry. 4. Not holding it in if he is a victim of a crime.

    • @joeblow123 Men are no sexual crime victims, even when the women did it obviously to rape (humiliate) him like (read: example follows) face-sitting with almost no air supply. If he tries to speak up, they (feminists 3.0) can easily say he wanted it.

  • I don’t appreciate you using black women as your header to discuss a point you’re trying to make. Get your point across without the need to bash others in the process of doing so.

    • who said this only pertains to black women? black, white, brown, yellow, orange or whatever color the skin women are still women so why dont instead you learn how to get your point across without bringing racism to the table; this means you have no argument by the way...

      https://imgur.com/a/R8O7aCp

    • Nobody would want any of that ugly trash anyway

    • Be clear with your content next time then there wouldn’t be any confusion with which race you were referring to. Good day.

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  • I saw a lot of these reasons pointed out in the other post on why men aren't having as much sex today--so I take it the OP agreed with those. And I think a lot of people know these things. The problem as I see it is that too many men themselves are so busy competing AGAINST each other that they see each other as THINGS to overcome or beat into submission. So while these horrible things are happening to men in general, men aren't standing up to stop them.

    Half the government is men. Half the work force is men. Half of society is men. So men should be working together to reverse unjust laws; stop abusive law enforcement tactics that target males in homes...; rebuild education so that there are JUST AS MANY male-friendly scholastic models and opportunities; stand up to universities and employers who're admitting, hiring, and promoting based on anti-male gender bias instead of objective merit; boycott companies, advertising interests, and media (including online/video games where EVERY villain to be killed and tortured is exclusively male) that perpetuate the sick myths that men are stupid, bumbling idiots or social predators who need to be brutally killed.

    Whenever I talk about this at school, other girls don't care (why would we? we're the ones getting the unfair benefits now) and guys all jump to the defense of the hypothetical girl victim. I give up. If you guys wanna sit back and let this happen to you, almost no one else is going to advocate on your behalf.

    • not saying I totally disagree with you but women aren't helping out at all in this part of life. women aren't children and those politicians do not hold them at gunpoint to behave how they have been. maybe they should start taking more responsibility for themselves and stop screaming rape so much and demanding men to solve all their damn problems.

    • @CasaNorba I was trying to say that women don't have much incentive to help out. Some of us are happy men are hurting, even dying, because we hate men due to past bad experiences. Some of us are just selfish and are happy sucking up the benefits set aside for us preferentially. And some of us are just too self-absorbed to listen to what you guys are going through. I agree with you that we women SHOULD... But you know life is often not how we think it should be. Guys are going to have to stand up for themselves.

    • @AiahZ I do fight back. Google "men's rights blog". In response to women's indifference, I have become indifferent to their suffering. In fact, I find it quite enjoyable.

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  • Come one, all the women know that the main reason is that all the guys are being born with smaller and smaller dicks. Not too long from now our clitoris will be bigger than your dick. You wouldn't even be able to get past our labia lips with your pea shooter. When they talk about outies and innies it won't be belly buttons or nipples they are talking about. And you think GAG is inundated with dick size questions NOW? Just wait another generation and it will need it's own website.

    The REAL Reason Why Men aren't Having As Much Sex Today

    BECAUSE I DIDN'T HAVE ANYTHING TO PUT IN TO BEGIN WITH :(

    • otfrl! we are being born with smaller dicks yet you all still bitch and complain about pain and discomfort during intercourse and I think clits along with labias in women are already way above average in size from all the fucking they've done throughout their lives. in hopes to get dudes to fall in love with them or exchange it for free dinner and attention since after all is the only thing you women have to bring to the table.

