Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health 
My take on (guy's propensity for) virginity and inspired by 5 Reasons Guys Prefer Experienced Women in Bed.
I hear it all the time: Guys love virgins! Guys wish every girl they sleep with could be a virgin!
Why should it not be? It is unsurprisingly obvious that guys like virgin girls. Biologically, we are made to prefer them so that, we could have better chances to spread 'our' genes to the offspring. We want to be sure that we are our children's father. But we don't live in caves anymore and there are a lot of things like implants, condoms, pills and girls who say things like:
Of course, most of us are not virginity hunters and we respect promiscuous women. So, why in the 21st century, guys still find it a turn-on if the girl is a virgin? Let me tell you why.
Less danger of a misunderstanding
These days, girls are very forward-looking. They know how to get their job done. Guys do sex only because they want children or pleasure (or revenge? that's too deep, let's not talk about this), but girls can do sex for a lot of luxuries. Guys may misunderstand the girls' intention and could end up being broke, blackmailed, suicidal, losing their youth hoping she's the one. Obviously, this requires a lot of skill and experience. Virgin girls are unlikely to abuse men by using sex compared to hoes as they are doing it only in love. Keep in mind that I used the word "hoes", not "promiscuous women", because they are not bad girls in any sense, at least I believe so.
There's no ambiguity or questioning when it comes to virgin women. If they don't want it, you'll know. If they do, you'll know then, too. No ifs, ands, or buts.
We want blood during sex
Seriously, it's such a turn on and most likely, a 'once-in-a-lifetime' moment. We are not talking about 'menstrual blood' here obviously. It gives us a feeling that we totally owned her. Yes, it might hurt a lot, but (boys, take a lesson) men know that it is completely normal and there is nothing to be freaked about. An astonishing achievement to add to your list (or bucket list?).
The guy will enjoy himself with a virgin
One of the reasons I don't get why people believe guys love experienced women is because it doesn't mean that you "learned" from your 'experiences'. I've been with several "experienced" women (so experienced that they already lost their count) who can't even ride properly or suck at sucking. They just lie on bed and do nothing. Even the most experienced girls had to learn how to do the things properly at some point. I hate to break to you, but being experienced doesn't guarantee that she is a crackerjack!
And who says virgins can't be fun? It is such a turn on to see their expressions when someone is not just seeing them naked but doing a lot to their body they only fantasized in their life, making them comfortable, turning them on, hearing their loudest moan ever, being helpless and begging for it to end but wanting their guy's pleasure at the same time. What can a guy expect more than that?
Experimentation is a GO
She will be doing the biggest experiment of her life. The experiment she can do only once. It would mean a lot to her. We all are nervous before performing on stage, but we know that we have to do it and the outcome will be prolific. Now, think about how would it feel to have a person like that in front of you, want to make you happy, all nervous because of you? She spent all those years, repressing her wild side and now, she chose YOU to unleash that. You will be craving for that moment. You will really want to try it out.
Experienced women already enjoyed a lot. They must have done a lot of things. What is experimental to you, could be monotonous for her. But for a virgin, you will teach her what sex really is. You are her master. She is ready to do that all. There is a long way to go. She's ready to fulfill her fantasies on you and guys don't lose out easily.
Guys go in knowing they have to step up their game
Okay, a little pun in that subtitle there but you know what I mean. With virgins, guys know how big deal it is. This is not your typical hook-up with a random nympho. She trusts you, loves you and this is going to hurt her really bad. She might get freaked out. There is a lot of responsibility. It requires real guts to get the consent of a virgin, take her to your bed, turn her on, take her clothes off and finally do it WITHOUT making her completely apathetic about the whole idea of sex.
Anybody can ram it in, but with virgins, it is very perplexing task and guys really love that thrill. When it ends, it makes them feel like winners, a great ego boost. I guess a good analogy would be this: If you're playing in the majors, it wouldn't be much fun to play with some random dude from A ball, right? You want some competition; you want to play with someone who can bring out the best in you. Give your best thrust guys ;)
[Bonus]
Religion, Marriage values, No comparison, Purity, Virgins can get 'experience' but experienced ones can't become virgins unless we really trust them lol and last but not least, this take applies on long term relationships.
Suggested reading: Top 5 Reasons Why Guys Prefer Experienced Girls in Bed
#rekt
Thanks for reading. Virgin or not, guys love girls. Don't hate, checkmate.
