Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health i told my boyfriend that i don't want him watching porn in my house since he has his own place. it just feels more respectful to me that way.
plus.. i'm a very sexual woman so i hate the secrecy.
one night he was stopping over mine but we were in separate rooms. i was half awake and he came slightly into my room and looked at me for a min and half, he then went to the bathroom and it was quiet, he was in there for 2 mins and i knocked on the wall to see if he was ok, i heard him stumble and then 2 mins later he flushes the chain. i went in for a pee and there was a goopy blob of some kind on the floor. i wiped it up but it's stayed shiney on the floor ever since. i think he jerked off in my bathroom. when i confronted him about it he panicked BIG time and said he wasn't jerking off to porn. but i digress, as i have turned internet safe on he hasn't gone to the bathroom with his phone much anymore.
not sure why he would hide this from me, it has upset me a little because i trusted him. though despite this i have opened up to him and explained i will watch porn with him, and i have even suggest he masturbate next to me. because i have done it next to him many at times. he seems excited to do all this.
i do want to talk to him and try get him to be honest about what he did that night, so that he didn't have to feel like he needs to hide his arousal around me.
just wondering if i am going the right way about this? why would he hide doing that from me?
thanks x
Guys, think my boyfriend jerked off in my bathroom, so I have tried to be more sexually honest with him. is this good?
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it's my house so yes i do have a say. he has his OWN place if he wants to jerk off alone. if he wants to do something i would like him to include me because i have needs too. only idiots are taking this out of context saying i'm mad he touched his dick. did you not understand i want him to be less secretive and involve me more.. oh noes i'm the anti-Christ for wanting my boyfriend to enjoy himself around me rather than hidden from me.
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What Guys Said
(14)Suck his dick or give him a hand with that and I promise the problem will stop
i suck his dick a lot and he very much enjoys it. so i doubt that's it lol
I think you should let it go. Your great though for letting him do it next to you, but would you get annoyed if he did it all the time? Also, watching porn is with your partner is sexy, maybe tell him what you like and what you want to try. That’s sexy too.