    • You are certainly talking about a lot of girls these days. But don't just blame the girls. You have a bunch of fuck boys in your corner who will tell a girl anything she wants to hear, who make her think she needs a boyfriend in order to be in the "in" group. What they are really want is a fuck toy so they can brag to the other guys who much she loves being fucked and how big a stud they are. These guys are nothing but douchebags and what a lot of the male teens are like these days. Who winds up the loser? The girls who feel they have to have sex to be popular and give the guy a blowjob every time he snaps his finger. Are you sure you want to be associated with the male gender? If so I'm sure a lot of girls would love to peg you in order to take their frustrations out of for being subjugated by all the fuck boy douchebags.

    • "You have a bunch of fuck boys in your corner who will tell a girl anything she wants to hear, who make her think she needs a boyfriend in order to be in the "in" group." her fault for listening to a fuckboy, no fuckboy holds them at gun point. I guess that "I'm strong and independent" agendas do not work for them in this department

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  • If I were to mention any of this to normal people on the street they would look at me like I had just escaped from insane asylum.

    • Everyone has their own definition of "normal"

    • www.google.com/.../normal
      Just accept that you and the incel community are not the standard.

    • who said I was an incel?

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  • GOOD! It’s about time that men start thinking about the consequences of sex. Women have been doing this since the dawn of time. Getting the vast majority of guys to put on a condom is like pulling teeth. Still don’t buy it though. The vast majority of millennial men are still having sex. Any trip to the bar or a cruise through a dating site will tell you that. And I would venture to guess the majority that aren’t are far more likely doing it involuntarily. An Incel who claims to be MGTOW is still an incel.

    • @coralee "GOOD! It’s about time that men start thinking about the consequences of sex." Every time a man has sex with a woman she can accuse him of rape. Women have the freedom to withdraw consent anytime they feel like. For whatever reason. Even if he is cleared his reputation is in shatters and some vigilantes may decide he is guilty anyway and do horrible things to him. If a man meets a woman in a bar he has to be careful she doesn't put anything in his drink to rob him or worse. This actually happened in Nashville. If he picks up a prostitute outside the legal areas of Nevada or anywhere else it is legal he takes the chance of getting caught by the police in a sting operation or she sets him up for a robbery or worse or she attacks him while giving him sex or instead of sex. Men are very aware of the consequences.

    • @joeblow123 And women have to worry about being raped, murdered, becoming pregnant and or getting an STI (which by the way should be a concern for far more men then it is). As someone who has sex with men I can tell you very few have a care in the world if they have a shot at having sex. You can make all these claims until you are blue in the face but the VAST majority of men are not echoing your concerns. Men should be concerned about who they have sex with. There are absolutely risks to them as well, I just wish it wouldn't be over something that is statistically a non-issue. You are far more likely to catch an STI in an encounter then you are to be falsely accused of rape. You are actually far more likely to be raped yourself then you are to be falsely accused and yet none of you seem to be worried about that.

    • Most of these point aren't the conesequences of sex, it's the consequences of not-sex.

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  • Sounds like a bunch of excuses. Sure, there are women that way but you're making a lot of assumptions. Anyway, this works out. Less desirable men weeding themselves out allows women to pick better ones.

    • "Less desirable men weeding themselves out allows women to pick better ones." isn't that what all of you have been doing for quite a while now? and I find it funny how the "most desirable" dudes according to all of you are the jerkoff who treat you all like shit and make your lives miserable.

    • Again with the assumptions. You keeping yourself out of dating assures that women would have less of a chance of going for a toxic man.

    • you forgot that keeping myself out of dating also keeps my bank account full and my criminal record clean.

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  • No matter how crazy a women is, If she is hot enough men still want her.

    • yea desperate losers who either have no status or hate themselves do

    • If that's what you want to call the majority of the Male Population...

    • yea a lot of us agree for the fact that for quite sometime now we've been indoctrinated by the idea that a man's success is based on the quantity and physical quality of the women he's been with. but things are changing now, we are finally learning the hard way that this is causing us more bad than good.

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  • You just posted cringe bro

  • I just love it when virgins try to justify them not having sex with rape accusations. How many times Has it happened to you or your friends that you consider it such a threat to your life?