Game on folks, believe!
What Girls & Guys Said
56 50I prefer virgins as the majority of guys do but not fully for the same reasons
Ditto :)
I am offensive and I find this virgin!🙈😎😜
LOL Plot twist: You are pleasing and you found this virgin!
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"I want blood"
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That was a reply to the take I mentioned below. Kindly click it and read what she wrote in the point number 4 (descending order).
OK I read it, then read your take again lol
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Also I am wondering how come I got 3 blue upvotes lol (didn't count the one by you).
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If a man tell me that he want blood during sex I'll run and never look back.
Not literally "wanting". It was worded like that in response to the take I mentioned. I know it's cringy 😅
Very wise decision!
Girls bleed when they lose it? I didn't and I hadn't heard of this IRL from anyone. But this is why more people should do fingering first before they have sex. If he can get 2 fingers in she'll be fine. And she can bleed or whatever then. Sex the first time is awkward enough no need to add in pain and blood for no reason. Foreplay FTW.
Also in case any girls read this, another tip is that fingering is great for practice too because you can be simulated however you need or how long you need. There's no reason to feel pressure or be nervous when he fingers... so just tell him what you want and need in bed pls!! Just tell him what you'd like and what feels good during sex too.
No, I didn't say that everyone do. And yes, you are right :)
"We want blood during sex"
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Yus
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Ahah nice response.
LOL Thanks :D
The blood thing made me cringe...
It is making me cringe too. Should have worded it better.
I agree @YourFutureEx
Ew for blood. It's the biggest downside of them all.
The only benefit is that the likelihood of her having STDs is much lower, unless inherited from parents or obtained through the blood or unfortunate skin contact.
And the downsides?
@Mesonfielde the other benefit is that she didn't let other guys to defile her.
@Berethor I don't believe in the concept of being "defiled".
It amazes how many men want virgins but aren't Virgins themselves😒 This is off topic but it also amazes me how it seems like porn is only for men. Every porn I watch it's a bitch walking in front of the camera or doing a strip tease, shaking her ass or playing with her pussy/ titties. I'm not gay or I would be on lesbian porn if I wanted to see that. So why can't there be porn where men shows off their dicks and bodies? Why does it seem like men think the world revolves around them. like they can only desire virgins but aren't vigins themselves? 😒
What can we do? There's prejudice everywhere ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
It's called double standards and most men don't care.🙄
Nobody cares about double standards as long as they are enjoying the benefits
Technically Women care about double standards
Oh please
One thing I'd like to add about this virgin/experienced debate:
While virgin is an obvious term and we all know what it means, "experienced" is extremely subjective. I think most people just think it's somebody who has had a lot of sex, and too many just equate "experienced" with "slut."
That's not how I see it, though. I mean, if she's a slut she deserves the title. But I view an experienced woman as someone who is both physically and mentally mature in the realm of lovemaking. Someone who knows what they want, knows how to do a few things, and is aware of all the OTHER things in the relationship upon which sex has a clear impact. Virgins and inexperienced girls just have no idea about the extenuating circumstances, consequences, etc, and they act all surprised (or terrified) when they see them.
When you get older, you have little patience for people who just haven't grown up yet when it comes to romance and love. There's quite a bit to learn about romantic relationships and of course, sex is a big part. If you don't have experience, you're in for a bit of a rough ride at first, and that makes things difficult for both parties. It's part of the maturing process... which is why once I hit 25, I pretty much was done with clueless girls. ;)
Totally agree. I think it'd be easier for inexperienced girls if they just communicated more or even asked questions... like don't just let the guy decide everything, ask and tell him what you need too.
Yes, sir. Totally agree :)
Same bro clueless is a turn off i can't teach u how to be in a realtionship they should have dated in HS or on college or at 18-19 i got no time to sit down and show her the do's and dont's and convince her everything will be fine
@Fuentes I think more girls should just ask questions or at least be more open... then way less confusion.
I don't know if you did that but thanks for editing. I didn't know that it is really that important to tell them beforehand where I am coming from :)
Yeah I don't prefer virgins in bed tbh. They don't know what the fuck they are doing.
Hmm... you better know. I've never been with one, except just oral.
If I would rather have a virgin girl, yes of course. This "experience" part is irrelevant. I am not in for a one-night stand or anything, we'll have plenty of time to get experience in our marriage.
