Things You Should Never Do When You Approach A Girl Online

Well,hello everyone.

it's me again.

So lately on GaG I've seen many guys anonymously asking "Why girls suddenly block them on social media yet they did nothing 'wrong' to them?"

So I got inspired & thought I should give you some reasons that girls ghost you,block you or ignore you that you guys DON'T CONSIDER 'wrong'.

I guess it's a triggering topic and some of you will be offended,but that won't stop me from revealing the harsh truth.

Disclaimer :

This MyTake's purpose isn't to offend someone on this site, if you do get offended it's your problem not mine.

Let's Start.

Things You Should Never Do When You Approach A Girl Online

1) Do Not Try To Make The Conversation Sexual From The First Second.

Every girl's expression when a guy sends them right away sexual messages.
Every girl's expression when a guy sends them right away sexual messages.

Many guys approach a girl and their first message to them are things like :

"U make me hard."

"My balls are huge."

"I want to f*ck you."

"My d*ck is 25 inches,wanna suck it?"

Congratulations for being so blessed by god...

But we don't care,at all.

And the way that you are trying to turn us on has only one result and that is to annoy us.

I understand that you are in the mood,everyone is at some point of our day is BUT stop pointing it out and sending messages like this,it's offensive and really annoying.

2)Do Not Try To Turn The Conversation Into Sexting From The 3rd second.

"Oh god,not again!"

This is also something that many guys do,they send messages to a girl,have a casual-normal conversation with them for like 2 minutes...

AND THEN BAM they start talking extremely kinky and sexually.

The conversation just takes a 360° unpleasant turn.

From : "How are you?"

You went to :"I want to tie you up and make you scream my name."

Yeah,SLOW DOWN.

Maybe you think that because she answers you,she automatically likes you?I don't know.

But you have to understand that there is a difference between being polite and wanting to sext with a stranger online,and believe me it's a BIG one.

(At this point I want to say that I never understood why you guys do that by the way.)

3)Do Not Ask About Their Sexual Life.

"Is this guy for real?"

"Are you a virgin?"

"Do you have sex with your boyfriend?"

"How many guys have you had sex with?"

IT'S NOT YOUR BUSSINESS.

This is a personal information that we don't share with many people that we are actually close with,what makes you believe that we'll share this information with you a.k.a a horny stranger online?

Exactly.

NO LOGIC.

You should never go for personal informations like these with someone you've never met before,especially a girl.

4)Don't Insist.

This is a real example. (No Idea why I haven't blocked him yet.)
This is a real example. (No Idea why I haven't blocked him yet.)

If you see that someone does not answer,stop insisting cause it gets extremely creepy.

And before you start attacking me on this one,yes it's somewhat rude for her not answer your messages,ever.

But in our (girls) defense,we get so many messages everyday we can't answer to anyone that decide to just approach us.

So...Move on to the next one boys!

-END.

AngelicSin

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  • "My dick is 25 inches, wanna suck it?"
    What the heck? Even if that was true, what girl would like that?

  • Wow!! It's THAT bad? I guess their mothers and fathers didn't do a good job with them.

    • It is that bad.

  • Wow, I would never approach anyone like this, That is not good form at all. Sory this happens to you or anyone.

    • Good

  • There are two reasons why I never message a girl on social. The one that fits here is that, I think anything I’ll say will be creepy, even if it’s not sexual (I barely talk about sex, let alone with a random girl)

    • *social media

  • Nice one. To sum up:
    1. No sex talk
    2. NO sex talk
    3. NO SEX TALK
    4. NO FKIN SEX TALK

  • I get rejected by girls online even without sexual harassment. There was once a girl I met online (not here) we texted each other a lot, had some similar interests and she send me pics etc. but as soon as I ask to meet in real she ignores messages or denies.
    It has happened with multiple girls.
    why girls do that?

    • Probably because you're super unattractive (to them) or because they are super shy; or you act too desperate; or you have taken too long to make the move for a date. There are lots of other reasons why women would decline sometimes it's to do with their view of your personality; others to do with their busy schedule (can't fit you in unless they're free) or your choice of dating venue. Coffee shops are probably the best places to meet because you can chat and talk without making it too formal. up.

  • This entire post could have been:

    1) Don't talk about sex.
    2) Don't be pushy.

    The End.

    ps: you provided no usefull insight, I wish there was a thumbs down button.

    • Remember when I asked for your opinion? Yeah, me neither

    • In case you didn't know, this is a public forum, where you post things, and people reply. If you don't want this to happen you need to keep your thought to yourself.

    • You know, everyone’s entitled to act like an annoying little prick once in awhile, but you really abuse the privilege.

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  • I lost hope in online dating

    • Online Dating Rocks man.. WTF :+)--

    • Oh gosh, you do these things?

  • Does any of that crap ever actually WORK? Has any guy gotten laid with such behavior?

  • So basically don't talk to girls online if you're horny.

  • NUMBER 1 (The ONLY one that matters) DON"T BE FAT or UGLY!!!

  • Sometimes it's really hard to be a woman :/

    • It is.

  • I don't approach women online

  • I really like the point of your take.
    But you know what i think,

    You made a mistake no, 2 actually.

    1. Why not show his username? Lmao whyyy? No balls showing the truth?

    2. MAIN

    you just helped them lmao.
    They will do try to do thses things but intentions will remain the same.
    That’s is BADDDDD.

    Most likely from 3 seconds they will go 6 seconds for nudes.

    Nice take though.

    • I realized I have made many grammar mistakes

    • Lol I just don't want him to bother me anymore

    • You failed epically then. He will read this.

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  • I had a friend here who was used to sext me. but we ended up because she didn't like me asking some personal questions to her. Now she doesn't reply to me because i knew that she got bored of me so after sending 5 messages i realized that she is not interested anymore. So I stopped texting her.

    well I learn from experiences I do. I have gone through so many times through these emotions and i also understand situations of girls that she can't handle so many guys at a time. but some guys hardly get girls to even sext. When suddenly she stops feeding him, He get feeling of hopelessness. Well the messages you shown shows clearly that some guys even ready to come to your country and fuck you. because girls hardly know the HOPELESSNESS. girls have lots of options to choose, so they don't hesitate to end up but There is one request from my side as well. Don't Initiate talk IF you just wanna ghost that guy at the END.

  • l am an honest guy

  • nice take

  • You make good points

  • The three women in your video clips are extremely attractive. But I'll keep that for myself.

  • Or just don't approach a girl online. Even if you don't talk about sex most don't want to talk to you anyway so it doesn't even matter.

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