    The REAL Reason Why Men aren't Having As Much Sex Today

    Overall it's all bs. You've probably never had a woman in your life so you try to demonize them. I hear the same bs over and over and it's always from the incel MGTOW crowd

    • and I love it when the TRUE VIRGINS assume you are a virgin when you bitchslap them hard with the truth and exposing how pathetic their only priority in life is. it has it came close to happening to me a few times buddy and it has happen to my male friends and relatives a lot; one of them even when to jail for it. yeah all virgins the true simp who have never been with a woman always claim is bs, until it happens to them when they try so hard to lose their virginity or quench their thirst

    • I don't know what it means that it came close to happening, you either get accused of rape or you don't, I don't think there's an inbetween. I honestly don't care about getting into an exchange of calling each other a virgin. I know I've had many wonderful women and even casual sex and no rape accusations ever, and it never happened to any of my male friends either. Whether what you say is true or not is not relevant to me and I simply don't care enough to get into an argument about it

    • oh there is, you can get accuse yet show evidence that it did not happen, which it doesn't always work. when is not the authority is other folks in the streets you must watch out for. till then if you knew this doesn't pertained to you and DONT CARE then why are you here wasting your time with your self righteous and heroic opinions?

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  • He's single, ladies. I'm just putting that out there...

  • I don’t see anything wrong with people having less sex but anyway... I don’t really agree with this but hey my experience is obviously not your experience 😂 good luck !

    • I'm a guy and you are a girl, therefore we can't ever have the same experiences.

    • Ok 😂

  • Thank you millennial men for making it so easy for me to have sex with millennial women.

    • Yeah hopefully you got a good income and nerves of steel

    • 😂😂😂 @waiterRadio That’s so true. Haven’t dated a girl from my generation in years.

    • @Exterminatore that's nothing to feel flattered about. the reason why millennial women love dudes in their 40s like the two of you is that most of you are on their way or already have reached seniority and you would all do anything for young meat aka easy to manipulate with pussy

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  • Or men have lowered themselves to the point that they know the kind of women they want for marriage are beyond their reach. 🤷🏽‍♀️

    • didn't knew sex and marriage were the same thing as never once did I mentioned the word "marriage" here. oh that's right! you're Muslim and the only way you can actually have sex is by getting married

    • At least people in past who would marry had more sex than men do today and Islam is still the fastest growing religion ;)

    • had more sex with the same miserable person daily.

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  • I don't like generalizing why other men aren't having sex, but I can offer my personal reasons.

    In my younger days I had some severe social anxiety, a very troubled home life, and not many friends. In my early teens my crush had just shattered me, accused me of being a pervert who only wanted to stare at her ass, and she'd tell this to other girls, in front of me. The rest of my highschool days I never really had another crush, and I was paranoid with trying not to look like a pervert. I felt like I was offending even if I laid my gaze on a girl... My life's focus was surviving highschool with a crazy alcoholic mother and a rage-filled father, so I didn't think about girls that much. However, I'd feel some bitterness at watching the obnoxious and cocky guys get hot girlfriends when they already live privileged lives where they live in a million dollar house and they're bought a car on their 16th birthday. And that's not to say I wasn't subconsciously trying to attract girls, stupidly by doing the whole 'nice guy' strategy of trying to be kind and unsexual.

    After I graduated and started working, I began to panic at the fact I never had any sort of relations with a woman. I began hanging out on reddit's 'foreveralone' subreddit, and that led me to the MGTOW one. Being introduced to 'red pill philisophy' really changed my perspective on women. Lot of that stuff is retarded hatred, but it just made it possible to criticize women in my own eyes. You know, before you'd think just the guy was an asshole for being abusive to his poor girlfriend. But after my new mindset I'd actually question the woman's motives for choosing and staying with that man, or even having a child by him. I'd start to take notice of women's bad behavior, and how they often weren't willing to go the same distance men were in relationships. I even cut my mother out of my life after all the shit she put my dad and I through when I realized she wasn't the victim in her own life, she was the victimizer.
    ...