Das good :)
Speak for yourself. Immature guys prefer virgin women, unless they are virgins themselves this is total bullshit.
Speak for yourself. Immature guys prefer hoes.
Dude, your user name is your future ex. I think we know your maturity level. It is completely ridiculous to expect a woman to have slept with less people than you have, or especially to be a virgin if you are not. I could understand if she slept with 14 guys and you've been with one girl. But past both of you being virgins, I think a small difference is fine either way. It's pretty sexist to say that women should be Virginia and you get to sleep around as much as you want
What if I name myself Jesus or Allah would you worship me then? Name doesn't matter. I am not demanding virgins. All girls I've dated were not virgin. And I was completely okay with that.
Then my original comment does not challenge anything you are saying.
Once a person has past a certain age they start slowing losing a piece of their soul year by year. There is a time for everything
LMAO this sounds like words of saints :D
And what made u think as a virgin i want a manwhore like u? Lol, if i'm a virgin i want a guy who is in the same shoes as me, why? Cuz i fucking preserved and protected my virginity for him so i expect him to do the same.
What if I say "please"?
Fuck off.
So rude. I'd never say please to ill-mannered people.
K :)
LOL I was kidding. I respect your opinion :)
Whatever...
If you think men and women equal, and truly love your partner, is there any reason to think about his/her virginity? Immature and stupid. Don't say it is an instinct-we are human being, not just an animal.
No..
I accidentally stepped in something just like this post in a barnyard yesterday.
Be careful, fella.
Never ever heard a guy say they prefer virgins. Ever.
We don't talk things like that on daily basis. We can't risk turning anyone off.
Yeh perhaps because it screams peadohilla
You'd be surprised. The majority of guys do
Huh? Do you have any idea what pedophilia is? You don't even know the spelling by the way.
@Pearl85 you need to get out more if you never heard a guy say that and you bang out of order for calling him a paedophile. Men should not be shamed for their preferences. Grow up
@bobbyxx dont come here asking for opinions if you don't like the answers @YourFutureEx English is not my first language and I don't have English dictionary on my spellcheck. Hence wise I corrected.
He is entitled to his preferences and their is nothing you can do about it. Shaming and childish insults won't change anything.
But we still expect common sense from you.
@bobbyxx why is it childish you idiot! That's my opinion! If it insults you or him that's your problem not mine. @YourFutureEx as I said I corrected and AGAIN that's my opinion! Yes I know what a peadophile is and your take to me gives that impression. So what isn't common sense to you?
@G-Daz sorry I don't agree that it's the 'majority' some perhaps. And maybe a majority here. But in the real world I don't think you're findings would be the same.
Labelling him a paedophile is childish.
@bobbyxx Clearly you people don't come here for opinions but rather agreements on your Take which you consider to be correct. So if sharing my opinion and feeling which doesn't agree with what you say makes me childish I will take it. Good night.
Not my take
i know guys and guys won't outright say it in public because they think of how it comes off but most do
how does this equate to pedophilia? It's also quite common that I hear men prefer virgins. It's actually kinda nice.
@FashionQueen86 again, I never heard it. Ever.
Agree with you. Experienced guys don't feel that way. They actually want experienced girls usually since her V card is irrelevant to him. I don't think these guys have gotten around much with girls, so it means a lot to them.
@SovereignessofVamps 100%
@SovereignessofVamps they are also insecure and don't like the thoughts that a man had her before
Haha you are so wrong man. The only reason I would prefer a virgin over a non-virgin girl is there is something special knowing you are her first.
However, they are not as good at sex compared to experienced girls. Contrary to what you assert they are less risky and willing to try new things. Thats why they are a virgin still.
And the whole "guys want blood part". Wow I don't even know what to say. Every guy I have talked to about that thinks it is just a disgusting process that is required when sleeping with a girl. I can't think of anything more gross than having blood on my privates, particularly someone else's. If you honestly think that is a pretty sight than you are a psychopath.
Hmm nice.
Then why is that whenever I was a full on virgin, no guy wanted to date me, they just wanted to take my virginity, but then when I beacme promiscuous, every guy that approached me asked me out?
Because you were only talking to the douchebags? There is NOTHING wrong with being a virgin, like the OP said many guys just don’t want to put the effort in, which means they are selfish dicks who only care about their own needs.