Sounds like you already know what's going on. You're not in the same place emotionally,
First of all, chances are, he's probably not a terrible guy who's out to hurt you. He is definitely acting and reacting selfishly and he's probably not feeling the emotional connection that you are.
But, I think the real problem is that you two have very different sexual experiences and expectations. Guys are going to be more sexually motivated, even in a relationship, we feel like it's our job to initiate things and we tend to take every chance we get.
He probably doesn't understand where you are sexually, that you're not OK with a purely sexual relationship. I think that at some point in your life that might be something that you are more interested in. It can be a lot of fun to have an exclusive, less serious relationship. It just requires both people to be on the same page and you are not going to be able to be on that page with this guy being your first at everything.
Basically, it doesn't sound like this relationship is healthy for you. Not because he's intentionally hurting you, but because he can't be what you want him to be. It's not the end of the world, but you should cut things off before you get really hurt.0 0 1 0He fulfills you in every way.
You were a virgin.
You could have a great fulfilling sexual relationship with a guy who actually likes hanging around with you.
Dump his f***ing ass and start dating normal guys who want a girlfriend.
You liked the idea of 'taking things slow' because you were nervous, but things didn't move slow, it was just BS he fed you. Guys who want to ;take things slow; are usually players. They want to take making things official slow while still moving fast on the physical side. Guys who are NOT players want to move things along quickly to the point you're committed and having sex.1 0 0 0
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Listen honey get out now it will hurt it will hurt for days it will hurt for weeks it will hurt for months hell it may hurt for years but the longer you put it off the longer it will hurt and the more you will hate yourself for staying with him when you wanted to leave and staying. I stayed with an a**hole like that for almost 4 years and I've been with out him sinces October 17 months and I'm doing much better it really hurt the worst for the first 3 months the first 11 were hard I cried hard for the first three then got a boyfriend then dated him for a month got tired of him broke it off cried allot dated around cried some more dated some more I've been consistently single for a few months now but I would rather be single and available than selling myself to some a**hole. You are better than that. Kick that habit love yourself not that dousche.
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0 2It sounds as if he is just using you. The best way to go about this would probably ask him to commit more to the relationship, if he says no go ahead and end it.
It also sounds like your staying with him just because he got you to give yourself up. It may be hard to do, but cut your losses and start trying to find a man that actually cares about you rather then just sex.1 0 0 0You're wasting your life with a scumbag. Oh, and you're an idiot.
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