    • I then saw that it was always up to the man to earn the woman, it's always up to the man to buy valentines gifts and make plans for the anniversary, always up to the man to charm and ask a woman out, up to the man to pay for the wedding and an expensive golden ring. And what does a woman have to do? Look pretty and enjoy the ride. Men have to look pretty and do literally everything else. And after all the shit I've been through, and being a people pleaser my entire life, that didn't appeal to me any more. How about a woman try to earn me? Not a chance. It's not like I'm ugly or fat. I'm tall, blonde, and previously was in great shape. Simply being an introvert renders one invisible to women. I doubt women put much effort into getting attractive extrovert guys anyway. Then you've got all the turn offs about women these days... Many of them are fat, pierced, tattooed, and use other methods to go out of their way to look ugly. Feminism basically proves women will whine till the end of the world. Men get sent off against their will to be blown to bits overseas and they result in having pride in sacrificing themselves for country and kin. Then with women it's a tragedy that they make less money on average than men even though they work less. Goes to show how women see men. There's the absence of female personality. Most women will engage in whatever culture is popular. What else do they like? I dunno... petty drama, relationship bullshit, feminist whining? ...

    • I feel as I've already made this point, but I'm going to emphasise, I feel like women see men for what they can provide them, not who they are as people, and their value comes from their ability, status, or wealth. Any time a man is in a state of weakness they become trash to women. I don't see myself trusting or loving anything that looks at me that way. I want someone who would hold and cradle me in my time of need, and nurse me back to health, but with women they'd chuck you over their shoulder off a bridge and run off to find your replacement. Lastly, the whorishness. I don't care if someone wants to be promiscuous... I really don't... but it's a huge turnoff. The worst part is you come to realize every woman is a whore for the right price. And you know, I'm content without women. There's times when I desire someone laying next to me in bed, but that's really the only time.. I've got good friends for company, quality porn to satisfy sexually, and I can't really fathom how a woman would improve anything. Just more effort I have to spend for eventual heartache and headache.

  • While people like this (male and female) sit there bitching in their never ending excuses, others are out there making it all happen and living their best lives. It’s all about perspective and choices. How does the saying go? “It’s not how hard you get hit, it’s how hard you get hit and keep on going!”

    • well, it doesn't matter how hard you get hit. I doubt you're gonna be able to keep going when every hit penalizes you

    • Every hit is unrealistic, there’s no way that happens unless someone refuses to learn.

    • not when the hits cause you to become a sex offender, false rapist, or a society target. even if you learn from these mistakes you still have your freedom, social image and even life at stake. the only way you can avoid these hits is by not engaging in the fight at all

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  • I honestly don't really agree. None of this is actually stopping men from having sex with women, and there's no proof that men are having less sex these days. From what i see, men are having way more sex because unfortunately, many women have made themselves available. Maybe it's true from your opinion but not from what I'm seeing. I believe you're just speaking for yourself and some of the others that may have shared your experiences

    • "From what i see, men are having way more sex because unfortunately, many women have made themselves available." nah sister you can't assume all men have the same advantages. the only men who are having more sex today are the rich boys, meatheads and thugs that are willing to give the bimbos they fuck free dinner or other things to brag about. till then regardless if they even do get the sex they still aren't safe from what I've mentioned above. I'm not the only dude who had to deal with clingy psycho bimbos in the past.

    • How long have men be putting themselves out there for women? Numerous times for what I've seen and if they refused women and society would coerce them into doing so. Now that women are doing it do you have a problem with it. Misandrist much?

    • But you just assumed that the real reason why men are having less sex is because of etc etc. You also assumed on behalf of all men, I'm pretty sure its not the same for all. I just gave another insight to show you that other men have different opportunities from you. And I did not assume, I stated a fact for some men, hence why I also did not tell you what you said was wrong but in fact your own experience

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  • A few valid points (though many are fairly valid for women as well) but wrapped up in a lot of hostility and propaganda that weakens the argument

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